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Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by lalabrother: 10:17am On Jul 08, 2017
Would you still marry your lover if you discovered a week to your wedding that they can not have children?

A week to a wedding, both families of the couple would be upbeat with preparations to make sure that all arrangements are made for a successful ceremony. But Saturday Punch is asking Nigerians whether during such preparation, they would still go ahead to wed if they found out their intended life partner can’t have children? Keep ur genuine answers coming...

Source: punching.com

PS: am sorry if this is in the wrong segment, mod pls modify and help move the post to the right segment. Thanks

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by lofty900(m): 10:21am On Jul 08, 2017
I won't. Not Nigerian lady anyway but if I meet Yankee that will gimme greencard, I'll marry her.
I can still get a baby mama

At least if u cannot gimme child, kuku gimme greencard
you must have something to give

Honest answer

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Mynd44: 10:22am On Jul 08, 2017
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Destined2win: 10:24am On Jul 08, 2017
sad

I will put the wedding on hold. I need to multiply. That's one of God's directives on the earth.

Besides who doesn't check out the fertility of the partner-to-be until it gets to the wedding moment. I need flesh of my flesh and bones of my bones .

If she is my lover, she should be able to have kids too

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Caustics: 10:24am On Jul 08, 2017
angry
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by NCANTaskForce: 10:24am On Jul 08, 2017
I won't, I need children, Not sexmate, sad angry undecided

BTW

Lukaku undergoing medicals at MUFC grin cheesy grin

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Me77: 10:24am On Jul 08, 2017
Yes of course. Marriage is perfect without children, children ruined marriages. If only I can find a barren woman to marry all all my life, they're simply the perfect wife's.
Big love to all the barren women.

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by teamsynergy: 10:24am On Jul 08, 2017
if am based in Naija, I won't marry such woman ooo.. the pressure will be unbearable. if na abroad , hell yea. ..

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by D34lw4p(m): 10:25am On Jul 08, 2017
Yes of course!!!
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Kobicove(m): 10:25am On Jul 08, 2017
No I will not...and I have no apologies for that decision!

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Destined2win: 10:25am On Jul 08, 2017
Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption
angry

I think people who say this deceive themselves, there is a joy you have realizing you have your own flesh and blood, a child you can truly call your own.

The one you want to adopt, no be person born am? If everybody is Okay with inability to give birth, where will you see the one you will adopt. Abegiii leave matter

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by TaiKuun(m): 10:25am On Jul 08, 2017
Nonsense
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Handsomebeing(m): 10:25am On Jul 08, 2017
No.

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by hoover420: 10:25am On Jul 08, 2017
I'll go ahead and marry the love of my life even if she's barren. Although the Nigerian society frown at such. You'll see pressure coming from both angles to procreate (mother, mother in law, friends, sisters e.t.c)

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Nobody: 10:26am On Jul 08, 2017
Such things only happen @ western world....
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by missionmex(m): 10:27am On Jul 08, 2017
It is not easy to say the least. But I think I can.

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Webman007: 10:27am On Jul 08, 2017
Hmmmmmm...is God that gives Children...if you believe so then no problem....

The wombs will be open...and the sperms that's not there will be restored divinely
..

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by fran6co(m): 10:28am On Jul 08, 2017
Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption


mehn u made alot of sense. life would b easy if they toll along with those words above.

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by StOla: 10:28am On Jul 08, 2017
I will if I truly love the woman, but on the condition that I will marry a second wife who will have my own children.

I don't have sperm cells for fun. I must reproduce since I am biologically capable.

Adoption has never been an option with me, when I am biologically fit to have my own. If both husband and wife are infertile, then adoption becomes the only choice.

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Ratello: 10:28am On Jul 08, 2017
It depends on the level of love between us. Live is too deep to be explained away. Yes many will still go ahead with the marriage if true LOVE is involved.
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Viking007(m): 10:28am On Jul 08, 2017
Destined2win:
angry

I think people who say this deceive themselves, there is a joy you have realizing you have your own flesh and blood, a child you can truly call your own.

The one you want to adopt, no be person born am? If everybody is Okay with inability to give birth, where will you see the one you will adopt. Abegiii leave matter
They only share this BS online to gather cheap likes. In reality, its the exact opposite.



Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by dolphinife: 10:28am On Jul 08, 2017
Am the only child of my parent....

You want my parent to die before their time?

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by frizzy092(m): 10:28am On Jul 08, 2017
brb
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Nobody: 10:28am On Jul 08, 2017
Yes, I will marry her, over and over again! I can adopt a child legally.

Marriage itself, is about companionship

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by dyangprof(m): 10:28am On Jul 08, 2017
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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Sugarcious(m): 10:28am On Jul 08, 2017
Woman that cannot give birth , is that one woman at all? God's original purpose for mankind was to fill the earth with our offspring so if a lady cannot give birth which is not really a big deal, I may consider her based on some logistics.
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Deseo(f): 10:28am On Jul 08, 2017
I discover he cannot have children, we find out why, we find a solution. Yes, I can marry him.

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Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by Bisjosh(f): 10:29am On Jul 08, 2017
Nope
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by TINALETC3(f): 10:29am On Jul 08, 2017
Wit d kind of luv I hv 4 my "Mr Right", of course, straight to d altar kiss, I dnt mind
Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tompat86(m): 10:29am On Jul 08, 2017
A 70 year old man went for a Sperm Test. The Doctor gave him a bottle to collect sperm. The next day, the man came with the empty bottle & said he tried with his left hand then right hand. Then his wife tried with her left hand & right hand. Then his daughter-in-law tried with both hands & mouth. Then the neighbor's wife & daughter tried the same way..but could not open the damn bottle.

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