A 41-year-old pastor, Oluwasanjo Eniola, on Tuesday, February 13, 2018 approached a Grade C Customary Court, Inanlende, Ibadan, with a divorce suit against his wife of 20 years, Basirat, over her alleged resentment to his pastoral call.

The pastor urged the court to grant his prayers for dissolution of his 20-year marriage to Basirat to enable him to be free from his wife who’s not supportive.

According to him, hiw wife's resentment to his pastoral call pushed him into having extra-marital affairs which produced a child.

He said: ”My lord, my wife never supported my pastoral call, instead, she is in the habit of nagging me.

”She used to fight me over female church members but I let her realise that the women always give me advice that she never gives.



”At a time, she abandoned her matrimonial home and travelled to Lagos without my approval.

”Later, I decided to move closer to one of my female church members who gave me support.

”We eventually came together and our immorality led to pregnancy but I quit the relationship to avoid the wrath of God.

”I pray the court to separate us so that I can effectively face my ministerial work without interference,” Eniola pleaded.

In her defence, 34-year-old Basirat pleaded with the court to prevail on her husband not to leave her.



She, however, blamed the plaintiff for the challenges experienced in their union, which had produced four children.

Basirat alleged that her husband approved her relocation to Lagos to do menial job when life was tough for the family.

”Truly, I nagged him when I noticed his unholy romance with a female church member he eventually impregnated.

”As a woman, it is not strange that I expressed my disapproval towards his relationship with the woman, after all, he is a pastor.

”I want the court to give us more time for settlement because I cannot remarry after four children.



“And I promise to corporate with him if the matter is resolved.” Basiratsaid.

Having listened to both parties, the president of the court, Chief Ramoh Olafenwa, adjourned the case until February 28, 2018 for parties to report on settlement of the matter out of court.

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i know the pastor may have preached against divorce before in his church

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∆ So he married at the age of 21?

What kind of life is that self to start with? ∆



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It must really hurt to be married for that long & for it to end like nothing. How do you start over? Geez.

XhosaNostra:
It must really hurt to be married for that long & for it to end like nothing. How do you start over? Geez.

Gosh, can you imagine? . Perhaps that's why these old mamas stick it out even if there's nothing to hang on to. But on the other hand , I think it must be refreshing being free and not having to compromise here and there .

Mzansian:




Gosh, can you imagine? . Perhaps that's why these old mamas stick it out even if there's nothing to hang on to. But on the other hand , I think it must be refreshing being free and not having to compromise here and there .

Yeah. I can also see both sides, but how does one even begin to purge & forget 2 decades worth of memories? After twenty years, surely you've been everywhere together etc. What I personally like to do after a break up is AVOID, AVOID, AVOID until I'm strong enough to face certain things. Meaning that everything that reminds me of us, especially "you", is out of the question. So after twenty years? I'd be a recluse for sure lol.

How do you handle breakups? Do you have a method?

XhosaNostra:


Yeah. I can also see both sides, but how does one even begin to purge & forget 2 decades worth of memories? After twenty years, surely you've been everywhere together etc. What I personally like to do after a break up is AVOID, AVOID, AVOID until I'm strong enough to face certain things. Meaning that everything that reminds me of us, especially "you", is out of the question. So after twenty years? I'd be a recluse for sure lol.

How do you handle breakups? Do you have a method?

Yeah . That must be some difficult change but if the relationship was empty already i think it would be less depressing to start over or continuing with your loneliness lol.

Lol , I get you. Personally, I can't remember any break- up that got to me...except that one ....perhaps I never gave that much of me to anyone else before that. Lol, that one showed me how fragile I could be . I did what you do , AVOIDED everything and everyone who knew us . I even had to move to a different city coz my mind was fckd up . I only started connecting with those people recently after so long. So , I clearly can't handle breakups well. If lena would cease to exist , maybe I would move to a different country .

OrestesDante:


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∆ So he married at the age of 21?

What kind of life is that self to start with? ∆
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And she married at 14? Nonsense!!!

Mzansian:



Yeah . That must be some difficult change but if the relationship was empty already i think it would be less depressing to start over or continuing with your loneliness lol.

Lol , I get you. Personally, I can't remember any break- up that got to me...except that one ....perhaps I never gave that much of me to anyone else before that. Lol, that one showed me how fragile I could be . I did what you do , AVOIDED everything and everyone who knew us . I even had to move to a different city coz my mind was fckd up . I only started connecting with those people recently after so long. So , I clearly can't handle breakups well. If lena would cease to exist , maybe I would move to a different country .

I see the truth in your 1st paragraph. So true. Yile kaka ndikuyo now.

You mean the breakup with the cheeseboy from East London or another one? He did you stron' tin, nne?

LMFAO @ moving to another country. That really got me cracking. You're INNNNNN. May it never come to that point

marunga:
And she married at 14? Nonsense!!!

