Men ask women to marry them, and give lots of reasons why they wanna marry a certain lady/woman.

After the proposer and the lady said "yes" shouldn't the man go further to ask "why" she has agreed to Marry him.

I think this question is as important as the question "will you marry me?"

The truth is, a lot of people want to get married but only a few knows why and why they have chosen or agreed to marry a certain person.

It is high time men start asking this question "why do you want to marry me" or "why have you agree to marry me?"

What do you think? Are the women doing men a favour by saying "yes" that we forget to ask this question?

I Concur With You. Happy New Year To U, And Everyone On NL.

most times they know the reason without needing to ask.

finances play a major role. most girl marry guys with a financial class above or equal to theirs not below, if she marries a broke dude other factors came to play


looks : most girls will prefer an hansome guy as her husband and if he is average other factor came to play such as finances, intelligence...

sex : this factor is very important as it can distabilize the female thinking and rational faculty. a guy that find his way into a girls panties and give her unorthodox sex and multiple orgasm can make her beg for marriage. if u advice her go gree, because u cant save her from those flash backs.


career / prospects: some women will marry you even if the money is not there yet, but they can smell it coming because u studied medicine, surgery; working a bank, have the potencial to be a manager in few years, have the ceo as your father; you are intelligent and entreprising.

i believe this are the main reasons and other reason cant stand alone they are little additions to those listed above, the funny thing is a lot of women will decieve themselves that they married their husband because of those non very significant reason.

the non significant reasons include:

gentle

God fearing

height

funny

supportive

great cook

etc

. Well.



The simple truth is that the excitement of the female folks agreeing to our proposals make us skip that question unlike dating where you will even ask 'why do you love me' and all that , this is about your forever life partner , the excitement , joy and all that won't even make you remember.

You would have even started plans for the wedding , is it that time you would be asking that?

and again ,it looks childish.

Interesting. Op is on point. Inspite of the excitement, it is illuminating and not out of place to hear her say it

Most times if you ask a girl why she wants to date you, they don't even know what to say..

Few days back a girl tells me she wants to be my friend and am like, why? She keeps mum...

I don't get it.

Op make sure you ask o. I'll see you at your next thread."why you should accept her yes and move on"

daryoor:
most times they know the reason without needing to ask.

finances play a major role. most girl marry guys with a financial class above or equal to theirs not below, if she marries a broke dude other factors came to play


looks : most girls will prefer an hansome guy as her husband and if he is average other factor came to play such as finances, intelligence...

sex : this factor is very important as it can distabilize the female thinking and rational faculty. a guy that find his way into a girls panties and give her unorthodox sex and multiple orgasm can make her beg for marriage. if u advice her go gree, because u cant save her from those flash backs.


career / prospects: some women will marry you even if the money is not there yet, but they can smell it coming because u studied medicine, surgery; working a bank, have the potencial to be a manager in few years, have the ceo as your father; you are intelligent and entreprising.

i believe this are the main reasons and other reason cant stand alone they are little additions to those listed above, the funny thing is a lot of women will decieve themselves that they married their husband because of those non very significant reason.

the non significant reasons include:

gentle

God fearing

height

funny

supportive

great cook

etc

3 bullets and 2 honorable to you only, 5stars...

NaoSlay:
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The simple truth is that the excitement of the female folks agreeing to our proposals make us skip that question unlike dating where you will even ask 'why do you love me' and all that , this is about your forever life partner , the excitement , joy and all that won't even make you remember.

You would have even started plans for the wedding , is it that time you would be asking that?

and again ,it looks childish.

guy u will know the reason?

before a guy ask a girl out he will have a rough idea of his chances. if u are doper than her your chances her high, if you are doper than the guys she as ever been with your chances are very high.

a girl will never be ok to drive are rage rover to the date while d boyfriend comes on a bike, then she'll be the one to give him transport tip...whos the boyfriend ?

but if it the other way round- more like the normal way round- she will be excited, happy and enthusiastic about the relationship.

