In the year 2000 before I wrote my WASSCE and JAMB , I fell
in love with a beautiful lady. That was my first love despite
my naivety . But my soul knew what a genuine love was . I
had done everything to promised her that immediately after
medical school , we would get married . Of course , we
planned how she would have become a lawyer since she was
younger.
She was the centre of my life . Everything I was doing was
being measured and calculated with the vision of both of us in
a perfect house with beautiful kids . She had even promised to
hive me a queen just like her . I took her to my mother .
Mother loved her that even till now , 17 years after , she
somehow still ask of her .
My fidelity to this love and my girl was second to none . In
medical school , I killed of infidelity by studying more ; got
deep in religious activities and even played full time students
politics . All these were to keep me busy and so that I had no
time to think of another lady. I was popular in my own circle
and I had access to many and beautiful girls. But ,No , my
love for my lady wouldn't let me cheat on her ..
2 years after I gained admission , she moved to away from
Lagos and the distance between became a wider chasm .
Luckily , Obasanjo has brought us phones and data had barely
became cheaper. We both rode on the new line of
communication . Night calls almost ruined my study but my
relationship got better ...
One fateful day I had decided to visit my love in the nearby
southwestern state. She gave me address and I was pumped
and excited to see her after months of distant love . I decided
to visit some friends in Alexander Brown Hall in UCH and a
day after I left to to a destination my love has given me .
For good ( or bad ) four hours, I was merry go rounding the
largest city in Africa . I called and called until my phone died
and I had almost exhausted my money . You are thinking I
lost my way ? No . She had decided not to see me. Apparently
, she had broken up with me . I never suspected anything .
The calls and the digital show of affection were all mirage.
This I got to know when I called her the next day about an
incident that happened while I was travelling back to Lagos .
The incident that almost took my life , where I found myself in
the midst of sporadic gunshots between a fully armed gunmen
and the police .Seven people lost their lives and many were
injured .
I narrated my ordeal to her on the phone with a shaky voice
and heavy heart.
Her response: who asked you to come look for me ?
Ah! I was devastated . My whole dream of a beautiful wife
with wonderful children came crashing before my eyes . I was
depressed . And when I had to write my part 1 medical exam,
I failed. I failed for the first time in my life . Years after , I was
not tuned to embrace love or anything close . But ,,I was not
broken . I didn't pick up another lady . I doubled my effort to
be successful and gradually the scar on my heart got healed
and sealed ....And when I met the lady a year ago , I knew I
had made the right choice to avoid not to be broken .
Why am I sharing this story after 17 years it happened to
me ?
You see , this is the 5 th day of 365 days in the year 2018
A.D. Millions of hearts have been broken already and more
millions will be broken in days to come . You will be
disappointed . People that you so much love , respect or
expect to lift you; support you will fail you . Your heart will be
shattered and sometimes , someone might make your dream
less worthy of all it needs .
But do not be broken even if your goals and dreams and
aspirations are are broken to smitherens . Stand , expect the
worst but focus on the best .
Be not be broken . It is too early to be distracted .
Dr. Besh Ladi Lawal .

Source: http://dailyhappeningblog..co.ke/2018/01/heart-broken-but-not-broken-doctor.html?m=1


Cc: lalasticlala, mynd44

This nice article! 

But my advice for young man like us!

Please love don't exist....
love na imaginary feel....

Those girls that broke ur heart did so because u haven't  made it to their taste....

Already made must surely snatch it from u......

Then in next five yrs u also snatch girls from another poor man just because u have made it 

Vice versa 
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Go and make money first and I promise u that U will buy love of ur choice
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Over take is allowed 

2018 mooraa‎

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This is heart breaking. The thing with guys who experience this is that they become unnecessarily tough and other women are treated like trash. Dude finds it difficult to love again and he sees all girls as men with pussiess

Some people can be insensitive and wicked.
I have an observation though, but lemme keep it to myself.

sorry that this happened to u but then this story is somehow cos i do know most ladies would do anything possible to date a medical doctor.

So Inspired,its funny how people take things for granted.lucky she didnt kill u or ur dream

Ok... No be today people are heartbroken

Op, please restructure your article. I find it hard to read.