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How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by NManonymous(m): 4:35pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
How do you cope with a short tempered woman? |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by dafeyankee: 4:37pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Kick them out. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
If she's ur gf, quit d rel If she's ur wife, report her to d family before quitting If she's ur mother or sister, keep a long distance away from her. NB; some wife who are beaten up by their husbands actually deserve it. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by greatnaija01: 4:43pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
if she is sexually satisfied then d temper will reduce by 70-80% NManonymous: |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by divinehand2003(m): 4:51pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
WARNING!!!! Do not dare trying to cope with or manage a short tempered woman. Rather, FLEE or run for dear life. Any man who finds himself entangled with such a woman is liable to die young. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 4:56pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
I'm short tempered 'cause I'm a choleric, and it's nothing to be ashamed of. All it takes is an understanding partner. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 5:00pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
kimbraa:Expecting to be understood over a weakness is not mature. Challenge ur weakness is better. 10 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by coolestofall(m): 5:04pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
If u care enough 2 put in d effort, hv a talk with her abt what triggers her temper. Then try as much as possible 2 avoid them. Hope she is not violent too sha. Dat one u hv 2 always watch ur back. |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 5:06pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
RadicallyBlunt:It's something that's ingrained in some humans, and maturity comes in its management. The Sanguines are very playful and don't get easily angered but that doesn't mean such people don't do the unimaginable when angered. |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 5:10pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
kimbraa:Easy anger is not justifiable |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 5:13pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
RadicallyBlunt:I don't get you. Are you now saying people don't have the right to be angry when angered no matter the magnitude?. |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
kimbraa:Anger shd be d last resort when it is clear dat d provocation is unbearable. Not a short temper that happens on every slight provocation. No matter how patient ur bobo is, he will be tired someday esp if he sees someone more gentle. |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 5:32pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
RadicallyBlunt:That someone is short-tempered doesn't mean it happens on every provocation. To some people, they don't get angry at situations they should while to others; the second the situation warrants them expressing how they feel, they don't hesitate. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
RadicallyBlunt:He'll dump me for someone more gentler if he's looking for a doormat to walk all over. Don't tell me the gentler person who sucks up a lot doesn't have her limits to suck up nonsense and not be expected to react. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 5:39pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
kimbraa:Oh so you wont hesitate about someone you love? Ok then. But what I know is dat d op is tired of enduring a lady such as you that's why he came for advice online. Only God knows what he'll do to her next. If he was like you who don't hesitate, he won't consider what binds them together. |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
kimbraa:Lol I know ur type. You just want someone you can dominate. Its ppl like you that breed sons who have been so cholerically ruled over by thier mothers that they find it hard to talk to a lady, seeing that their dad too is too cold to caution mummy. Sha be careful. The effects of ur choleric nature doesn't end with you. Ur children's open heart carry the effects forever. Many choleric mothers don't know this. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 5:45pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
RadicallyBlunt:You're missing my point here. Let me take my time this time around. See... I'm short tempered but that doesn't mean I don't know how to manage my anger at every provocation 'cause I don't react to everything at all times. It may take me time to react but that doesn't mean the previous offences didn't get to me, I just know when to express my dissatisfaction. That I'm short tempered doesn't make me the devil 'cause there are those who would require a lot to be angered and when they do; you may never like the consequences. These are temperaments no one asked for. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by lilmax(m): 5:46pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
kimbraa:yes instead of putting an end to a bad behavior, you tolerate your partner so if it's a domestic violence situation, the partners shouldn't change but should be tolerated because they should be understood like seriously where do these dumbasses come from? |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 5:50pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
lilmax:You don't put an end to temperaments 'cause it's ingrained in you, you only manage it once you've realized where you fall. Try to make your comments void of insults. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by GraGra247(m): 5:54pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
RadicallyBlunt: Smart reply. |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
kimbraa:The op wasn't even abt temperament. You introduced it so I'm clarifying it. Every temperament gets angry but of all, choleric anger are worst and dia anger (unlike other temperaments) are inspired by pride and domination. You can't say ure choleric and not have a proud and dominant attitude...that's where I'm hammering my points on. Every woman wants a man that's at least stronger-minded than her, now that you have d most domineering temperament, which higher one do you expect to find in ur man...none! It simply means ur husband will be so cool and u will be d dictator. The effects on ur children are countless. |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Splinz(m): 5:59pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
kimbraa:Whatever has been ingrained can be uprooted. So if in managing a choleric, you mean helping the fellow to freeze the burning coal that ignites before one can say Jack, fine. After all, we're plagued on every side by one weakness to the other. Of course, the most important thing is working to overcome it. Kim, compliments! |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Splinz:I've never heard of that. It's like saying once an introvert, now a complete extrovert. If an introvert decides to work his/her introversion and successfully transcends to an extrovert, there are usually signs of introversion in him/her. Any condition could be managed, and that's why we have anger management classes but that someone thinks being angered is a crime is funny. Same to you, dear!. |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
RadicallyBlunt:If I can't use temperaments to explain anger, what then am I supposed to use?. We're just going round circles 'cause you feel it's wrong to be short tempered whereas I see nothing wrong in it 'cause no one chose to be either short tempered or not. Being a choleric has it's advantages too which overweights the disadvantages. |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
kimbraa:Ok o. Na u get ur life na |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Martin0(m): 6:21pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
Op this what I ve to say!!! You don't, you can offer support, find out if there's anything you can contribute by changing In a way that's acceptable to you, and share your feelings so you have disclosed honestly and calmly what upsets you about her behavior. It's fine to ask somebody for change, but not to handle people. There are only two choices that you can make after that; one is, yes this works for me, I'm in, and the other is no this doesn't work for me and I'm out. You can support change but if doing the things above doesn't work you are wasting your time because either the person thinks what you're asking of them is wrong and just refuses or doesn't really care about you enough to change. Hint, talk about what you need not what they're doing wrong ask nicely and approach them in private at a time when they're ready to listen. Good luck |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Martin0(m): 6:22pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
kimbraa: Exactly.. |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Nobody: 6:23pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
RadicallyBlunt:My dear, I like my life the way it is. |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by Tajbol4splend(m): 6:24pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
RadicallyBlunt: Absolutely |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by LordOfNaira: 6:30pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
kimbraa: You should work on it. Those predisposed to aggression act on anger rather than aggression but it might be only a matter of time before they turned violent. Don't expect anyone to cope with your short temper. It is your problem to manage. There are a lot of anger management tips on the net. Lastly, supposing your spouse understands you, what about your kids. Would you expect them to understand you or would you go the extra mile to work on the issue? 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by LordOfNaira: 6:34pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
greatnaija01: It has nothing to do with being sexually satisfied or not. The short-tempered woman has a lot of work to do, especially if she has those triggering combination of genes. |
Re: How Do You Cope With A Short Tempered Woman? by uche92(m): 6:35pm On Dec 30, 2017 |
kimbraa:A wise man once told me “anger is the punishment we give ourselves for other people’s mistakes...” |
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