Five ways you would lose your confidence as a man

Being a man is not a easy task as a lot of responsibilities are placed on one either by birth, by family, culture, self etc

As a man, you are respected by the level of responsibilities you can carry and how you can manage them effectively

It is duo to these many tasking responsibilities that probably make men rarely live longer than women.


The case that is majorly common is the man dying before a woman.

The male sex is termed with strenght, ego, confidence, and other traits.

But as a man you have your own fears, you have times when your confidence left you to yourself.

Well, the truth is, you qualify as a man by being able to hide your fear and show strength instead.

The day you show your fear easily, you lose your respect and you are seen as a feminine in a Man’s body.

It is not that females are fearful, the truth however is that as a man your level of fear is supposed to be lower than that of a woman.

Below are ways a man could lose his confidence

1. When you woo a lady for as first timer: There is a stage in life everyman is expected to woo the opposite sex with the motive of being in a relationship.

For everymale, it is very certain you will lose your ‘Super Cool’ confidence if it is the first time.

At that moment, most males flip through a lot of books and materials only to forget everything when they see the opposite sex.

Most would find it hard to look into the eyes of the opposite sex.

However, after the first trial they tend to become a Pro in the game.

2. The day you lose your source of income: As I said earlier, the strength of a man is measured by the responsibilities he can carry and how he can manage them effectively.

If as a man you don’t have a means of lively income, you tend to lose your confidence as there are certain matters you daren’t speak on.

3. The day you fight a fellow man and you lose in public: Fighting is bad but should you get involved in it with a fellow man, You had better be the ‘undisputed champion’

Else you lose your confidence in public and end up being a laughing stock.

4. The day you are unable to provide for your immediate family : being able to provide for your family members do boost your level of confidence.

How?

Because by providing for them you prove you are capable.

Now, look at it from being unable to provide then you will understand.

5. When you perform below your woman expectations sexually: This is the one that can kill a man confidence, ego, morale and everything about him very fast.

If your woman doesn’t feel you sexually and she makes you know, then your level of confidence while speaking with her tends to be low.


Source: https://thrillngr.com/2018/03/22/five-ways-you-would-lose-your-confidence-as-a-man/

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