My girlfriend is a sweetheart and the kind of girl that every guy would dream about. I have been with her for about 5 months now and everything was perfect until we started making love. She told me that am the second guy in her life and that the 1st guy (the guy that broke her heart) promised her marriage when they were dating. I met this lady a month after my NYSC last year and I have been in love with her since that day. Although, she told me she is not ready for a relationship that has no future and that was same thing I had in mind. We have been perfect as friends even as partners.

The problem

This main issue here is that everytime she squirts during sex, she will start shouting the name of her Ex. ( the guys name is James ). This is so annoying and I have been trying to make her know that the habit gets me really angry. She has apologized several times but still no positive change. It's really killing me as a guy that my Bae calls another niggas name during sex (especially when squirting). The only reason she gave was that i really know to make love to her and it reminds her of her ex (what rubbish). I understand her history with he ex but am starting to fall out of love with her. I know she loves me from the depth of her beautiful heart and I know the extent she can go just to keep us together.

This is really killing my self-esteem as a guy and my Ego too and I might call off the relationship soon even if I still love her.

Will she change? It's been 5 months now and we made love countless time.

Kill her and use her for blood money.
You'd be able to date Roman goddess if you want.
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I think she could be fantasizing about her ex while having sex with you. The thought of her ex is probably what makes her "squirt" in the 1st place, so I don't believe she'll stop calling his name any time soon. The day she stops, she'll either not enjoy sex as much with you anymore or you'll be her new fantasy guy. Hope for the later.

EvilChild:
Kill her and use her for blood money.
You'd be able to date Roman goddess if you want.
My 2 cents
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That name sha

XhosaNostra:
I think she could be fantasizing about her ex while having sex with you. The thought of her ex is probably what makes her "squirt" in the 1st place, so I don't believe she'll stop calling his name any time soon. The day she stops, she'll either not enjoy sex as much with you anymore or you'll be her new fantasy guy. Hope for the later.

I have never thought about it like this ohh. I actually thought she might be the type that give her whole heart for love and maybe that's hunting her. I just hope it's not it.
Thank you so much for your reply.

Monkey de work...Bamboo de chop praises

How can your girlfriend be this wicked

Shouting and screaming "James! James! James!" while Obinna is pounding and sweating profusely

Hoh Ma GOD!!
I cannot stop crying.

she must be obsessed with the guy (james)

Faceville:

I have never thought about it like this ohh. I actually thought she might be the type that give her whole heart for love and maybe that's hunting her. I just hope it's not it.
Thank you so much for your reply.

She could still be hung up on him, why else would his name still be in her mouth during the most intimate moments? It doesn't make sense. He is still on her mind or he is still the only guy that turns her on. It could change though, the closer you get.

hajoke2000:
she must be obsessed with the guy (james)

Judging from there past relationship I have no doubt. But she should be able to move on na. I really don't know what the ex did oh.. but I know it's really strong.

XhosaNostra:


She could still be hung up on him, why else would his name still be in her mouth during the most intimate moments? It doesn't make sense. He is still on her mind or he is still the only guy that turns her on. It could change though, the closer you get.

5 months and counting and you are still taking about closer?
Am just waiting for the right time to call it off before I start seeing kids that has no single resemblance after marriage.

Faceville:

5 months and counting and you are still taking about closer?
Am just waiting for the right time to call it off before I start seeing kids that has no single resemblance after marriage.

LOL!

Squirts Very few Nigerian ladies squirt.

Sorry BRO.. I don't believe this story.

But if you are looking for an imaginary advice, I think evilchild gave the best

swiz123:
Squirts Very few Nigerian ladies squirts.

Sorry BRO.. I don't believe this story.

But if you are looking for an imaginary advice, I think evilchild gave the best

Keep quiet there
How many ve u been with

MhizzAJ:


Keep quiet there
How many ve u been with

So you use to squirt ...where do you squirt from?

From your armpit or nose?

donstan18:


So you use to squirt ...where do you squirt from?

Fro your armpit or nose?

This is childish. Please just keep your thought to yourself. I only asked for advice. Thank you

donstan18:
Monkey de work...Bamboo de chop praises

How can your girlfriend be this wicked

Shouting and screaming "James! James! James!" while Obinna is pounding and sweating

I cannot stop crying.

