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Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by laydoh(m): 11:58am On Mar 16, 2018 |
Jiang:you will definitely find her.i also share in ur enthusiasm.adding to wat u mention earlier,my girl shud v a bit of passion for football.if she doesnt like all those u mentioned.wat does she like then,she must be extravagantly boring.am nt a fan of anime sha. 1 Like |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Tennorazy: 11:58am On Mar 16, 2018 |
Let God forgive me if not to marry is a sin I don't know why, i just can't. |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by nellyelitz(m): 11:59am On Mar 16, 2018 |
I didn't even click when i knw she must be one of them |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Randomshotz: 11:59am On Mar 16, 2018 |
WORDWORLD: Correct! You have anointing on your head. Some people cannot separate oyibo culture and Christianity. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by highchief1: 12:11pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:amen o. |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Adamummya(f): 12:12pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
TheKingIsHere: brother go and read 1 corinthians 7 -1...15 |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Randomshotz: 12:16pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
Adamummya: Can you paste it here so that everyone will see. Thanks. 2 Likes |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by 2016easy2017: 12:22pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
Adamummya: sorry.havnt u evr had it wt a man who eventually ddnt marry u? ur man is inbetween some two fat legs now. as ussuall every day |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Nobody: 12:23pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
TheKingIsHere: almost. |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by 2016easy2017: 12:24pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
Adamummya:Abraham. the father of faith, had howmany? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Tennorazy: 12:27pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
Randomshotz: You are absolutely right here, My grandfather married more than 22 wives and littered lots if children that he couldn't even remember all, could you believe this man lived for over 120+ years before he died. And in addition, my grandmother which happens to be one of his wife is still alive at 90+. Who will die will die sha 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Randomshotz: 12:31pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
Adamummya: Now for the matters you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. 3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. 5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6 I say this as a concession, not as a command. 7 I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that. 8 Now to the unmarried[a] and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. 9 But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion. 10 To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11 But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife. 12 To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or the sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace. From the above where does it forbid polygamy? 4 Likes |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by megama: 12:33pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
HeWrites:okkk.nobe 1-1 againg |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Simbrixton(m): 12:41pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
HeWrites:There are more single men tho so two wives is wrong |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by MrMystrO(m): 12:41pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Not every woman can share her husband with different women, Very true. I think the problem with her post is Generalizing the advice for ALL men if They Can Instead of The ones Who NEED to if They Can. And i say this always, same way some women cannot share their men, what happens to a man who can't live with just one woman and doesn't want to play games?? And so i believe sensitive issues like this have to be balanced in order to suit the views of everyone. Monogamy and Polygamy can exist side by side without dragging everyone into a murky fight.. You're a liberal mind and i expect you to understand this. |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by blackbeau1(f): 12:52pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
kanmifad:thanks |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by blackbeau1(f): 12:54pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
kanmifad:unfortunately, in Africa and nigeria, the children are viewed as 'his' children . But thanks anyway |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by JFT24(m): 12:55pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
Adamummya:And where did she mention your men |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by JFT24(m): 12:57pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
kuntash:what point are you driving at exactly |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by oluwaahmed: 1:00pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
lanocfoods:As a Christian it's good to quote from the summary of the whole text. I am going to breakdown ur scriptures one after the other Matt19,3-6:7-9 They said to Him, “Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?” He said to them, “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. Jesus said wives not wife. So why would you divorce when u have more than one wife? 1Cor7:2. Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. A wife is someone who leaves her home and clings to her husband irrespective of weather he's married or not. This scripture doesn't even prove anything. 1Timothy3vs12?? Did u make a mistake here bcoz d scriptures you quoted has no correlation with marriage Please don't quote crap here, ur making real Christians feel bad. 3 Likes |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Ayiibobo(m): 1:07pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
blackbeau1:leave brother with his salary alone ma,find husband 1st,.....i can sense painment in ur comment 1 Like
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Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by oluwaahmed: 1:09pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
Randomshotz: Very correct. My grandpa had more Dan one wife and till today, we are all cool and go to our houses to spend holiday, no beef. White people marry only one and it's even a civil offence to marry more than one til Dis day. It works 4 Dem, doesn't mean it can or should work for us. African tradition a man with many wives shows wealth and riches. In those days adultery was a taboo that's why men married many wives so as not to anger the gods. White brought their tradition and mixed it with religion then forced it down our throats. 3 Likes |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Ayiibobo(m): 1:10pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
Coldfeets:wicked guy,.....kaka kaladze 1 Like
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Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Ayiibobo(m): 1:18pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
Tinalex:wat u are saying only happens in yoruba film,its very convenient to marry more than 2 in a roof for men like me,if i die at the age of 70 is not too bad na,mo shi jaye na 2 Likes |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Randomshotz: 1:20pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
oluwaahmed: That is it. It pains me when our supposed graduates with their exposure through school cannot separate Christianity from westernization/colonization. 5 Likes |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by blackbeau1(f): 1:24pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
Ayiibobo:painment about what ? Huncle , trust me by God grace, I'm not looking for a husband. At all. My problem is choice |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Ayiibobo(m): 1:25pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
kuntash:and where did our creator mandated it for men to marry just one wife?,God did it in that ratio for a reason,he didn't create dem to die without a husband,stop using sakamanje to cover up wat is plain and bare for all to see ojere.............I don't consider a one wife man as being man enuf. 2 Likes |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Ayiibobo(m): 1:29pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
blackbeau1:dats wat y'all do say,......i pray u make the right choice |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Ayiibobo(m): 1:33pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:u are too stingy,wat is there?,...ordinary dick 1 Like |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by sulasa07(m): 1:53pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
ehinmowo:Idiot,D command was from GOD,y,coz people back then could marry like 10,15 wives.It was only brought to a limit of 4.And besides it's optional |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Harkholarworle(m): 1:58pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
Thanks18:None of the verse forbid a man marrying more than one, if not what the westerners has put into our head, feminist, feminist and feminist, most of them can't even stay with one woman, they cheats, grab women, divorce many times, have side chicks etc. Don't be deceived, IF U HAVE THE MIGHT, marry more than one, the sad thing about that is that most people take advantage of the privilege but that doesn't stop anyone who has the financial, physical and intellectual power not to marry more than one. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: "Men, Please Marry More Than One Wife If You Can" - Fatima Aliyu Daku by Hahjascho(m): 2:02pm On Mar 16, 2018 |
END TIME PROPHECY.....THAT'S AN AUTOMATIC HELL ON EARTH |
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