i write in response to an article i saw yesterday on why african men cheat or double date. anyway the answer lies in two things actually. nature and fashion.
nature because naturally the black man has more iterations of beauty than a white man. simply put, black man has too many options which means too many distractions. the average nature of a white woman is slim, tall, white, perky boobs, beautiful. what this means is the white man has not more than 3 options of white woman to choose from. the black average nature of a black woman on the other hand is chubby, fair, slim, big booty, dark, short, big burst, beautiful, ugly, twerker, hardworker, creamer. what this means is that the average black man has a plethora of options staring at him and he is to pick on one combination which is not easy to say the least, more like a morse code.
second nature, is the fact that men are biologically and naturally wired to have more sexual desire than a female due to a higher percentage of libido in the male genetic makeup than a woman. so a man is easily and can be sexually stimulated more than a woman (couples know this fact).
fashion. the current fashion trend exposes all the erotic zones which creates desires and fantasy in a mans heart. which gives birth to motive and then if he has the money means he also has the means. which translates to the fact that there is a 90% tendency of that man get down with that woman if the opportunity arises.
the moral of it all is its not easy for a black man to be faithful and wen u find one, pls with all due respect, cut for am for he is truly a rare gem...its not easy.
the only way for a guy to be faithful is Gods grace and ability to drive out desires which comes by training and aviodance.... so theres your answer. you can still ask me how to become trained in the art of faithfulness. the answer lies in truth.

is that all

Shedrack777:
is that all

na wa for u o...lolll

They double date because they don't know what they want.

One minute they are dating a tall slim girl, the next minute they are dating a fat short girl, seriously, what do they want?

Chikita66:
They double date because they don't know what they want.

One minute they are dating a tall slim girl, the next minute they are dating a fat short girl, seriously, what do they want?

no they do. read my reasons. this ur very question has been answered.
the reasons is african women are like goddess. take for instance, i love chubby women with big butt but believe me u, before u trek to the next junction youll find a bigger and more seductive yansh than that my black booty babe, so tell me why shouldnt i go for that one since i like it bigger especialy if i have the means(money)? the only reason why i wouldnt and shouldnt is self control, devotion, rugged faithfulness and unshakeable loyalty and respect for my spouse. if its for the body type alone, girl just forget it, black women are sexy as f**k. theres a white man saying, once u go black, u will never go back.

Ifedith:
na wa for u o...lolll

i expected more proofs

Ifedith:
na wa for u o...lolll

i expected more

Shedrack777:
i expected more proofs

lol...everything is wrapped in those two except for one last one.... absence of truth and lack of restraint.

Ifedith:

lol...everything is wrapped in those two except for one last one.... absence of truth and lack of restraint.

ma nigga

Chikita66:
They double date because they don't know what they want.

One minute they are dating a tall slim girl, the next minute they are dating a fat short girl, seriously, what do they want?

They want a unique and different lady, make something great in you that they'll be scared to loose you.

donstan18:


They want a unique and different lady, make something great in you that they'll be scared to loose you.

So those ladies getting hitched every Saturday have something great in them.

Chikita66:
So those ladies getting hitched every Saturday have something great in them.

Yes!!

Something more than great that made the man to sign a life contract with her.

Get hitched if you doubt their greatness.

donstan18:


Yes!!

Something more than great that made the man to sign a life contract with her.

Get hitched if you doubt their greatness.

Of course I will get hitched when am ready. Mind you, you don't just marry anyhow person cos you want to marry if not many ladies would have been married.

Trash. Have u been abroad before to make that lame assertion. White men cheat more cos pussy is easy der

Chikita66:
Of course I will get hitched when am ready.

Best of luck

Chikita66:
Mind you, you don't just marry anyhow person cos you want to marry if not many ladies would have been married.

My quotes wasn't channeling to what the lady wants and the kind of person she'll want to marry, I was letting you know what most men want and can die to have and see in a woman.

donstan18:


They want a unique and different lady, make something great in you that they'll be scared to loose you.

while wat u said is absolute truth it doesnt cut out to be the reality. sometimes the laws of nature of u reap wat u sow just doesnt play out. some pple are just wicked and heartless

ednut1:
Trash. Have u been abroad before to make that lame assertion. White men cheat more cos pussy is easy der

trash... get facts bro. listen to black folks overseas. have u ever wondered why serena married a white dude? its a well known fact that black men cheat more than white dudes, is this even up for debate?

donstan18:


Best of luck



My quotes wasn't channeling to what the lady wants and the kind of person she'll want to marry, I was letting you know what most men want and can die to have and see in a woman.

its not that easy bro... faithfulness is an individual choice, its independent of your spouse.

Chikita66:
So those ladies getting hitched every Saturday have something great in them.

lol...i pray o. look for a man who fears God.

Ifedith:

trash... get facts bro. listen to black folks overseas. have u ever wondered why serena married a white dude? its a well known fact that black men cheat more than white dudes, is this even up for debate?

well i lived overseas for 3 yrs. Cheating is not race dependent. Men of all races cheat. Serena married him cos na d option wey she get be dat,

Ifedith:

while wat u said is absolute truth it doesnt cut out to be the reality. sometimes the laws of nature of u reap wat u sow just doesnt play out. some pple are just wicked and heartless

LOVE and RELATIONSHIP won't be real and sweet without wickedness and heartlessness.

Bitter truth!

Can you tell me a black man that has won a noble prize in science or in technology field?
Tell us one great black man scientific inventor,
Life is not about dating and sex o ye black men!
Get your black ass up and face the problems in Africa.
Leave the dick and use the brain.
Simple

ednut1:
well i lived overseas for 3 yrs. Cheating is not race dependent. Men of all races cheat. Serena married him cos na d option wey she get be dat,

yes while cheating is not race dependent, cheating is very prominet among black male folks, take it or leave it. however serena isnt lack of options but several years before she met this white dude had publicly stated that she wont marry a black dude cus they r very promiscous. google is ur friend.

Amarabae:
Can you tell me a black man that has won a noble prize in science or in technology field?
Tell us one great black man scientific inventor,
Life is not about dating and sex o ye black men!
Get your black ass up and face the problems in Africa.
Leave the dick and use the brain.
Simple

Drop that hypocritical comment to science and technology section,not in romance section.

Amarabae:
Can you tell me a black man that has won a noble prize in science or in technology field?
Tell us one great black man scientific inventor,
Life is not about dating and sex o ye black men!
Get your black ass up and face the problems in Africa.
Leave the dick and use the brain.
Simple

oh really? who is the fastest man in the world?
the greatest footballer? the greatest basketballer or the greatest musician or the greatest boxer? sorry love life is not all about brains, just like the human body is not made up of brain alone. moreover name a black female noble laurette in science...lol
o ye black woman, leave ur big booty and poverty mindset and use ur brains....
need i add, literature uses the brain also. soyinka....

donstan18:


Drop that hypocritical comment to science and technology section,not in romance section.

lol.....lol....very hypocritical. typical of a nigerian woman...as if soyinka's literature was written with his dick.....trash post