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Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by Daboomb: 4:37pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
JasonScolari: Dont mind the sad and hateful baitch! - Things is, when women want to divorce their husband, they boast about and fight to have the chidren under their own care - After divorce, they run around telling thier friends that his life is finished (without her ), he is dipressed, bla bla bla - When he fixes his life and start 'living again', they become very sad and spiteful..... and suddenly remembers that he is not taking care of his kids and he does not deserve to be happy thereafter and forever. If you know you cant 'financially' take care of the children, let the parent that has the capacity to do so, have them. Dont drag the children to yourself, just to spite your partner and to make money off-him. Finally, stop whinning, we nor send you. BTW: Happy married life to the ex-hubby, life is just about to turn the corner. Haters gon-die. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by MissRaine69(f): 4:38pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
JasonScolari:Like I said those with means can And what of those without? And since I am not her legal advisor or friend I can’t advise I will stand by my stance you can’t abandon your children because the mother is being spiteful. At least let your children know you tried to do right by them. The operative word here being tried. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by VANENON(f): 4:39pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
Dalby: Do the needful to his children and ignore her. Your/his responsibility is to your children and not to her. Irrespective of her action pay/pay part of the children fees send her feeding money. Keep the evidence of transfer to her account or to children's school and show the evidence everywhere she goes to shout. |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by Nobody: 4:42pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
Daboomb:She's so full of hate and pains.... In a bid to make my comment look so bad, one of the single frustrated mod took her time out to lay curse on her father.... Happy married life to the Ex. 1 Like |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by shaybebaby(f): 4:43pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
frenzyduchess:Only in a lawless place does such happen. It's despicable really. |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by MissRaine69(f): 4:44pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
Dalby:My dearly departed ancestors what are you on about now? I see you have opted to serve right all of a sudden! The part of “ having your cake and eating it” you took that to be a reference to your mother? Smh Did you not write the woman can’t have her cake and it it? And I responded to that quote. It’s you that brought your poor mother into this not me . |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by shaybebaby(f): 4:44pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
JasonScolari:She doesn't need sympathy, she wants the father of her children to pay towards their upkeep. All this story you are telling is irrelevant if he is not contributing towards the children he made. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by shaybebaby(f): 4:45pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
samguru:What did the children do to him? Asinine people excusing irresponsibility. 2 Likes |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by Nobody: 4:45pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
MissRaine69:Alright, i get your point now... Many thanks MissRaine. |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by Dalby(m): 4:46pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
VANENON: This is a very responsible answer. I have another question, the man in this case re-married and goes to have kids, his income stream has not expanded. Prior to this incident his plan was for 3 kids. At this point he has 3 with the new wife and 3 with the old. For him to have peace in the house he focuses on the 3 at home. Would he still be a bad man? |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by shaybebaby(f): 4:48pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
Jabioro:And they deserve to be ignored by those kids in the future. You sir, are commended for being a father in the true sense of the word. 1 Like |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by Tallesty1(m): 4:51pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
makydebbie:Yes. makydebbie post=66236274I thought you're not taking sides? That's by the way, you saying now that the impression was given after they broke up? Can I hold onto that? makydebbie:Madam, I said hardly not don't and I still stand by it. Women fight for the custody of the children even when they don't have the means to take care of the them. Emeka Ike's wife is a good example. Some don't want the fathers to get close to the children at all, Tonto is an example. When things get tougher for them, they will start disturbing our peace. makydebbie:Bring it on baby, I am your stronger side. Feel free to pour it on me. |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by Nobody: 4:51pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
shaybebaby:Just calm down miss, can you advice her to visit the Igando customary court? If you can do that, we will appreciate you. Thanks. |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by shaybebaby(f): 4:53pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
Rubbiish:He lucky he is in naij, try that shit here and claim it's the new wife with money,she'll pay for the upkeep of his children. If he is cash poor but asset, the law will take a portion for the children. Except he wants to live with nothing in his name and unmarried, nigga will cough up. Nonsense! 1 Like |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by MissRaine69(f): 4:54pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
JasonScolari:about time too 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by shaybebaby(f): 4:55pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