So marriage has now turned to job interview session now where a man will have to ask a woman why she wants to marry him

daryoor:
most times they know the reason without needing to ask.

finances play a major role. most girl marry guys with a financial class above or equal to theirs not below, if she marries a broke dude other factors came to play


looks : most girls will prefer an hansome guy as her husband and if he is average other factor came to play such as finances, intelligence...

sex : this factor is very important as it can distabilize the female thinking and rational faculty. a guy that find his way into a girls panties and give her unorthodox sex and multiple orgasm can make her beg for marriage. if u advice her go gree, because u cant save her from those flash backs.


career / prospects: some women will marry you even if the money is not there yet, but they can smell it coming because u studied medicine, surgery; working a bank, have the potencial to be a manager in few years, have the ceo as your father; you are intelligent and entreprising.

i believe this are the main reasons and other reason cant stand alone they are little additions to those listed above, the funny thing is a lot of women will decieve themselves that they married their husband because of those non very significant reason.

the non significant reasons include:

gentle

God fearing

height

funny

supportive

great cook

etc

Well said bro

I agree to marry you because I can tolerate your excesses, if you cheat I might forgive you and you can take good care of me, not forgetting the fact that I love you.

daryoor:


guy u will know the reason?

before a guy ask a girl out he will have a rough idea of his chances. if u are doper than her your chances her high, if you are doper than the guys she as ever been with your chances are very high.

a girl will never be ok to drive are rage rover to the date while d boyfriend comes on a bike, then she'll be the one to give him transport tip...whos the boyfriend ?

but if it the other way round- more like the normal way round- she will be excited, happy and enthusiastic about the relationship.

You are absolutely correct.

daryoor:
most times they know the reason without needing to ask.

finances play a major role. most girl marry guys with a financial class above or equal to theirs not below, if she marries a broke dude other factors came to play


looks : most girls will prefer an hansome guy as her husband and if he is average other factor came to play such as finances, intelligence...

sex : this factor is very important as it can distabilize the female thinking and rational faculty. a guy that find his way into a girls panties and give her unorthodox sex and multiple orgasm can make her beg for marriage. if u advice her go gree, because u cant save her from those flash backs.


career / prospects: some women will marry you even if the money is not there yet, but they can smell it coming because u studied medicine, surgery; working a bank, have the potencial to be a manager in few years, have the ceo as your father; you are intelligent and entreprising.

i believe this are the main reasons and other reason cant stand alone they are little additions to those listed above, the funny thing is a lot of women will decieve themselves that they married their husband because of those non very significant reason.

the non significant reasons include:

gentle

God fearing

height

funny

supportive

great cook

etc

Nice One

Purebeerry:
I agree to marry you because I can tolerate your excesses, if you cheat I might forgive you and you can take good care of me, not forgetting the fact that I love you.

On point

Why else? Because you asked..

NaoSlay:
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The simple truth is that the excitement of the female folks agreeing to our proposals make us skip that question unlike dating where you will even ask 'why do you love me' and all that , this is about your forever life partner , the excitement , joy and all that won't even make you remember.

You would have even started plans for the wedding , is it that time you would be asking that?

and again ,it looks childish.

"...Will you marry me?" is also very childish. Why not "Lets get married!" this is more mature.

MhizzAJ:
So marriage has now turned to job interview session now where a man will have to ask a woman why she wants to marry him

Yes.

You made some great points.

Krystalzkris:
Why else? Because you asked..

Babe, you're cute. The lustre in those eyes are enchanting. Awww.

Are you single?

gozzlin:


Babe, you're cute. The lustre in those eyes are enchanting. Awww.

Are you single?

im married. With two kids

Krystalzkris:
im married. With two kids

Okies.

Krystalzkris:
im married. With two kids

LoL

Krystalzkris:
im married. With two kids

you don't look it at all, that's nice