Faceville:

This is childish. Please just keep your thought to yourself. I only asked for advice. Thank you

He wasn't talking to you nah
Calm down

Faceville:

This is childish. Please just keep your thought to yourself. I only asked for advice. Thank you

Advice on how to control screaming while squirting

Leaders of tomorrow indeed

Im selling a new brainwipe...brainwipe 3000...it always works

She will change like APC

SHE HAS A SOUL-TIE to her EX....

take her for deliverance or counseling till she is FREE.

also it is very possible that YOUR PERFORMANCE is at the same level or a bit lower than her EX.... when u surpass it, she will call your NAME.

It is well
LEARN TO MANAGE WHAT YOU CAN NOT CHANGE

Faceville:
My girlfriend is a sweetheart and the kind of girl that every guy would dream about. I have been with her for about 5 months now and everything was perfect until we started making love. She told me that am the second guy in her life and that the 1st guy (the guy that broke her heart) promised her marriage when they were dating. I met this lady a month after my NYSC last year and I have been in love with her since that day. Although, she told me she is not ready for a relationship that has no future and that was same thing I had in mind. We have been perfect as friends even as partners.

The problem

This main issue here is that everytime she squirts during sex, she will start shouting the name of her Ex. ( the guys name is James ). This is so annoying and I have been trying to make her know that the habit gets me really angry. She has apologized several times but still no positive change. It's really killing me as a guy that my Bae calls another niggas name during sex (especially when squirting). The only reason she gave was that i really know to make love to her and it reminds her of her ex (what rubbish). I understand her history with he ex but am starting to fall out of love with her. I know she loves me from the depth of her beautiful heart and I know the extent she can go just to keep us together.

This is really killing my self-esteem as a guy and my Ego too and I might call off the relationship soon even if I still love her.

Will she change? It's been 5 months now and we made love countless time.

Concentrate on what you are doing bro... With time, she will start moaning your own name

HANG ONE LEG UP & TIE THE OTHER TO THE BED THEN FV*C THE HELL OUT OF HER PVS*Y AND SHE WILL NEVER STOP MOANING YOUR NAME...,

bobokeshington:
HANG ONE LEG UP & TIE THE OTHER TO THE BED THEN FV*C THE HELL OUT OF HER PVS*Y AND SHE WILL NEVER STOP MOANING YOUR NAME...,

Start using earpiece when u are making love with her and make sure it's in the highest volume whenever u want to have sex with her...if she like make she call sango or Ogun u no go hear anything and u go fine with no negative feelings at all.....

Faceville:

I have never thought about it like this ohh. I actually thought she might be the type that give her whole heart for love and maybe that's hunting her. I just hope it's not it.
Thank you so much for your reply.

What you need do is free her like you done with the relationship. She will overcome it physiologically without being told what to do. I once had a girl that does the same each time we had sex. I warned her about to no avail then suddenly in the middle of the sex while she called the guys name I just walked her out of my house instantly.

She later pleaded n it never happened again. I think she’s yet to realize she can lose you to that singular act. I will advice you do not overlook it as that attachment singles an hold over her by the ex. If you are unable to break it you might be building to share you FP in life.

Shawnnn01:


What you need do is free her like you done with the relationship. She will overcome it physiologically without being told what to do. I once had a girl that does the same each time we had sex. I warned her about to no avail then suddenly in the middle of the sex while she called the guys name I just walked her out of my house instantly.

She later pleaded n it never happened again. I think she’s yet to realize she can lose you to that singular act. I will advice you do not overlook it as that attachment singles an hold over her by the ex. If you are unable to break it you might be building to share you FP in life.

Thank you for the advise Sir. But I think breaking up with her would be best for me.

Na your wife? Why you de sleep with am? You're even making her squirt as if na u get am... u don pay money for d squirt? My friend leave there, her moaning another person's name is proof you r working in another person's farm... squirt ke, no be only squirt na squat...

XhosaNostra:
I think she could be fantasizing about her ex while having sex with you. The thought of her ex is probably what makes her "squirt" in the 1st place, so I don't believe she'll stop calling his name any time soon. The day she stops, she'll either not enjoy sex as much with you anymore or you'll be her new fantasy guy. Hope for the later.

you just told the guy his problem without solving his solution.

ubunja:

you just told the guy his problem without solving his solution.

I don't believe that's up to me. His brain will decide for him, not me.

XhosaNostra:


I don't believe that's up to me. His brain will decide for him, not me.

ah ok. i thought he was here for help not to be told what he already knew.