JasonScolari: Better still, shame men who think it's okay to make children who didn't ask to be born, pay for their mistakes. Say no to being a dead beat dad! 1 Like |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by Nobody: 5:00pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
shaybebaby:Damn!!! You'll be a good DEFENDER for the Super Falcons.... Sometimes, the way some of you ladies judge things... it's so amazing. God forbid. |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by Nobody: 5:12pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
shaybebaby:well it's happening in Nigeria |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by VANENON(f): 5:12pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
Dalby: Even if the woman says nothing, God who sees and judges faithfully will punish him. The right thing to do is to send an upkeep for your children not to neglect them totally. You may not necessarily be able to take care of all their needs because of your/his added responsibilities but doing something which is reasonable within your/his means is the right thing to do! 1 Like |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by Jabioro: 5:25pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
shaybebaby:Thanks |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by Dalby(m): 5:33pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
shaybebaby: Na only the man dey make the kids? Women |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by shaybebaby(f): 5:35pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
Dalby:No, so the time and resources required to raise them should be shared equally. |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by hairyman(m): 5:36pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
Now this is the woman's side of the story, the man's side is rarely heard. But first let us explore some scenarios, did the man attempt to take some of the kids with him? Most probably he did but of course the woman resisted vehemently, if the children are young, the court will most likely grant the woman custody, so she keeps the kids, has what might be called a stable family, and expects the man to maintain that family while he wallows in loneliness. This isn't about child support, this is unfairness to men, if the woman is incapable of taking care of the children then she should give them up to the man, rather than expecting him to do all the duties from a distance while gaining nothing out of it given that with such duties, he will probably be unable to start another family somewhere else. This brings us to another usual.scenerio, in which the woman also teaches the children to dislike their father or, often, threatens to do it. What use are children to a man if they hate him. Logic demands, in this case, that he starts another family. Support for the other becomes a matter of discretion, thus he might "support" as he seems fit or as is directed by the court and leaves it at that. Anyway we rarely hear the man talk, the woman always plays the victim. More often than not though, she is far from that. We get the picture of a nice considerate woma who refused to bother the man because she thought he wasn't financially stable. A grossly illogical picture because men do not seperate from nice, wonderful women!!! |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by Dalby(m): 5:49pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
You know the irony of life, these same women saying kill him, kill him. If the man in question happens to be their brother you go see justification from them for his actions... 1 Like |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by jadyclem(m): 6:06pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
BleSSedMee: I got you point. I hail! |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by Dalby(m): 6:19pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
hairyman: Exactly |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 6:23pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
fabienjoe:To me it is investment and bringing up my children is a part of it because I cannot labour for them in vain.It is my duty yes and it is also their duty to take care of me when I am old.They Would Take Care of their kids and my husband and I as well because I did so for my parents.They can't abandon me in old age. |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by revolt(m): 6:49pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:how do u know the woman wasn't using the kids to blackmail him as pained women usually do and the guy decided to hands off? Have u heard the guys own side. Do u really think a man would leave his kids for no reason. She's a eking sympathy like the saint , when ppl dey warn am make she calm down she probably was forming strong woman. Anyways goofluck to her. 1 Like |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by revolt(m): 6:54pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
hairyman:some ppl will call u wicked (feminist birches), but as u get older as a man , ure eyes begin to open. Blackmail only gets you sympathy, it doesn't solve probs. I dnt understand y they always pop up when the mans bout to remarry |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by revolt(m): 6:56pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
shaybebaby:by sharing you mean custody inclusive abi? Or typical of women ud expect to hold on to the kid while he trains them for u and they barely know him |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by BabaAduras: 6:57pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
JasonScolari: You are welcome for thanking me and for not refuting that you are irresponsible. |
Re: Mother Of 3 Calls Out Her Ex-Husband Who Is Set To Remarry by revolt(m): 7:01pm On Mar 28, 2018 |
shaybebaby:like na only you dey live for Yankee....... There are more irresponsible dads there that here. Enforcing the law will need constant litigation by the woman. Plus I very much know that only applies to white collar/blue collar workers. Its better tp settle these things amicably. Ok what happens when the new union brings forth more kids? The first one will be given priority in ur head abi? |
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