I moved to a new area November ending last year 2017. I have been single for some time.. I decided though. There is a girl at a bar I normally go to enjoy myself.She is a bar attendant. She is an average girl according to me. This is my second time of trying to get her contact but one way or the other, I couldn't get it. May be my attitude of no interest since I have been going( I never ask her ).. I always trust my instinct but I believe i can't be right all the time.
Should i follow my instinct or I should try more?

One day you will ask us if you should use tissue to wipe your bum.

Purebeerry:
One day you will ask us if you should use tissue to wipe your bum.

Go pick beans if you are idle

She may just take you as one of those men looking for a lady to have an affair with and don't want something serious cos I'm sure most men will be asking her out for sexual relationship cos of the nature of her job