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We all go thru it. Dey go thru mine too. Check all her family if they're chubby, after childbirth she may add up. But If they're all like dat, e better make u friendzone her and search further. Make her ur plan B in case of incasity

BTW, that's just one part. You don check whether her Toto no be like any of these below? Orelse u go dey too irritated to even make love to her when u marry her finish

married men, over to you

Marry someone you are physically attracted to Mr man. She could grow ass and all after childbirth though.

You will definitely commit adultery if you marry her...i advice you to go for ur spec

Please marry her!

Humans still thinking about getting married?

Call Me lame, but I would choose beauty with physically well endowed body over intelligent, patience and character..

Brooke60:
Physical attraction is really important in marriage to avoid stories that touches the heart.
But then, you did not see all this before you get her serious with you?

I tire for you guys. Yoruba said what you won't eat, don't smell it

You can't understand this area, you're not a man.

There's always some expectations to trim with the one we come to love just as there are positives we are to focus on, as the positives keeps us going.....

Ask yourself, do you triuly love her, will you find a better replacement? Can you communicate your fears to her, help her improve and give her time to make adjustments? If you can don't quit the relationship. I seem not to clearly understand the problem, but don't seek relationship counsel from the public, your mind will be polluted from people who aren't in the midst of the storm personally giving all sorts of ideas.

You're a man, sit down and think, the answer's in you !



Your question feels like someone fgoing to a herbalist to know if he'll be a responsible parent/father/husband.


These answers lie within us primarily bro. Your resolve is best known to you alone, if you haven't/don't resolved she's the one, the insatiety will constantly make you second-guess that decision, which will lead to games ultimately, give the relationship time to blossom, in the process, you will find the answers you seek both within the relationship and within you...


But then attitude plus attraction plus compatibility equals strong bond

Marry her IF you want to, and not because married men said so.

Remember, they're not the one marrying her, it is YOU!

Inugo?

RadicallyBlunt:

You can't understand this area, you're not a man.

You mean that when you guys just try to chop and clean with a girl that 'is not your spec' only to fall in love?
I think I understand to some extent

Brooke60:
You mean that when you guys just try to chop and clean with a girl that 'is not your spec' only to fall in love?
I think I understand to some extent

Lol you're far from d idea madam. She may be d one who took it serious with him by herself.

Lol physical attraction is d biggest mistake in marriage, her attitudes matters alot ooo, if u luv her u can place her on medication

RadicallyBlunt:
We all go thru it. Dey go thru mine too. Check all her family if they're chubby, after childbirth she may add up. But If they're all like dat, e better make u friendzone her and search further. Make her ur plan B in case of incasity

BTW, that's just one part. You don check whether her Toto no be like any of these below? Orelse u go dey too irritated to even make love to her when u marry her finish

Thanks bro.
You make a good point, however I do not know how reliable this will be, considering that a lady may take after her dad, mom, aunt or even grandma.
However, I'll definitely take a look.

Hector09:
Lol physical attraction is d biggest mistake in marriage, her attitudes matters alot ooo, if u luv her u can place her on medication

Could you please elaborate a bit on the bold sir.

Splinz:
Marry her IF you want to, and not because married men said so.

Remember, they're not the one marrying her, it is YOU!

Inugo?

Anugo m.
Daalu

Ighoga898:
Call Me lame, but I would choose beauty with physically well endowed body over intelligent, patience and character..

Not lame at all. You're being honest .

If you lose a woman with good character because of external features, what if the next one that comes , has bad attribute but perfect body ?

Brooke60:
You mean that when you guys just try to chop and clean with a girl that 'is not your spec' only to fall in love?
I think I understand to some extent

You're being presumptuous ma'am.
But thanks for your opinion regardless.

A man without "discipline" will always cheat no matter how beautiful and well-being shaped his wife is. It gets to a stage where a man feels like having a taste of another cherry, no matter how radiant the wife looks. That is where discipline comes in. And there are some that

Have you ever ask why some men with very beautiful wife at home cheats with several young ladies

When reality of marriage gets to you, only then you will know that having an understanding, respectful and supportive woman that guarantees peace of mind is a million times better than waking up with a beauty queen that will be tormenting your life even with your wealth.

There are people that needs proper care and rest of mind for their beauty to show.

I suggest you meet responsible married men around you in person, with very good years of experience in marriage. Only then you can get the sad truth about what it takes to have a thriving marriage.

Olami90:
A man without "discipline" will always cheat no matter how beautiful and well-being shaped his wife is. It gets to a stage where a man feels like having a taste of another cherry, no matter how radiant the wife looks. That is where discipline comes in. And there are some that

Have you ever ask why some men with very beautiful wife at home cheats with several young ladies

When reality of marriage gets to you, only then you will know that having an understanding, respectful and supportive woman that guarantees peace of mind is a million times better than waking up with a beauty queen that will be tormenting your life even with your wealth.

There are people that needs proper care and rest of mind for their beauty to show.

I suggest you meet responsible married men around you in person, with very good years of experience in marriage. Only then you can get the sad truth about what it takes to have a thriving marriage.

Guess I never really thought about it that way.
Thanks

Jupxter:
If you lose a woman with good character because of external features, what if the next one that comes , has bad attribute but perfect body ?

Actually I'm not even looking for a "perfect body", if there's any such thing, I'm only need a body that I'm physically attracted to.
But I get your point. Thanks.