There are a lot of motives and perceptions by different people about relationship these days unfortunately, some of them aren’t quite correct. Many ladies see relationship from different angles but the most incorrect point of view is that ladies tend to make relationships all about them.

Yes, it is true that normally, a man needs to flaunt his girl, call her to show that he cares about her, give her attention as much as possible, go shopping with her, buy her gifts, surprise her, make her laugh and feel loved. But sincerely, it’s not all the time the men do this. More so, it’s not like it is their responsibility to do it.

At times, the ladies make relationships all about them and they complain so much about the men and make the men feel uncomfortable in the relationship. In fact, some ladies get upset and pressurize their men to post about their relationship on social media. It is not a MUST and mind you, if he doesn’t do this and you begin to suspect and think that he is cheating on you and you start behaving ‘somehow’, eventually, he will start flirting or he will just get tired of you.

Relationship is all about being best friends and lovers at the same time. It is about feeling safe, warmth and comfort when you’re together. For a relationship to be successful, it has to be a mutual type, where both parties contribute to make it a success. This way, a lady will not always be expecting from the men. In fact, ladies you need to know that if you can’t buy a phone for your man then don’t expect him to get you a ride, the logic is that simple.
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