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Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by missjo(f): 1:00pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
cassyrooy:Mum cares too much about what people will think of her only daughter, I honestly don't understand why she would be giving ultimatums |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by missjo(f): 1:00pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
freecocoa:Smh |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by missjo(f): 1:03pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
DedeNkem:Thanks. I didn't plan to make my post long sir, I wrote straight from my heart and tried to include as many details as possible so you all can get the full picture. I'm not a professional writer 1 Like |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by missjo(f): 1:05pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
Caveatemptor:I'm not a trained writer |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by missjo(f): 1:08pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
donsimo:Yes they are friends but they don't talk to each other personally like that. Yes I know it looks like I'm playing both sides, I accept that assumption. Caeser still wants to be with me even after I told him who the boyfriend is, he says since he didn't know this before falling in love then he doesn't care. |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by DedeNkem: 1:09pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
missjo: It is OK. Best wishes. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
missjo: Caeser's your man then, [s]just let him know that you may have to give up on him and go into marriage and that...[/s] just manipulate him into marriage. He's the most likely to marry you. |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by Chyxki: 1:39pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
Anyway, in my experience: sara + caesar = ?, because sara is an inconsistent child. Her mom understands her childish inconsistency. Dating her boyfriend for only one year and already cheating on him with someone that knows him very well. (Wrong woman!) She's likely to cause problems for the poor young man trying to fix his life. |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by HSE2018: 3:15pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
Ceaser should do the needful;go for the introduction and do the marital rights then propose the big day to the time he will be fit for the show. Except, the man Ceaser is not ready to settle down. If he really loves Sarah and willing to marry her, he should do the needful (borrow leaf from the couple that wedded on the weekday and in the company of 7 people); there are many ways to kill a rat! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by cassyrooy(m): 4:01pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
missjo:Jojo, mums care for her will always be as the best counsel to her daughter not indirectly making the decision for her. I won't assume that she doesn't care for her daughter, but I'll only sum it as pressurizing her daughter. To me, honestly, she should have advised her to still marry her bf who apparently has not secured a bigger apartment, and also teach her how to build a home. I see Caesar as the scam that we don't really know about. |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by OAUTemitayo: 12:58am On Jan 25, 2018 |
@OP Caesar is a scam. He would make you lose a man that really want to have you as his wife and when he shows his true color, you will regret it. Don't be foolish. Ladies should be wise. Playboys are more caring at the first trimester. By last trimester, the pregnancy go enter one chance. |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by blessurance(m): 3:00pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
For those concluding and attributing ceaser's interest for her as infactuation: - do you think so because he has known her for a short time before stating his interest? you cant conclude that as infactuation. By the way, it was said they knew each other before now. Second, there is always a first step - the attraction, meeting, communication, then relationship. If she was not engaged to her bf, and then ceaser got to meet her, dont you think he will have the same feelings for her (mind you it was also stated, he wasnt aware of her engagement to her bf as at first approach) and ignites a relationship - of love being the intent as oppose to the perceived infactuation. So, lets not get carried away with this infactuation thing, that it happens in most cases does not mean it happens in all cases. You cant absolutely discover and judge emotions. The right parameter thats measures and indicates that emotional feeling and motive is TIME. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by endee91(m): 1:27pm On Jan 27, 2018 |
You'll still experience it bruv Csami: |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by bukatyne(f): 12:07am On Jul 25, 2018 |
missjo: How far? Did you marry guy one or are you with Ceaser? 1 Like |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by Magnoliaa(f): 10:42pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
Yeahh, it's been long and the issue is probably solved already.......but, go with Caesar. You can't tell what it'll lead to or what will come out of it. If Caesar is unserious, a 'playboy,' then what about the other guy? It's not as if you 'had' anything real or true with him. (You) said you dated him because you were single and he was around. Is that the only reason? What's your relationship about? What is it like? Or to get a better perspective, take Caesar out of the picture and only consider, analyze your relationship with the other guy. Is it what you want? Is it everything okay? Before Caesar came along, what were you guys like? Would you truly have gotten married to your bf? Do you really desire him? cc: missjo |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by Magnoliaa(f): 10:47pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
You said you never loved your bf - so I don't think Caesar is the problem here. |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by missjo(f): 10:49pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
Magnoliaa:Babe, Caesar is papa bear (present tense) 5 Likes |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by Magnoliaa(f): 10:50pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
Authenticity: At least, you can work on an infatuation, develop it than on *nothing*, than on what has never been there. |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by Magnoliaa(f): 10:53pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
missjo: Awwwnnn...<3 <3. I'm happy you went with Caesar. Lol. So, he is the papa bear. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by Magnoliaa(f): 10:58pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
tellmemore15: Seriously? |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by missjo(f): 11:09pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
Magnoliaa:Sure is. Hairy & cuddly 3 Likes |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by Magnoliaa(f): 11:37pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
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Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by Asetime: 11:59pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
.....And they all lived happily ever after. What a lovely follow up story. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by baby124: 12:55am On Oct 09, 2019 |
Oh. So sweet. Happy ending to a short and sweet romance. 1 Like |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by DexterousOne(m): 11:59am On Jan 28, 2020 |
[quote author=LesbianBoy post=64461923]Why do ladies that don't talk to a guy back then in school suddenly starts talking to the guy when they meet outside. What changed? [/quote A LOT o] |
Re: I'm About Losing The Man I Love And Being Pressured To Marry The One I Never Did by Rawhumper(m): 1:03pm On Apr 12, 2020 |
Let her follow her heart,please dear marriage is not a joke...beauty and riches do fade what holds is love and maturity of the mind. Stay safe and happy easter missjo: |
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