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. by tolexy123: 12:00pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
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Re: . by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
This is seriously serious. Sorry.... Call your ex-girlfriend name too. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: . by tolexy123: 12:06pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
modelmike7:that doesnt seem right being a man |
Re: . by Marcus2(m): 12:07pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Maybe the guy was her first love and she still has him in her heart. |
Re: . by justiniyke29: 12:09pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
chai, dey ave use this one head 2 play table tennis |
Re: . by JULIE1925(f): 12:12pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Ur ex still remember how she was being hammered by her ex.. She is still thinking of him even when she's physically with u. |
Re: . by izaray(f): 12:15pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Marcus2:My thoughts too....But that's being childish you kno, she should be able to drop those feelings and move on, or better stil, go back to her ex boyfriend! 2 Likes |
Re: . by Faithcollins25: 12:19pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
nah wow i no get anything to say if she has done it more dan twice my dear run oh |
Re: . by marveangel(m): 12:22pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
My guy the cold hard truth is you are just a rebound. 4 Likes
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Re: . by PatriotTemidayo: 3:17pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
My brother, you're still single.......... Take heart |
Re: . by jmaxjohn(m): 3:48pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Is your name tenken by any chance? Hahaha |
Re: . by tolexy123: 8:59pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
jmaxjohn:its not funny pls |
Re: . by condralbedez: 10:02pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
There is a particular region her ex dey hit her hard.... I dnt think u hv reached there, Cos if u hv, it will automatically reset her factory setting. And ur name will be up. |
Re: . by tolexy123: 10:30pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
condralbedez:that region is? |
Re: . by schumastic(m): 10:34pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Will come back |
Re: . by Cowbuoy: 11:34pm On Jan 30, 2018 |
Re: . by Shawnnn01: 1:35am On Jan 31, 2018 |
tolexy123: The solution is simple have her suck your diick n call your ex or any name you can defend. She will never repeat that again. I will suggest you use your moms name so you can explain you are only teasing for her to know what it feels like, that should reset her medulla. |
Re: . by tolexy123: 10:13am On Jan 31, 2018 |
Shawnnn01:that is not realistic |
Re: . by TheSuperNerd(m): 10:44am On Jan 31, 2018 |
Mister, you met and stood with this lady during a very vulnerable period in her life which was her breakup period. She was emotionally broken, shattered and unstable. A lady like that, being emotionally unstable and all, is most likely to fall for the guy who shows them even the smallest sweetness of affection and care. You were only genuinely trying to help her get over it but you also failed to see that she is very super vulnerable and has not outgrown the heartbreak. Who knows also if you also were kinda harboring having a relationship with her even before she finally gave in to you... I just assume your initial help was genuine tho but I know men. It is well... That's by the way... She gave in to you eventually only because you were there for her as her go-to person. Her heart couldn't properly process the decision of her so called new found flame for you. She just gave in to you because she needed to fill that void.. That emptiness that leaves her emotionally down. You were like the available option she took in to try fill that emotional void and in almost all cases like this, things go wrong. YOU ARE SIMPLY HER REBOUND GUY. HER REBOUND CHOICE. SHE IS USING YOU TO TRY ESCAPE THE VOID IN HER HEART. SHE WAMTS IT TO BE LOVE BUT TRULY IT IS JUST A MATTER OF "this guy is nice, let me roll with him, something might work out.... Besides I cannot be alone... Bla bla bla". Calling out her ex-bf's name TWICE when you guys had sex is only a testament to all I have just explained in brief above. You are her rebound and an attempt by her drained and unstable emotional state to fill a void that can only be filled after she has rediscovered herself, gotten over her EX and is really ready to love for real again but this time with a better understanding of her worth and person. What I will have you do is simple. Talk to her and tell her to go rediscover herself. Leave her for now.... Allow her to be alone with herself for a while and let her get herself back. She needs to exorcise her Ex's hold over her emotionally but she needs to do so without your hovering presence. I know it is hard but this is the truth. LOOK, you may not know it but you actually took advantage of her vulnerable state no matter how genuine your intentions may be. You took advantage of it because most women in that kinda emotional state will more than 90% of the time fall for the guy who shows even the smallest care for her within that very difficult window of her emotional vulnerability due to breakup in this cade from the one she loves who treated her like scum. It is hard for a lady like this honestly. So you want her grow? Leave her for now... Give her a break. You have to talk to her about it tho... Tell her you have to leave her to rediscover herself and also make up her mind on whether she wanna keep living in the past or whether she wanna open up new doors and move forward. Let her be the one to see things for yourself and possibly ring you up to tell you that she is ready and that her EX is truly over. Most ladies going through such touvh break-ups meed their time alone too... Having another guy as comfort during her very vulnerable recovery period will only cloud her Judgments and make her make complicated decisions. Do it and you will be the better man for it. ALL THE BEST 3 Likes |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:08am On Jan 31, 2018 |
I Want To Eat Suya |
Re: . by tolexy123: 1:12pm On Jan 31, 2018 |
TheSuperNerd:thanks man. You are indeed a counsellor 1 Like |
Re: . by tolexy123: 6:45pm On Jan 31, 2018 |
DeadRat:and you think its funny |
Re: . by Nobody: 7:03pm On Jan 31, 2018 |
tolexy123:was I Laughing When I Said It 1 Like |
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