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| I Love Her But We Always Fight by Ramos16(m): 10:23pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Hey guys, I am in a relationship with this beautiful Yoruba girl whom I love dearly, I am Idoma. I would do anything to make this girl happy, and I am sure she will do the same, I have seen her go out of her way just to make me smile so I have no doubt for that. I don't mind marrying, as a matter of fact, I have thought about asking her to marry me a lot of times already, but the problem is that we fight quite easily, we can hardly be together for 2 days without having a quarrel about something extremely trivial. Right now we have not talked about 2 weeks going, but I am sure of what she feels about me and also sure of what I feel. I won't deny I can be a hard guy to deal with, I like to do things my way, and she likes to do things her own way, a lot of times she advises me I listen but I don't implement and that makes her angry, especially when things go south afterward. It is not all bad in the relationship, the times we spend together I will not trade for anything, I was supposed to see her in December but could not because of a couple of unforeseen circumstances, and that is actually the reason we are fighting now. I want to ask her to marry me, but I am afraid it might get worst in the marriage. |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by Kenzico(m): 10:26pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Hmmm... |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by Neimar: 10:28pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
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| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by nuggarito: 10:31pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
There is a thin line between love and being compatible for marriage both of you are not compatible, my opinion sha. |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by Nobody: 10:32pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Fights happen inevitably in relationships. What you should both work on is making sure it doesn't last for too long, and being able to say sorry when any of you realize your wrongs. I don't see a problem here. |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by Burger01(m): 10:36pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Patience is the key.... Just be patient with her. Women are terrible creatures we have to live with...they are all the same. Patience is the key to every home.  |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by mikejj(m): 10:42pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
hey bro..take her out and apologies to her even if she is the one who is at fault..u guys should talk and get to understand yourself.avoid tinz that causes quarel ok.dont turn ur relationship into mayweather vs mcgregor or royal rumble. |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by Yian1(m): 10:51pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Op, it is part of relationship to fight each other to understand each other and to know each other's 'but(s)'. Try and go see her, let her know you still love her. Both of you should discuss about your relationship very well, you should find ways to stop any imminent argument /fight. And both of you should learn to say 'sorry' each time one of you is at fault. Lastly, don't forget to invite me on your wedding day. It is well! |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by Cowbuoy: 10:52pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
You guys should consider picking up a WWE form then...  1 Like |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by Nobody: 10:56pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Cowbuoy: |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by CaptainStephen(m): 11:03pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
You guys should get this bed to help your fighting *Runs away
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| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by Nobody: 11:05pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
You are stubborn and she is stubborn, it can't work, one has to bend a lil and be submissive for the relationship to work out. 1 Like |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by habsydiamond(m): 11:06pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
God don show u the Nigeria change wey dey Ur life....the best thing to do is to let are go.....when two people fight a lot in a relationship means there is no understanding.....scatter it and find Ur own partner...but beware of black markets too |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by saabright(m): 11:14pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
mikejj: take her out and apologies to her even if she is the one at fail t  ?Do it repeatedly and officially become the one to always apologize even if she is glaringly wrong in the future. 1 Like |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by internationalman(m): 11:23pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Chikita66:The both of them should marry each other... Would you rather marry a stubborn someone when u are a calm type? |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by Nobody: 11:27pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
internationalman:Yes, am calm naturally and my calmness will calm a stubborn folk. I'm talking from experience. |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by internationalman(m): 11:30pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
Chikita66:Please don't, u deserve a calm person like you. If u marry a stubborn someone they will take advantage of your calmness 1 Like |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by Nobody: 11:37pm On Jan 12, 2018 |
internationalman:What if am attracted to stubborn folks?  . |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by Nobody: 12:23am On Jan 13, 2018 |
Calm should marry calm. Best ever. I can't marry a stubborn man, cos am stubborn sha, and calm also. Anyways am inbetween.  |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by Macgreat(m): 12:24am On Jan 13, 2018 |
Yian1: They are some people, not matter how much you say sorry they still will keep malice with you. This guy's case looks like it. Why will someone not speak with you for 2 whole week and you still want to marry her. Op, Maturity in a relationship is when you fight , you still get along almost immediately. Have you seen two friends fight crazy then after walk to a nearby pharmacy together to get treatment. Now, this is maturity and true friendship. When you quarrel your friend and it last more than a day, know that one of you ain't matured enough and can't handle marriage. In marriage, you'll be in each other's face! Nothing like ; I'm going away for few days. You'll sleep in same bed! I can not live in same house with someone that keep malice, that's pure immaturity. Op, too many fights . . . You ain't on same page simple. No common ground. Different values. Do you want to know if you truly love here? Stop having sex with her in the next 8 months. 1 Like |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by Newboss(m): 12:39am On Jan 13, 2018 |
I pity the foools taking this trivially!  Those are the foools who think that it's normal to fight! Domestic violence loading... You both better train yourselves on how to be calm headed, or just find your way out of that nonsense you call relationship! Abusing each other emotionally et al, and still claiming love! This is why I see marriage as an unnecessary stuff! Folks like you and her will DEFINITELY divorce or separate! Don't say you weren't warned! You 2 WILL be cat and dogs after marriage! Marriage brings out the worst monsters in people! So make sure you deal with your monsters beforehand! Marriage is not for this generation because in the days of marriage, what we had was chauvinism! That's no longer the case now! So you WILL basically have 2 captains on a ship! That's against human nature! Before, the woman is put down (chauvinism) while the man is the boss! .That's not the case any more! It was natural before, hence easy going! But in this generation, it's no longer natural! Hence, would need a lot of compromise to go well without serious issues! Unfortunately, you can only choose what you would do, not what the other person would do! So, you are at the mercy of the people you are married to! Hence, your life is F*CKED from behind! |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by Ramos16(m): 12:42am On Jan 13, 2018 |
Newboss: The reason why I have posted this is that I feel exactly what you've just said |
| Re: I Love Her But We Always Fight by youcanmakeit: 12:46am On Jan 13, 2018 |
Newboss:Bro, you are the most reasonable person on this thread |
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