Oyindidi:
There is love in sharing

Can you allow that from your hubby madam?

Madam sorry for the unfortunate incidence. But some times you married women cause these things. The fact that a man is married does not mean his sex drive starts and ends with you. Some of you deprive your husbands of sex. Listen, if you engage your husband sexually to his satisfaction he will not have the extra strength to look for another woman. In the olden days our people had a better understanding of these things that was why polygamy was accepted and life moved on smoothly. We the are only living in dial these days. People always talk about men sexual impotency but some women also suffer sexual impotency that have got on unnoticed and has cause so much problems in homes. If you cannot take a d*ck why get married in the first place and starve the man of sex, and when he seeks alternative therapy you cry foul.

Kobicove:
Don't be selfish...don't you know there's scarcity of good men?

There's love in sharing

Be serious, at least for once!
Stop converting other people's ordeal into a joke.

Opinionated:
You need to know what to prioritize in life. You were unemployed but your husband still managed to get a man pregnant under your nose.

Read this http://www.opinions.ng/value-most-life-shock-story .You might learn a lesson or two.

It was not a man that her husband got pregnant!

grandstar:


You're just a fool

You're a bigger fool!!!

Kobicove:


You're a bigger fool!!!

I am so sorry. I meant to add a smiley at the end . No vex jare

eenai:
Madam sorry for the unfortunate incidence. But some times you married women cause these things. The fact that a man is married does not mean his sex drive starts and ends with you. Some of you deprive your husbands of sex. Listen, if you engage your husband sexually to his satisfaction he will not have the extra strength to look for another woman. In the olden days our people had a better understanding of these things that was why polygamy was accepted and life moved on smoothly. We the are only living in dial these days. People always talk about men sexual impotency but some women also suffer sexual impotency that have got on unnoticed and has cause so much problems in homes. If you cannot take a d*ck why get married in the first place and starve the man of sex, and when he seeks alternative therapy you cry foul.

The neighbour went all out to seduce the man.

Under normal circumstances, I am sure he wouldn't have given the woman a second glance.

Best advice ever.
You could remain her best friend if you chose to, but let your husband relocate either you or this woman for peace to reign.

bukatyne:
The choice is yours:

1. Forgive and continue the marriage with a second wife;
2. Forgive and move on.

Make no mistake, the woman is not going anywhere....

If you have not had a child, then your marriage is automatically over. In this situation, your kids is your leverage so she would want to settle for a second wife.

You also do not have the right to tell her to abort/keep the baby.... it's not in your place to do so.

If you are going with option one, you can also tell your husband you wouldn't live with a co-wife/ babymama and you guys move out of the compound. He can come and see his child & 2nd wife at his own time.

This is really a tough one.

Goodluck.

P.S.: This is one of the reasons married ladies are told to shun single ladies especially older ones.