1. Loss of Frame:

In any business or relationship, someone has to provide leadership. Many Nigerian men lost their frame (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/08/the-frame/) the moment they got that 'special one' woman. They are happy if she allows them access to the Television remote, and watch their favorite sport channel because she controls everything, they are afraid to call her to order because if they do she may deny them sex.

They couldn't provide leadership and she has to take over the role, instead of the man getting back and maintaining the frame, he accept following her wish and rationalized it by saying 'I want peace and don't want to annoy her, more so women are the owner of the home'

2. They Pedestalized Women:

Nigerian men listen to music and watch movies, read novels, told by mothers, feminized fathers, blue pill conditioned relationship/life coaches to believe the best and only way to get a woman to like them is when they do all the nice things (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/01/12/6-things-nice-guy-attract-girl-every-real-man-must-never/) and they will overtime get her sexual reward.

These men try so hard to do and say all the good things, so afraid not to offend her. First to 'like' and offering her undeserved complimentary comment to her social media picture post, DM her to beg for her attention thereby over inflating the value of her pussy (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/01/18/facebook-twitter-instagram-ego-inflated-pussy-value-woman-shes-busy/) and making her to see herself as a mini celebrity.

3. They are Feminizis:

Many Nigerian men are too feminized, they now act and think like a woman. Some were raised by a woman/single mother who only taught them only how to be 'nice' to women and loosing their manhood in the process is a good bargain, because of an absent of a father figure or presence of a feminized father they think embracing their masculinity is a danger to women.

4. False Sexual Pre-Condition:

Most Nigerian men with their blue pill sexual condition believe when they go on date with a woman, makes them entitled to her sexual reward and they go mad if she refused. As indicated in the How to Unplugged Yourself From Inter Sexual Conditioning
(http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/12/08/unplugged-inter-sexual-conditioning/) a sexualized situation can lead to sex without going on a fancy date, so she owes you no obligation to have sex with you.

5. Male Feminist or Woman Ally:

Many Nigerian men are now feminist ally because they think defending women ideology will get her to like him, he never bother to ask himself how many women are fighting for better treatment of men or boys in schools.

6. Lack Knowledge of Inter Sexual Dynamic:

Nigerian men don't understand what a woman does is more important than what she says. So they can't read her indicators of interests IOIs (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/02/06/dangerous-times-nigerian-men/)and know that her reactions only change when her feelings changes not by her talk, but would rather come on Twitter to seek for praises of how nice they are because she said 'stop' and he stopped.

7. Lost Their Masculinity to Feminism:

Nigeria men like every men in the world are protectors, social providers, provide leadership and security for the woman. In war, dangers or hard times women look up to men for rescue, that's masculinity (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/25/masculinity-makes-man-man/) but many men have lost this natural role in support of feminism. Yet they are called when the woman NEED them (use their masculinity in danger), but talk of equality when they are WANTED to provide sperm and support their feminism ideology.

8. Lost Role of Training Boy Child:

Many Nigerian men now think it's the power of woman to train the boy child, so ignorant to know that a boy need a man/father (same way a girl need her mother/woman) to teach him about embracing his masculinity, not to think or act like a woman. And to know that a boy only need the mother to know what real love is and how to love his woman, but today men would rather allow the woman to train and teach boys to become feminized boys who grow up to become weaker men/nice guys. Women train boys to conform to their thinking and mode him in her image.

9. Ignorance of Their Sexual Marketing Value:

Many Nigerian men like every other men in the world do not realized that their attraction level increases, become more confidence, highly attractive to young and beautiful women as they grow old if they stay fit with good body, instead they are worried like the woman when they are 30 years and not married. A woman attraction level decreases as she grows older and it takes a short time for men to start passing her by or prefer her younger sisters (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/09/21/fear-every-woman/). This ignorance of men is her strength.

10. No Love Lost Among Men:

Nigerian men don't support each other but would go extreme to defend a woman because the society and the feminine imperatives have subconsciously made men to believe it's the right thing to do. When a man is sometimes wrongly accused, the sisterhood come together to name and shame him and in many cases men help this women to push their agenda.

11. Lazy and Soft:

Many Nigerian men make woman their mission in life and involve in robbery to get her what she want, they don't invest time to build themselves mentally (by learning more about sexual dynamics, philosophy, stoic, acquiring a skill etc), physically by working out and staying in shape, muscles, great body, and maintaining the frame of their relationship. Instead they spent money and invest time in bars, eating voraciously ANYTIME thereby reducing their six packs to a big ZERO pack ending up with pot belly, they think it's a sign of good living.

12. They are Nice Guys and Always in The Friend-zone:

Most Nigerian men invest their time and attention, provide pillow of comfort for their woman friend who's ill treated by her boyfriend, listen to all her story and offer her advice, believing this will make her see them as the nice guy who will treat her right assuming she's dating him. They go violent when after all their good 'advice' she goes back to have sex with the same 'bad boyfriend'. Nice guys (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/09/29/paying-bills-good-act-expecting-sex-intimate-commitment-reward-weakness/) are only nice until they are not!

13. Living a Lie:

Very many Nigerian men are mislead to believe that feminism is all about equality for the woman and the only way for the woman to make great achievement. This is false because any progress made so far by women can be achieve without feminism (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/18/bitter-truth-feminism/). Rape or fighting for the welbeing of girl child can be achieve by creating an NGO or when women partner with an NGO.

When the need arise men will be call upon to protect women, you will assume they can take care of themselves and also let the men take of themselves as equality dictates. NO! They can't! Feminism is a window of opportunity for her to do what ever she want without judgment and to blame the man for her failures.


14. Waste Their Time Searching For The One:

Almost all Nigerian men believe there's that one special women somewhere waiting for them and all they need is for the universe or the right to for them to meet and will be happy ever after. They never realized there are only good and bad ones when dealing with women, no special one (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/11/11/no-special-one/) and falling in love with her doesn't make it so.

15. Scarcity Mentality:

They suffer from scarcity mentality and focus all their attention to one woman because of her beauty and stop making new approaches, only to be disappointed when she break up with him and left in desert of sexual dryness.

16. Black Lips and Teeth:

Many Nigerian Men as a result of heavy smoking have dirty and decaying tooth, black lips with eyes always red like a crying baby.

17. External Mental Point of Origin:

Many Nigerian men seek approval from a woman, they are happier when a woman accept their proposal. A man should be his own mental point of origin, his happiness or finding it should come from him

You may want to visit our blog (www.themencode.com.ng) for deeper understanding of inter-sexual dynamics between a man and woman.

Summary: The op is all about sex