Yesterday, Fatima Dangote and Abubakar Jamil got married. The bride is the daughter of Africa’s richest man, Aliko Dangote, while the groom is a pilot and the son of former Inspector-General of police, Mohammed Abubakar.

The wedding was attended by those who matter around the world including Bill Gates.

I have seen lots of analysis from social media commentators about how unrealistic the Nigerian movie industry has portrayed love being void of class; of how a wealthy man will go to the village and pick a local girl for marriage.

Does the rich always marry the rich?

Here's it:
Firstly, we have to understand that attraction happens in the midst of many similarities. You're more probable to get attracted to someone who has something in common with you.

But,
Sometimes it won't be money. It could be some other virtues. That's why if you're broke, it's advisable you have any of these qualities.

*Intelligence And Talent.
*Physical Beauty.
*Financial Capacity.

If you lack financial capacity, do well to be equipped intellectually. If you lack the both, well, be fine sha. Lol.
All three abilities are the major pillars of attraction.

The reason a lot of rich people don't marry someone ‘poor’ folks isn't always because they are ‘poor’, but because they have nothing exceptional. Yes.

In fact, I think it doesn't take much of financial capacity to impress a rich person, because they have it; they might not be in the relentless pursuit for anyone's financial ability..

They just want exceptionality. Confidence.

One reason we all should discover our perculiarity and build on it, not just to attract our customers, but also as a social advantage too, because the more developed you are, the more you're attractiveness goes high.

Every ability gives a social advantage and prestige.

You are broke. Fine.
What can you do well?

Money isn't only the socially prestigious tool of attraction.

I'm not downplaying financial class, but if you find yourself in a meeting with Bill Gates’ daughter, or a renowned and wealthy man's daughter, will you stay all cold because you ain't as rich as they are?

We all have our area of wealth.

I have seen very much wealthy ladies date very broke exceptional men just because they were different, and yes, talented. They met them and immediately observed something exceptional about them.

See, the problem is not that Bill Gates' daughter cannot love you, but how to attract her. Attraction precedes love. Human love doesn't sprout from nowhere.

Can one be proud of you publicly?
This is one way to ascertain your level of personal development.


Influential and wealthy people don't just want wealthy people too, they can build you up financially, they want someone who can rep. You can do stuff, talk, write, sing, just doing something exceptionally and with standard.

Don't be broke and lack everything else. If you talk to me you won't even recognise I'm broke because my exceptional mind will captivate you for so long. Lol. People don't want to look at you and see all the flaws. Have something that can shine away your weaknesses sha.

You cannot be broke in pocket..
Broke in your mind...
Broke in your head..
Broke in your face..
Broke in your body..
Hian!
Las las, stop dreaming to marry a rich person. Just be a rich person.

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mind your business

chrissylva:
mind your business

I understand this is beyond your comprehension. Go watch cartoons

Very well written

One of the reasons why it may seem the rich always marries the rich is that we need to understand that 'poverty' in this country is a vicious circle and to breakout from this circle is quite difficult.

We need to understand that the children of the poor have a cliché, eg the kinda restaurants the visit, the bar the chill at, the viewing centres the see football games at, and so many others.

Same goes with the kids of the rich, the sort of parties the attend, the lounge the chill at, the shows and events the attend, the university the attend and even the malls the shop at are all places the children of the poor probably can't attend. And it's in the midst of this gathering of the kids of the rich that an attraction strikes.

I know of a very popular lounge at enugu where Jim iyke and a host of movie and football stars chill, I bet you it's almost impossible for the kids of the poor to visit such places, so where, when and how can an attraction develop between the poor and the rich kids when they can't even meet.

iyketex007:
One of the reasons why it may seem the rich always marries the rich is that we need to understand that 'poverty' in this country is a vicious circle and to breakout from this circle is quite difficult.

We need to understand that the children of the poor have a cliché, eg the kinda restaurants the visit, the bar the chill at, the viewing centres the see football games at, and so many others.

Same goes with the kids of the rich, the sort of parties the attend, the lounge the chill at, the shows and events the attend, the university the attend and even the malls the shop at are all places the children of the poor probably can't attend. And it's in the midst of this gathering of the kids of the rich that an attraction strikes.

I know of a very popular lounge at enugu where Jim iyke and a host of movie and football stars chill, I bet you it's almost impossible for the kids of the poor to visit such places, so where, when and how can an attraction develop between the poor and the rich kids when they can't even meet.

thats a point too.......i think the attraction needs to start from the rich coming out of their niché.

OP u've made sense esp. Where u said we can't lack all three points of attraction...