Dillusionist:
we are sick and tired of all this


okay,I just took my time to read those things up there thinking there will be atom of sense but heck,I was disappointed. .


how's is it going to ruin me

like how

seriously i don't get your point.

Dillusionist, na dis kinda thread dey L-O-N-G Oooooo!!! I also watched how d one on STOP PORN from inception take long dey corner-corner-up and down. Now on a serious note. A very big problem with when it comes to solving problems with RELIGIOUSITY is that DOGMA so inherent. The person telling you to stop has no substancial reasons to backing why you should stop this or that more than an indoctrination he or she has received which was never backed with REASONS hence when they come advocating that people should stop this and that, because the advocation LACKS WISDOM, AND NOTHING REALLY EDUCATIONAL, NO EMPIRICAL ANALYSIS it only triggers the vexation button in people, ending up making people to redouble their EFFORTS in what you are telling them to stop doing. This is PREACHING, which is the best way to RUIN humanity and have been ruining throughout human history. A method RELIGIOUS people suffering from SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS devoid of UNDERSTANDING apply to communicate. THE ENLIGHTEN MINDS TEACH AND NOT PREACH.

Predmine20. 1. You have not told anyone how having a boyfriend or girlfriend ruins?
Is it having a boyfriend or girlfriend that ruins us or what people choose to do in their choice of relationship that leads to ruination? Should we say with the way MARRIAGES are hitting the rock today, Marriage is a ruination and not a Blessing? YOUR POST EVEN THOUGH WITH GOOD INTENTION LACKS PROPER EDUCATION.

2. You have not given solutions on how people are suppose to navigate around this 'ruination'? What are the steps to getting married. Are you saying "NO" to courtship?

For Thy Kingdom come the Church PREACHES, everything about ABSTAINANCE from PRE-MARITAL SEX but NEVER teach us about SEX itself. This LACK OF SEX EDUCATION which the church refused to teach is one of the major reasons why we have PORNOGRAPHY TODAY. Do you know this predmine20. For it is a carnal culture for the Christain west. The east have INDEPTH Sex Education being taught THOUSANDS of years. This lack of sex education except the indoctrination KEEP YOUR VIRGINTY has made alot of marriages crumble for real, so many people LADIES who kept their virginity for their husband do regret doing so after the marry for they were so indoctrinated to the extent that the HATE SEX even when it is now lawful. PREACHING IS NOT THE SAME AS TEACHING. JESUS CHRIST IS A TEACHER NOT A PREACHER. I know you got good intentions but you really have to work on your method first else you will be doing more harm than good. My 5 cent.
  
Back your messages with statistics, with references, with undisputable facts, with illustrations and NOT JUST "GOD SAY, GOD SAY................." It doesnt work that way. Alot of PREACHERS have RUINED people for they make them DESPISE God, making them run away from God because they are NOT TEACHERS but PREACHERS. Teachers have insights as to make people see reasons and use their reason order than what the scripture says about 'DOs and DONTs' and they know how to make peoples hearts love God seeking to move closer to Him. Your post on Stop porn which is the TRUTH that porn has devastating effects, lacked substance to backing your points, you were NOT able to make people to really see the reason why watching porn is bad in an age of decadence like this. Which made someone who couldnt get the picture you were trying to paint to create a much more ABSURD COUNTER to your THREAD. If your thread was INTELLECTUALLY inclined such a person, people will have no choice than to SHUT D FVCK UP! I WISH YOU THE BEST!

WORDWORLD:


Dillusionist, na dis kinda thread dey L-O-N-G Oooooo!!! I also watched how d one on STOP PORN from inception take long dey corner-corner-up and down. Now on a serious note. A very big problem with when it comes to solving problems with RELIGIOUSITY is that DOGMA so inherent. The person telling you to stop has no substancial reasons to backing why you should stop this or that more than an indoctrination he or she has received which was never backed with REASONS hence when they come advocating that people should stop this and that, because the advocation LACKS WISDOM, AND NOTHING REALLY EDUCATIONAL, NO EMPIRICAL ANALYSIS it only triggers the vexation button in people, ending up making people to redouble their EFFORTS in what you are telling them to stop doing. This is PREACHING, which is the best way to ruin humanity. A method RELIGIOUS people devoid of UNDERSTANDING apply to communicate. THE ENLIGHTEN MINDS TEACH AND NOT PREACH.

