I unintentionally enjoyed rape infront of my husband and that was the end of my marriage

From a reader sho needs advise.

I am a Banker in my early 30s and going through a messy divorce. I married my husband as a virgin.

I have never been with any man but him until I was raped. I didn't know anything about orgasm, climax or what have you because I have never experienced it. 8 years of marriage with a miserable sex life.

I have two children from my marriage. It happens that We traveled to my husband village during last Easter period. While in his country home by 1 am in the night our house was raided by armed robbers a gang of 7 members . It was a very terrifying experience, after collecting all the valuables at home, the leader turned to rape me. The leader tied my husband to a chair, tore my clothe and went on to show me his manhood that he will use it on me. I was frightened. I begged him and cried but he wouldn't listen.

It was a rape that cost me my marriage. As the guy was entering me, I was supposed to feel pains but that wasn't so. I felt a kind of ,electrifying sensations that I have never felt in my whole life. I screamed oh my God, as he started pounding on me I didn't know when I was holding him hard and begging him not to stop to the amazement of others, I was enjoying being raped by a criminal.

I was told I was screaming very hard when I wanted to come. Yes I had my first orgasm through rape and since then my life hasn't been the same. The robber took me two rounds which I came both times.

I don't know what happened, if it was my village people that pursued me, but all I can say is that I haven't had such with my husband. My husband gave me the beatings of my life after they robbers left. He called me unprintable names, I am a prostitute, he didn't know I was an ashawo.

He can't marry an Ashawo. I was hospitalized for two weeks as a result of that incident and his beatings . My husband left me at the hospital and travelled back to our home. I was Damaged .How could such a thing happened to me? What was responsible for me enjoying being raped and even coming as a result of it? How could I even enjoy such act of cruelty on my body? These were the questions I kept asking myself.

When I got discharged I met a divorce papers waiting for me to sign. I tried begging my husband , involved my parents but he swore instead of staying with me he will rather die. That I am a disgrace to his life.

My husband is a rich guy, so when our divorce news broke out, while I was denying it, he kept telling everyone one that I am a LovePeddler. It took me months to accept my predicament and move on. I am still healing, still seeing my therapist. But one thing I know is that I am not what my husband says I am.

I am just a woman who was sexually starved. I did not pray to be raped, but it was the turning point of my life . I just feel like sharing this with you my family because it will help me . Pls don't judge me, because you don't know my pains. By January I will be through with the divorce . I just want you all to wish me well with my new life. I pray to find Love in the nearest Future.

1. What could she have done differently?

2. Was it a crime for her to enjoy rape sex like that?

3. Was the husband being fair to her?

4. Was divorce the only way out?

Mad madder maddest

Chisos!!!! I am short of saliva,words name it

Husband b like, what I've been unable 2 do in eight yrs, one nigga did within d space of an hour.

I dont know if this is condemnation but i ask: "how would you have felt if you were in ur husband's shoe."?
Because thats the most disgusting thing ever!! Ewww.....if u were that sex starved y didnt you cheat behind him [not moan and beg for more in his presence,u no try na] at least that is lenient enough.
Divorce isn't the only option if u want to make it square tell him u are ready to watch him bang a lady in ur presence. Trust me he would fall for it if he doesnt, increase the number of women till he agrees.
THANK ME LATER....LOL

Gucciqueen38, twoclans bimberry1307 bibidear cyndy1000 kimberlywest lonewolf23 lovingyouhun

Am sorry guys but i think u should check out this hilarious "story that touches"
and b4 i 4get happy val to all of you

This one strong oo

Cadec007:
I dont know if this is condemnation but i ask: "how would you have felt if you were in ur husband's shoe."?
Because thats the most disgusting thing ever!! Ewww.....if u were that sex starved y didnt you cheat behind him [not moan and beg for more in his presence,u no try na] at least that is lenient enough.
Divorce isn't the only option if u want to make it square tell him u are ready to watch him bang a lady in ur presence. Trust me he would fall for it if he doesnt, increase the number of women till he agrees.
THANK ME LATER....LOL

