There are three main reasons that makes a man obsessed over one girl.

1. Investments made on the girl raises the value.

You would naturally value that stuff you spent so much effort getting. When you spend so much time, and energy on one girl you will want to easily forget her careless behaviour and get her back.

2. The girls who came after her were not as good looking.

Some men don't learn or develop the skills to attract girls they really want. So let's say the previous ex was a 7, and all the other ladies after her were 6's and 5's it's going to be hard forgetting about her completely.

3. The man believes in the soulmate myth.

There are 3 solutions to this.

1. After the break up, focus on getting ladies who are more attractive and have more to offer you.

2. Develop yourself into someone of high value... Get your body in shape, start having many options and have multiple interests.

3. Realize there are some good ones, there are some bad ones but there is no "one".

The easiest way.


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