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I don't think so, it should be for better for worse. Issues like unfaithfulness between married couples can be settled.

Emotionally....It's over.
But, physically.....Not really.


Cheating tampers the trust spouses have for each other, and when the trust in any marriage isn't strong.

It affects.

It is so over!!!

I can't stand

It totally depends, if we had kids together I might decide to stay coz of them but I will never trust him again.
Still don't understand why married men stray from their marital vows.

I believe marriage is hard and men sometimes just want to relieve some pressure. Most times, it’s a temporary thing and sometimes they don’t even remember the ladies name they are cheating with. It’s all about letting off steam. My thoughts.....

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It is better for many people up here to stay away from marriage than entering it

enfuse:
I believe marriage is hard and men sometimes just want to relieve some pressure. Most times, it’s a temporary thing and sometimes they don’t even remember the ladies name they are cheating with. It’s all about letting off steam. My thoughts.....

If you follow my blog (hpluscommunitylink..com.ng/)you will understand In our interview study, explained that the men who cheated on their partners all said they loved them and didn’t want to lose them. They start off thinking they want monogamy, but after being in a relationship for months or years, they start missing sex with others. But by this point, they don’t want to break up with their partners because they have long-standing love.

Our model of romantic love assumes that if a union is healthy, there is no need to go elsewhere, People stray for a multitude of reasons… but one theme comes up repeatedly: affairs are a form of self-discovery, a quest for a new (or lost) identity. For these seekers, infidelity is less likely to be a symptom of a problem, and is more often described as an expansive experience that involves growth, exploration, and transformation

Cheating by a guy should not lead to the end of a marriage

Let's face reality , it's next to impossible for a guy to eat the same 'soup' every day for the rest of his life?

Absolutely.

FIDELITY24:
I don't think so, it should be for better for worse. Issues like unfaithfulness between married couples can be settled.

Even Jesus supports divorce in the case of infidelity!!!

ranmoor:


Even Jesus supports divorce in the case of infidelity!!!

okay, make me believe so by quoting the chapter in the Bible.

Liliyann:
It totally depends, if we had kids together I might decide to stay coz of them but I will never trust him again.
Still don't understand why married men stray from their marital vows.

he Said Cheating Husband And Wife,bt U Don Equate Am To Men Only Na Wa ooo.

Yes...very over!!!!!....it is not by force to marry.. But if you do..you have yo be faithful.. I can cheat and can stand a cheating spouse!!!!!

FIDELITY24:
okay, make me believe so by quoting the chapter in the Bible.

Have u come across Matt 5:32? In case u don't have a bible, see below:

See mumu question

It depends on the couple.
Everyone has what's a deal breaker for him or her.
For some it's cheating, others it's something else.

The only thing that's confirmed is that the other party would be hurt, and trust would be breached. It doesn't always mean the marriage is 'over', literally.

ranmoor:


Have u come across Matt 5:32? In case u don't have a bible, see below:

lol... I do have a Bible bro, thanks for sharing the Bible quotations.

For me, yes! If you demand faithfulness from me, nothing stops me from demanding same from you.

NO! I'm not trying to justify cheating but we men are polygamous in nature, if you find out your husband cheats on you then he probably doesn't love you,no man who loves his woman and values his marriage no matter how much of a nympho he is,will ruin his marriage over a booty call.

Mandrake007:
NO! I'm not trying to justify cheating but we men are polygamous in nature, if you find out your husband cheats on you then he probably doesn't love you,no man who loves his woman and values his marriage no matter how much of a nympho he is,will ruin his marriage over a booty call.

And women are monogamous in nature?
The women you polygamous men cheat with, no be another person woman? What an irony...

AntiBrutus:


And women are monogamous in nature?
The women you polygamous men cheat with, no be another person women? What an irony...

Sometimes they aren't..... they can be single.

Mandrake007:
NO! I'm not trying to justify cheating but we men are polygamous in nature, if you find out your husband cheats on you then he probably doesn't love you,no man who loves his woman and values his marriage no matter how much of a nympho he is,will ruin his marriage over a booty call.

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donstan18:


Sometimes they aren't..... they can be single.

Same way there are also non-cheating men, who have refused to be polygamous in nature.

Now, the women that are not single, are they polygamous in nature?

Mandrake007:
NO! I'm not trying to justify cheating but we men are polygamous in nature, if you find out your husband cheats on you then he probably doesn't love you,no man who loves his woman and values his marriage no matter how much of a nympho he is,will ruin his marriage over a booty call.

women cheat more than men..they are just more coded than men.....smart creatures..trust them at your peril

babyfaceafrica:
women cheat more than men..they are just more coded than men.....smart creatures..trust them at your peril

trust I know this

AntiBrutus:


Same way there are also non-cheating men, who have refused to be polygamous in nature.

Now, the women that are not single, are they polygamous in nature?

@Bolded, not really.

But that's not my area of point, i'm trying to tell you that some side chicks are monogamous, they may be single before being used as a mistress by a cheating man, they mustn't belong to any man before being approached at.

donstan18:


@Bolded, not really.

But that's not my area of point, i'm trying to tell you that some side chicks are monogamous, they may be single before being used as a mistress by a cheating man, they mustn't belong to any man before being approached at.

Okay, try and tell that poster too...that some men are not polygamous. That's my area of point. Thank you.

AntiBrutus:


Okay, try and tell that poster too...that some men are not polygamous. That's my area of point. Thank you.

No doubts.

Kobicove:
Cheating by a guy should not lead to the end of a marriage

Let's face reality , it's next to impossible for a guy to eat the same 'soup' every day for the rest of his life?

vthat is a wrong mentality to have