Learn what he really wants in the bedroom and why, with these sex tips and advice.

Freud called female sexuality "the dark continent"; if that's true, male sexuality could qualify as the dark planet. But when it comes to sex, guys are simple, right? Not true. The bedroom is one of the great stages of male performance, and as such, what you see and hear is typically the role, not the reality. It's no wonder, in trying to please the actor, a woman loses sight of a guy's true identity. Here are 10 "unmasking" facts you may want to know:



1. Men Respond to Praise

It's believed that men are so consumed by our libido that they have no self-consciousness surrounding sex. But men are no different from women when it comes to compliments as catalysts for sexual confidence. This praise can be delivered before reaching the bedroom (give tehm the once-over and tell us how buff they look), and after (give them the once-over and tell them how buff they look naked). Along those lines, men worry about the size of their guts (and other measurable organs), their hair (or lack thereof) and other attributes. Try to be extra affirming about those sensitivities.

2. Men Fear Intimacy…

…but not for the reason you think! Studies have shown that boys are more affectionate, even more expressive, than girls until they reach school age. At that time, social repression begins—of words, thoughts, feelings—and our desire for human connection goes underground. So taboo is this desire for intimacy that its possibility can terrify men—not because it's smothering, but because they realize how desperate they are for it. What's a woman to do? First, understand that your guy's hasty retreat post-sex may be about his own shock at how much he craves a connection with you (and how much he's denied it in life). Then, retreat a little yourself. This gives him time to see that his boyhood habits are, in fact, perfectly manly.

3. Men Appreciate Sex for Sex's Sake

Having said that about intimacy, sometimes a little "throw-me-down sex" is the right medicine. According to Joe Kort, PhD, a psychotherapist and sexologist, "Men want their wives to enjoy raw sex, not just endure it or take it personally. For men, it's not about dominating a woman, but ravishing her." On occasion, try letting him ravish you.

4. Men Are Not Just Our…

The penis gets all the press, but men have "many erogenous zones," says psychologist Melodie Schaefer, PsyD. "Men tend not to correct women because they're afraid women will shut down and not touch them at all. But there are many places a woman should touch." Like the chest, the inner thighs and face. Two other key areas: Gently gripping a man's testicles can be a real turn-on, as it blends control with release. Also, stimulating the perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, will heighten pleasure during MouthAction.

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OP hope you put these into practice not just posting,remember to practice what you preach.

dont spread the lie that men fear intimacy. how can men love sex yet fear intimacy?? sex IS intimate.... get your facts in order before attempting to write about what men want. and men dont respond to praise.thats just another misconception that has every girl rushing to stroke a man's ego.
man needs 3 things:1.sex without drama or begging.thats why they prefer prostitutess 2.respect.thats 10X more important to a man than "love". and its a shame that modern women cant offer respect without blabbing "respect is earned".watch any gangstar/mafia movie and you'll see how many times the word "respect" is tossed around. 3.food. keep a man well-fed and you have him. but its a shame you girls have cancelled cooking from your lives. if you cant cook for a man telling him you love him 100 times a day means zero. thats just lip service.
now. write a post o these 3 things and you'll be on the right track.im a man and i just told you the truth as it is.im not gona lie to you like these other guys to impress you.truth sets us all free.

ubunja:
dont spread the lie that men fear intimacy. how can men love sex yet fear intimacy?? sex IS intimate.... get your facts in order before attempting to write about what men want. and men dont respond to praise.thats just another misconception that has every girl rushing to stroke a man's ego.
man needs 3 things:1.sex without drama or begging.thats why they prefer prostitutess 2.respect.thats 10X more important to a man than "love". and its a shame that modern women cant offer respect without blabbing "respect is earned".watch any gangstar/mafia movie and you'll see how many times the word "respect" is tossed around. 3.food. keep a man well-fed and you have him. but its a shame you girls have cancelled cooking from your lives. if you cant cook for a man telling him you love him 100 times a day means zero. thats just lip service.
now. write a post o these 3 things and you'll be on the right track.im a man and i just told you the truth as it is.im not gona lie to you like these other guys to impress you.truth sets us all free.

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Noted sir, thanks for correcting me. I appreciate!