Predmine20. 1. You have not told anyone how having a boyfriend or girlfriend ruins?
(Is it having a boyfriend or girlfriend that ruins us or what people choose to do in their choice of relationship that leads to ruination? Should we say with the way MARRIAGES are hitting the rock today, Marriage is a ruination and not a Blessing? YOUR POST EVEN THOUGH WITH GOOD INTENTION LACKS PROPER EDUCATION.

2. You have not given solutions on how people are suppose to navigate around this ruination? What are the steps to getting married. Are you saying "NO" to courtship.

For Thy Kingdom come the Church PREACHES, everything about ABSTAINANCE from PRE-MARITAL SEX but NEVER teach us about SEX itself. This LACK OF SEX EDUCATION has made alot of marriages crumble for real, so many people LADIES who kept their virginity for their husband do regret doing so after the marry for they were so indoctrinated to the extent that the HATE SEX even when it is now lawful. PREACHING IS NOT THE SAME AS TEACHING. JESUS CHRIST IS A TEACHER NOT A PREACHER. I know you got good intentions but you really have to work on your method first else you will be doing more harm than good. My 5 cent.
  
Back your messages with statistics, with references, with undisputable facts, with illustrations and NOT JUST GOD SAY, GOD SAY.................it doesnt work that way. Alot of PREACHERS have made people DESPISE God, making them run away from God because the are NOT TEACHERS. Teachers have insights as to make people see reason and use their reason order than what the scripture says and the know how to make their hearts love God seeking to move closer to Him. I WISH YOU THE BEST!

@first statement..yeah I noticed he can't even back up his claim outrightly..

smh,,

predmine20:
You ve lost it,your mind is as confused as confucius the chinese guy. just go you don't know what you want in life.

NO! NO! NO! How is Confucius a Confuse Chinese guy?! Dont you think you trying to create more problems by such a statement? DONT SAY WHAT YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT PLEASE. CAN YOU DEFEND YOUR STATEMENT? HAVE YOU TAKEN YOUR TIME TO STUDY PERENIAL PHILOSOPHY? THE PROBLEM WITH YOU GUYS IS LOVE FOR RELIGION AND NOT LOVE FOR TRUTH. No! Dont drag one of my Mentors in the mud please! Our problem is our PREJUICE for others, hence lack of tryin to understand the core of their teachings which is but a common ground with every teacher of TRUTH.

This thread na nonsense

LukeSkywalker78:
Then why beat the same topic every time I accept my mistake that I didn't look well before I commented but why beat this topic over and over? All you're just talking about is sexual immorality. The one you even posted previously hasn't been answered completely? You're just a one trick pony. We get your piont so stop barking like a dog suffering from dementia and shut the hell up.


My Two Cents

I won't shut up. i will keep saying the truth.

predmine20:
My definition is simple,don't have a woman or lady as girlfriend instead have her as your fiancee which you are engaged to or your wife when you enventually marry her,shikena.

so, you just meet someone and start fiancing abi

your mumu have do

Duchessree:
it won't ruin me

I will definitely not..

Mr predmine20, you have no moral right to admonish anyone at all. You think having sex, watching porn, having a boyfriend is the only sin or what?
See the way you respond to people that have different view from yours, you resort to insult and talking down at them. Does the holy scripture not tell you to love your neighbour as yourself.
If you can't pass your message with love, then carry your sanctimonious self comot here jor

@WORLDWORLD u talk true,this topic does nt impact knowledge but jst preaching.