Just wanted to share dis... It might be long, so please bear with me...

A friend of mine has a girlfriend that he intends to settle down with towards the end of this year, he loves her a lot, and has never cheated on her...

In the beginning it ws all rosy, until trust started becoming an issue... She always refused to visit him at his base (because currently he isn't based in her state of residence) ,but always travelled to go and visit another guy in another state in the name of friendship.... The worst part was that a week to her birthday, she almost quarrelled with her boyfriend just so that she could get a reason to go and spend the weekend with this her male friend (whom she still went to meet that weekend)....

Fast forward to her birthday earlier this week... My guy posted a lovely message for her on his fb wall, and when it was time for her to appreciate people, she just appreciated everyone generally.... My friend was just wondering why she didnt mention his name (unto boo tins) and so he asked her.. But the babe turned it into a quarel.... That she cannot mention his name in public.... And that if she does that, then that means she would have to mention the names of every other person.. They quarrelled about it and then settled, but my guy is still wondering why she won't be bold enough to mention his name and is already suspecting that maybe she has other guys who she doesnt want to upset... He has confronted her many times on this issue and she is always like she can never mention his name, that she has other friends who deserve to be mentioned too...


So i am asking is this a sign of infidelity?? And is it reason enough to end the relationship?? Because my friend is thinking seriously about it...

modified: for those who gave good pieces of advice.... Thank you..

For those who said I was "the friend ", well you are right ��

For those calling the guy a kid.... Hmmm... May u nvr be put in that kind of situation....

The kind of questions people ask on Nairaland though. How old are you and your friend??


You are seeing a knife in front of you, you want people to say Knife before you agree it's a knife. Na wa o

Most definitely, she has reduce d love she has for ur pal, ladies are nt so emotionally upright like men, tink she's presently up to something..

Bros we know say na u....the signs are already there that he is just a side nigga, wat else does he wanna confirm? My suggestion is

Dump her cheating ass!
Your friend(U) sef na mumu first class

Why ask questions you already know the answer to..








The earlier you leave that girl.. The better for you abi your friend..

DrinkLimca:


my advice to your friend is to break up with her..

Apart from infidelity, she has greatly disrespect him..

break up with her? Were they dating before? I pity some guys shar

Tell your friend to forget about the girl, she has given enough signals that her love is no longer with him.

Who dey give all these kids phones?

guy better change direction.it's obvious the girl is falling out of love.

The girl is not his....it shows the lady is not into him.....ladies likes showcasing their guy....tell that Ur friends that is you.....that he should go and look for a tear rubber girl(new) and forget this tokunbo own...

its obvious the girl is a fraud!it'l b better ur friend demote her as his girlfrnd as early as possible.

You, sorry your guy is the general overseer of the church of friendzone.

CaptainJeffry:
You, sorry your guy is the general overseer of the church of friendzone.

Are you serious about your signature?

Some that's this obvious... Some people can ask questions for Africa...

Unto spare tyre things

makydebbie:
Are you serious about your signature?

Yes ma'am.

CaptainJeffry:
Yes ma'am.

Okay sir, goodluck.

CaptainJeffry:
You, sorry your guy is the general overseer of the church of friendzone.

Lol... Bt atleast e de collect e share of d chooku chooku na...

stupidity:
break up with her? Were they dating before? I pity some guys shar

Lolz... U guys are mean sha... But its bn 1yr plus... N both families are aware of d rship.. Aldo she always calls d oda guy her "family friend"...

dollyjoy:
The kind of questions people ask on Nairaland though. How old are you and your friend??


You are seeing a knife in front of you, you want people to say Knife before you agree it's a knife. Na wa o

My dear I tire o

The op and his so called friend are real mumus