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Most problems in marriages today started when individual men started forming churches and making their wife head of marriage counseling, and their wife started propagating funny doctrines with the support of their husband (the Pastor) claiming that husband and wife are equal.

Husband and wife are equal in the whites’ court marriage were either party can walk away once they are tired by going back to court and get divorce papers. But it is not same with Bible and Quaran.
Read Pastor Chris Oyakhilome’s position:

Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage, husband means master. The reason for most problems in Christian marriages is the fact that women refute God’s definition of marriage and form theirs. They believe they are equal partners. If most women had their fathers bold enough to talk to them, they will be very successful in their marriage and they will be very happy people. Most women have never been taught by their parents, their fathers particularly and that’s their biggest problem because they don’t know who a man is, they think he is another woman.


In marriage, you have the man who is the head of that union and because he’s the head of that union, its important to understand him. You think he’s the one that needs to understand his wife and that is where you are wrong. He will eventually but you have to know the type of man you are married to and his needs.When you say you are marrying a man, you are coming under his authority. The Bible says, the man is the head of the woman (1 Corinthians 11:3) so when you marry him you come under his authority, you are not authority sharers even though you are both heirs to the kingdom of God.When you decide not to subject yourself to that authority, you are a rebel and God is not going to accept what you are doing because you are not functioning correctly.

Why did God make the woman?Making woman was not God’s original plan because after God created Adam and before He made Eve, He said in Genesis 1:31 “Then God looked over all he had made, and he saw that it was very good”. God made woman because of man so woman was not His original idea. This is reality.Genesis 2:18a “And the Lord God said “for it is not good for a man to be alone..” The Bible didn’t say “lonely” but “alone”. There is a big difference. Man wasn’t lonely but alone. Genesis 2:18b “…I will make him an help meet”. He didn’t say a partner or a supervisor or a special advisor or someone to tell him what to do.I will make him someone to help him. God gave man a responsibility so woman was made to help man achieve that responsibility.

If this is understood in every home then you won’t have problems.I tell people that you don’t need a marriage seminar, you need the Word Seminar.

Let me tell you, no husband wants another mother, he has had one all his life. He doesn’t want an older sister, he probably had one.Your secret is in obedience, your secret is in listening to your husband, your secret is in doing the things that please him. When you don’t do the things that please him, you take the role of a mother or of an older sister. A man loves the one he serves (God) and the one that serves him (a good wife). He fights the one that wants to be at the same level with him (a rebellious wife).
To be happy in your family and home is the easiest thing in the world, just take your role. Take your place. That place that God gave you is a beautiful place. Its a place of peace. Its a place of love. It’s a place of excellence. Every wise person listens to wise voices (advice) but he listens to a wise voice that is presented wisely. Everyone rebels against the voice that is trying to make a fool out of him. When you want to correct your husband, don’t lord it over him,present it as a wise suggestion. Humble yourself and be smart. A wise woman will always be an influence to her husband, the foolish one will always annoy the husband, make him mad, make him angry and when you make him angry, you will be the victim.

Learn to listen to your husband, practice it, tell yourself that you are going to do it because that is where your beauty is.Once you stop listening, your beauty evaporates. You wonder why you are dressing and he can’t see it, he doesn’t remember your last hair style. Beauty is in obedience. That’s where the Glory is.

is marriage now between a slave and her Master?
it's, true a woman ought to be obedient, and all but using the word "master", instills fear in my mind..
by the way,look at Chris dishing out advise when his own house is on fire,he should settle with Anita,then we talk.. Ogar master!

I think the right word he should have used is "head" not master. The husband is the head of the home according to the Bible. I don't think the Bible ever used the words "Master of the home"

the bible says God says a woman should sumit herself to her husband

Nice One

Gullah:
I think the right word he should have used is "head" not master. The husband is the head of the home according to the Bible. I don't think the Bible ever used the words "Master of the home"

the same bible called husband "Lord"

Pathetic nonsense

From all your responses so far, I can tell which of you whose marriage will head, or is heading for the rocks.
The "Master" there is what the original manuscripts translates, same as "Lord" but you feel happy to question it and still believe your marriage will workout. As for those of you that feels you are in the new world where your fanatism in the form of feminism should thrive, I am sad to inform you that marriage has been an ancient institution, as ancient as man.
If as a woman you cannot submit to your husband by seeing him as your "Master" or "Lord", of obe flesh, then my advice is, stay off the union or you will be sad while it lasts.
Have you ever seen a Muslim woman questioning submission?

Pastor Chris' marriage issues wasn't due to submission. However, the satanic media sensationalized it and didnt even report the makeup part. I'm sure those media houses and journalists also have divorced staff or staff with troubled homes. Hypocrites!

Disclaimer: I am not a member of Christ Embassy, but a Christian with common sense!

Yawa...

Sorry... I didn't read that post but by the heading, when a man marries his friend, no superiority is attached.

More man tears

Wah wah

Submit submit.

They are about to congregate here to start wailing to each other about how these women aren’t submitting.

whine and nag.