valdovas:
What on earth do you need advice for again?
What do you need advice for for heavens sake?

Are you okay?

Abeg cut off your relationship with that girl and move on. Somebody told you she is not willing to continue with you and you are still here wondering what to do, better use your head there.

valdovas:
What on earth do you need advice for again?
What do you need advice for for heavens sake?

Are you okay?

Abeg cut off your relationship with that girl and move on. Somebody told you she is not willing to continue with you and you are still here wondering what to do, better use your head there.

sugaboi01:


And besides we have 2 kids already

sugaboi01:


And besides we have 2 kids already

sugaboi01:
We have been together for 6 years and she is always given me problems despite everything am doing just to make her happy. She is not emotional and also she is a Kind of person that is never satisfied with anything you do for her to make her happy,if you like buy her motor she will just hiss to it, I noticed this kind of character the week we met but because of the love I had for her I think she will change not knowing that she can never change her character and since then she has been making me feel emotionally unstable and which is really given me problem. To cut the story short, few days ago she picked up fight as usual and up till now she has not spoken to me less greet me, so I called her and said look we can't continue like this it is better we cut this relationship in my mind I was just trying to make her scared and her response was she is ready to cut it off if am ready and she even said it even in the presence of my mom.

So I really need your advice guys (I'd appreciate matured inputs pls from experienced folks)

Oyindidi:
You are expecting too much from your wife.

RadicallyBlunt:
I understand you wella. I've been in a relationship with such a lady before. Mheeen its really bad for the emotional difference/gap between couples to be too much, it stresses out the more emotional one. If im correct op, its ppl like her who find it difficult to say ..sorry, please, thank you. Submission is not what they enjoy doing at all, though they may be lively and sexy.

I learnt within those 5 months i dated dat girl and i was lean. Its a bad experience not to have ur affection reciprocated. Thank God she no get belle for me. But in ur own case ure married. May God help you oh.

Martin0:



Just observing!

Oyindidi:
Lol, that's the reality. Until we stop expecting too much from our partners we will endure marriage.

RadicallyBlunt:

This is what I was telling kimb.raa sometime ago.

Thegeneralqueen:
You've always been lean nah

RadicallyBlunt:
Lol

sugaboi01:
We have been together for 6 years and she is always given me problems despite everything am doing just to make her happy. She is not emotional and also she is a Kind of person that is never satisfied with anything you do for her to make her happy,if you like buy her motor she will just hiss to it, I noticed this kind of character the week we met but because of the love I had for her I think she will change not knowing that she can never change her character and since then she has been making me feel emotionally unstable and which is really given me problem. To cut the story short, few days ago she picked up fight as usual and up till now she has not spoken to me less greet me, so I called her and said look we can't continue like this it is better we cut this relationship in my mind I was just trying to make her scared and her response was she is ready to cut it off if am ready and she even said it even in the presence of my mom.

So I really need your advice guys (I'd appreciate matured inputs pls from experienced folks)

Oyindidi:
Lol, that's the reality. Until we stop expecting too much from our partners we will endure marriage.

Donald3d:

With all due respect ma'am I dont agree with you -in a way you are right , but it shouldnt be that way .

Oyindidi:
Donald, that is the reality of life. This is my 11th year in it. I realized the more I claim Mrs Perfect, the more he too claims Mr Perfect. The day we decided to accommodate each other flaws and encouraged one another to work on themselves. There is peace. He can start by being more romantic and she will reciprocate. You can't tell your wife to leave your house in the morning and in the evening you want her to be all over you. They should settle their differences first.

It is very rude of him to ask for separation in front of his mother.

Donald3d:

You are very correct ma'am ,its really not about been perfect , but about helping each other ,work out and correct flaws.
But in the case where just one party is willing to work things out , it becomes a problem

Oyindidi:
Donny, don't take sides, you've not heard from the wife.

Donald3d:

Thats true sha, thats why I put some questions to him about cheating,care,attention etc

Oyindidi:
And you think he will answer to favour her? Leave matter for Mathias

Donald3d:
It was a rhetorical kweshion na , he would answer in this mind

Oyindidi:
Except that. Husband and wife matter no be here. I pray they settle their differences and enjoy their marriage