Weldone oo, she will definitely thank you later

Cadec007:
Gucciqueen38, twoclans bimberry1307 bibidear cyndy1000 kimberlywest lonewolf23 lovingyouhun

Am sorry guys but i think u should check out this hilarious "story that touches"
and b4 i 4get happy val to all of you

Thanks for the mention.. Happy Valentine

Cadec007:
Gucciqueen38, twoclans bimberry1307 bibidear cyndy1000 kimberlywest lonewolf23 lovingyouhun

Am sorry guys but i think u should check out this hilarious "story that touches"
and b4 i 4get happy val to all of you

I just saw it. Thanks for the mention. I'm really speechless now. But in all, I don't blame the man neither do I blame the lady. They both had good reasons for their actions. Happy Valentine to you also.

KimberlyWest:


I just saw it. Thanks for the mention. I'm really speechless now. But in all, I don't blame the man neither do I blame the lady. They both had good reasons for their actions. Happy Valentine to you also.

lol....happy Valentine sweetie

You held the robber tight and was moaning while he was banging you infront of your husband .. and you said you're not an irresponsible woman?

You didn't even pretend like you weren't enjoying it .. Smh


You're a dog .

Omo! this one pass strong. chai, u shouldn't have begged for more nau even though you can moan a little since you've never experienced such before. i won't blame you much sha because some men are wicked. they will leave their partner hanging especially if they climax first. men are supposed to guide a woman to climax before they cum but no, always selfish. it's partly the man's fault too. my opinion though, don't judge me o.

KimberlyWest:


I just saw it. Thanks for the mention. I'm really speechless now. But in all, I don't blame the man neither do I blame the lady. They both had good reasons for their actions. Happy Valentine to you also.

thank you

Gucciqueen38:
Weldone oo, she will definitely thank you later

lol

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∆ How come she's not talking about STD?

The pounding really reset her brain∆



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busky101:
lol....happy Valentine sweetie

Happy Valentine dear. So, when am I getting my gifts?

Cadec007:
thank you

You're welcome.

KimberlyWest:


Happy Valentine dear. So, when am I getting my gifts?

me that is almost heartbroken don't worry wait until I come back online sha

busky101:
me that is almost heartbroken don't worry wait until I come back online sha

Almost heartbroken? A whole you? That's not possible.

My boss cannot be heartbroken!

KimberlyWest:


Almost heartbroken? A whole you? That's not possible.

My boss cannot be heartbroken!

lmao......dont worry, I will gist you about it when I get back online!!!

busky101:
lmao......dont worry, I will gist you about it when I get back online!!!

Gossip!!!

I'm waiting to hear the juicy tales.

I don't even know what the topic is about ...

all I know is that ...
the op I telling lies ...
daz all

Continue Lying...

It is very easy to know that this story was written by a male person.
The language structure and the mannerisms used in expressing the woman's point of view betray the erotic fantasies a man has with regards to encounters of wild sex and the likes. Op, put this into considering when next you are writing such fictional pieces.

Cadec007:
Gucciqueen38, twoclans bimberry1307 bibidear cyndy1000 kimberlywest lonewolf23 lovingyouhun

Am sorry guys but i think u should check out this hilarious "story that touches"
and b4 i 4get happy val to all of you

Happy Valentine Cadec007
Wishing you a fun filled day

Craze Everywhere, Na Big Prick and better action plus the stupidity inside u wan spoil ur Marriage not Rape my sister

Cadec007:
Gucciqueen38, twoclans bimberry1307 bibidear cyndy1000 kimberlywest lonewolf23 lovingyouhun

Am sorry guys but i think u should check out this hilarious "story that touches"
and b4 i 4get happy val to all of you

happy val to u too

Twoclans:


Happy Valentine Cadec007 Wishing you a fun filled day

thank you

Bibidear:
happy val to u too

thank you

Cadec007:
Gucciqueen38, twoclans bimberry1307 bibidear cyndy1000 kimberlywest lonewolf23 lovingyouhun

Am sorry guys but i think u should check out this hilarious "story that touches"
and b4 i 4get happy val to all of you

Thanks for the mention. happy Valentine's too. I can't really blame the woman Sha but I don't think dirvorce is the best. They should have settled amicably.