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XhosaNostra:


I see the truth in your 1st paragraph. So true. Yile kaka ndikuyo now.

You mean the breakup with the cheeseboy from East London or another one? He did you stron' tin, nne?

LMFAO @ moving to another country. That really got me cracking. You're INNNNNN. May it never come to that point

Yho sana , for me the moving out part was the worst kulakaka ye relationship. You know xanihlala together , many things become intertwined moss and to go start afresh takes a lot but I had to coz the wholethingy was rotten and there was no salvaging it.


Lol, ja that one. Very strong thing .


Lol, very INNNNNN. It scares me. Eish, ja ne .thanx lol.

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Yho sana , for me the moving out part was the worst kulakaka ye relationship. You know xanihlala together , many things become intertwined moss and to go start afresh takes a lot but I had to coz the wholethingy was rotten and there was no salvaging it.


Lol, ja that one. Very strong thing .


Lol, very INNNNNN. It scares me. Eish, ja ne .thanx lol.

Eish ja. How long were you guys together? I honestly understand why you became close off afterwards. Emotional trauma is legit. What was the reason for the break up, again? I remember you said the relationship was volatile for some time. Did it become too volatile or were there other underlying issues besides that & iziyobisi? But man, you're strong. I'll give you that.

XhosaNostra:


Eish ja. How long were you guys together? I honestly understand why you became close off afterwards. Emotional trauma is legit. What was the reason for the break up, again? I remember you said the relationship was volatile for some time. Did it become too volatile or were there other underlying issues besides that & iziyobisi? But man, you're strong. I'll give you that.

For almost 2 years but sihleli together for like 8 months or so, and uyazi ke it's always sweet and romantic ekuqaleni . It's legit sana. With iziyobisi getting out of hand by the day , it became too volatile . Zinto got worse ke after losing umsebenzi, I was fckd. That was like two months before I decided uba siprinter chap . And I think ne pride of going to live with my sister and her family or cousins yandinyisa so I stuck it out like a champ . Stupid, I know. The day ndadikwa and decided to bounce, is the last day I saw him.......wait ........



Not before wandidubula ndanya with a crossbow, as I was pushing my bags out of the door . Paula Zahn kinda shyt lol.

Mzansian:




For almost 2 years but sihleli together for like 8 months or so, and uyazi ke it's always sweet and romantic ekuqaleni . It's legit sana. With iziyobisi getting out of hand by the day , it became too volatile . Zinto got worse ke after losing umsebenzi, I was fckd. That was like two months before I decided uba siprinter chap . And I think ne pride of going to live with my sister and her family or cousins yandinyisa so I stuck it out like a champ . Stupid, I know. The day ndadikwa and decided to bounce, is the last day I saw him.......wait ........



Not before wandidubula ndanya with a crossbow, as I was pushing my bags out of the door . Paula Zahn kinda shyt lol.

Smh.

Awwwww

XhosaNostra:


Smh.

Awwwww

Kaak happens I guess....*shrugs*

Mzansian:




Kaak happens I guess....*shrugs*

Yho, this ain't no shrug life, it's serious. Ndizibona zonke but attempting to take a life is a yeses lol.

XhosaNostra:


Yho, this ain't no shrug life, it's serious. Ndizibona zonke but attempting to take a life is a yeses lol.

Lol, for sure. Levels chap...levels. I hear ubuyile and dating some coloured chick pha e east London. Feel sorry for her in advance if usenjeya .

Mzansian:



Lol, for sure. Levels chap...levels. I hear ubuyile and dating some coloured chick pha e east London. Feel sorry for her in advance if usenjeya .

Where was he all this time kanti? They're a match made in heaven if she's a typical Coloured. Bazokhobozana until they're hardly recognizable. Thank God you got away. Yerrr.

XhosaNostra:


Where was he all this time kanti? They're a match made in heaven if she's a typical Coloured. Bazokhobozana until they're hardly recognizable. Thank God you got away. Yerrr.

Emjiva kalok rha, I couldn't let him get away with it hence me and some of his people aren't besties. Lol, bathi she doesn't seem like a " typical " coloured though but asazi. Phindutsho. Nigga almost turned me into another karabo.

Mzansian:




Emjiva kalok rha, I couldn't let him get away with it hence me and some of his people aren't besties. Lol, bathi she doesn't seem like a " typical " coloured though but asazi. Phindutsho. Nigga almost turned me into another karabo.

Yey! Maybe ngumguvela now lol. Good you made him pay though. He deserved that. Bloody creep.

XhosaNostra:


Yey! Maybe ngumguvela now lol. Good you made him pay though. He deserved that. Bloody creep.

Lol@ umguvela. I doubt it though, you know how these things work. I'm sure u daddy paid for i protection and nice food through out.