Hello nairalanders, I'm currently dating a lady that is 2yrs older than me and I'm planing on proposing to her.
I have never loved any other girl like this before even though she's deaf and mute
My family and friends are kicking against it, but i stood my ground because i really want to spend the rest of my life with her.

Please guys, i need your advice on what to do. Thanks...

Lalasticlala

If She is deaf and mute and yet u still love her the way you do, then age is no barrier my friend..

Go for genotype test, if this requirment is met..
Then all the best nigga

It is your life not theirs some people in our African society are still not in support of a woman being older in a relationship basically because of their orientation.Since you say you love this girl forget your friends opinions and try to convince your family to accept in my own opinion there is nothing wrong if a woman is older people are married to such women and the couples have been together for years.Just be patient and convince your family they would agree they want the best for you in the end love truly conquers all.

phililp:
If She is deaf and mute and yet u still love her the way you do, then age is no barrier my friend..

Go for genotype test, if this requirment is met..
Then all the best nigga

our Fathers Never Went For Genotype Test Yet Married And Had Health Children... Did AA & AS automatically click everyday?


You Cant Worry About What You Dont know

Not bad.

DeadRat:
our Fathers Never Went For Genotype Test Yet Married And Had Health Children... Did AA & AS automatically click everyday?


You Cant Worry About What You Dont know

excuse me, are you tryna dissuade peeps from having genotype test and call it overrated??
talking about our fathers, you can't even compare the natural food they ate then with the chemicals all over the place these days.
Even if someone were to be AS or SS then, the natural food alone will help build up their immunity/soldiers of the body against fighting any forms of antigens/diseases they might be faced with.
hey bro, I'd advice and plead with you not to ever disregard gynotypic test, cheers.


For the op.
age is actually overrated, if she's 2years older and the difference in her physical appearance is not very conspicuous and of course you love her very much, then what you waiting for?
Please go ahead and spend the rest of your life with her but befr then, please don't forget to do genotype test and every other thing that follows.
Cheers man.

[quote author=DeadRat post=66323051] our Fathers Never Went For Genotype Test Yet Married And Had Health Children... Did AA & AS automatically click everyday?


You Cant Worry About What You Dont know[/quotel]

Well that was they lots off SS children.. We are much advanced now and should do what is neccessary...

[quote author=DeadRat post=66323051] our Fathers Never Went For Genotype Test Yet Married And Had Health Children... Did AA & AS automatically click everyday?


You Cant Worry About What You Dont know[/quotel]

Well thats y they had lots off SS children.. We are much advanced now and should do what is expected of us..

Ladyhippolyta88:
It is your life not theirs some people in our African society are still not in support of a woman being older in a relationship basically because of their orientation.Since you say you love this girl forget your friends opinions and try to convince your family to accept in my own opinion there is nothing wrong if a woman is older people are married to such women and the couples have been together for years.Just be patient and convince your family they would agree they want the best for you in the end love truly conquers all.

Thanks for the advice, honestly i have tried in convincing my family but they're saying it's because she's deaf and mute and that's the main reason they don't want to give there blessing.

If you genuinely love as you said, try to convince people's around about her.

Wish you the best.

u already said u love her what else do u want us to tell u .... baba abeg carry ur wahala go anoda place

If the love is genuine and her profile matches my requirements i can marry a lady 5 years older. We are all looking for happiness in marriage.

Kelblaq:
Thanks for the advice, honestly i have tried in convincing my family but they're saying it's because she's deaf and mute and that's the main reason they don't want to give there blessing.

That is discrimination there is always an ability in disability you know what you saw in her that made you love her so try to tell them that it's about you and your happiness and that they should not be a barrier to it.They would give in I am sure they want the best for you and if you feel she is they would accept.Her being deaf and dumb and entering into your life cannot be a curse but a blessing.I am not that religious but if you are pray and work towards it.

Marry her at ur own perril op


Ah don say my own