Will you or can you let go of your kids to your wife in the event of a divorce?

For me no matter the reason for a divorce between husband and wife I cannot and will never agree to having my children grow away from me, I don't care who is wrong or right. I have seen first hand what happen to the children of a broken home. I will commit murder if need be but my children ramains with me.

Share your thoughts on this guys, can you?

the kid should stay with the parent who is best suited to raise and care for them (emotionall/physically)... if no understanding can be made then let them stay ONE week at daddys and one week at mummys, et voila!

each parents have the right to be with their kids, no matter how much such notion may be agaisnt your very selfish belief.

God forbid but if it happens, my children stays with me because I don't want any step mother problem for them

There are two things involved,
It's either the kids choose who they want to be with
OR The parents work out who they know will better be available for the kids ...They gotta be flexible about the whole shit though as condition should be subject to change.

bitchcrafts:
There are two things involved,
It's either the kids choose who they want to be with
OR The parents work out who they know will better be available for the kids ...They gotta be flexible about the whole shit though as condition should be subject to change.

Kids should never be made to choose who to stay with, that's just unfair in all ramifications, were there input involved during conception to ask then to choose?

theGigolo:


Kids should never be made to choose who to stay with, that's just unfair in all ramifications, were there input involved during conception to ask then to choose?

Did they ask u guys to divorce? It is bad enough that the parents are not matured enough to manage themselves for divorce to set in btwn them in the first place, ykno. The only condition I deem fit to counter that opinion is if the kids are not matured enough to choose.

bitchcrafts:
Did they ask u guys to divorce? It is bad enough that the parents are not matured enough to manage themselves for divorce to set in btwn them in the first place, ykno. The only condition I deem fit to counter that opinion is if the kids are not matured enough to choose.

My dear ser, divorce can happen for a number of reasons and most of this happen after children start coming, it could range from losing wealth (of the man), cheating, anger issues and general vices but it is bad enough the home is getting divided.

My reason for creating this thread is because of the recent news about the former asernal player who got divorced and lost his fortune and kids.