I need random opinion about this. A friend invited me for a Xmas party tomorrow. This is a guy who can never help you in anyways( financially, morally), instead showing off to oppress you. To be honest I have nothing against him but I don't just feel comfortable attending the party.. I haven't made up my mind yet though..

Pls advise

And here is where to seek for advice

if you are a party rider, and you envisage the benefit(romance) you should know wat to do.

You benefited nothing from him that u can boldly say, and you still remain with him SMH.

Go, eat, drink, smile, live some...would have added put on some lipsticks but you're a guy. Going to a party where you don't have to be thrown in the circle of prying aunties and uncles is the bomb. Don't look face jor.

can you give us any reason as to WHY YOU SHOULD GO to that party?!

MrBrownJay1:
can you give us any reason as to WHY YOU SHOULD GO to that party?!

I don't want people to term it as act of jealousy/feeling too big

Monogamy:
I don't want people to term it as act of jealousy/feeling too big

and why should you care what these people think of you?! bro, live YOUR life, and stop trying to fit in theirs...

isnt that the guy who would never help you in life AND you dont feel comfortable attending his party?!

Which mumu advice u come dey ask for again. Even if u no get esteem, pretend like say u get. Watch TV for ur house tomorrow. E no pass jollof and chicken weh dem go use pack ur sense comot further

Here is my advice
Go and sit your A$$ down with your family... If you don't have any family , go to the zoo, park, or local sports field where villagers / locals play to entertain free of charge..

It's high time you start doing what you want.. not what people expect you to do....Someone that doesn't care if you were existing, why should u be at his beck and call... Your MUMU never do yet?

MrBrownJay1:


and why should you care what these people think of you?! bro, live YOUR life, and stop trying to fit in theirs...

isnt that the guy who would never help you in life AND you dont feel comfortable attending his party?!

I've never understood what it means to care about what people think about you. I just don't get it.

He is looking for a crowd to make the party a hit. Go to the nearest bus stop to the location of the party and invite everyone. Tell them you want to have a big surprise party for your brother, take them all with you and head for the party. Make sure if he is preparing for 50 guests, you bring a hundred people. If you no see people wey follow you, go and buy okrika and dress up all the beggars and agberos.