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Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Divay22(f): 7:24am On Apr 10, 2018 |
ladiesreject:This your moniker is weird o, lemme still join other ladies and reject you na |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Nobody: 7:28am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Divay22(f): 7:32am On Apr 10, 2018 |
ladiesreject:Lol..When i put it, I'll give you a mention. Have a nice day ahead. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by KhadyM(f): 7:35am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Haha true. Fathers should be appreciated as well. Anyway, it's just cause children have a special bond with their mothers |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Nobody: 7:36am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Divay22:Lol That sounds like a promise But thanks, and have nice day as well. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by donb06: 7:37am On Apr 10, 2018 |
A Woman as a natural rule thrive where she is more appreciated.... If the appreciation goes the other way she might die of heart break and some of them will go all the way to blackmail the husband in front of the children to gain the better part of the appreciation... Another rule is a father's love is the tough type and therefore is underappreciated until one is grown.... Believe me when your both parents die the words of your father are more remembered because they were deep words u couldn't understand until now ure grown... This is my experience I just shared and whenever I remember my father i regret not giving him the recognition he deserved till he died. he never complained but it was written all over him yet we never understood.... I have braced up for same when I begin to bear children because that's why am THE LEADER 1 Like |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by kingolovich(m): 7:39am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Hurlarzan139:ROFL |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Divay22(f): 7:45am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Obagreatdatoye:When it comes to a child's love for his parents, it can never be equal. The bond a child and the mother share, start right from the womb, so when the love is 20% for the mum, for the dad it might just be 10%. So deal with it...... It can't be equal. 1 Like |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 7:51am On Apr 10, 2018 |
bummyla: During the period Bill Gates was building Microsoft, there was no woman behind him. Steve Jobs -- no woman Larry Ellison -- no woman. Larry Page and Sergey Brin -- no woman Aaron Levie -- no woman Dangote - no woman but we all know that behind every successful woman there's a man Behind every successful man is a lot of determination, years spent suffering and the urge to succeed. I could go on and on Your statement is outdated 2 Likes |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by xynerise: 8:00am On Apr 10, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1: That statement is just so stereotyped...most women met an already successful men. They will also join in the bandwagon to quote that sentimental crap. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Prettyyemi(f): 8:07am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Lolz.. Mothers can never be compared to fathers.. I believe that mothers care more about us.. Dad is just keen on taking care of basic needs.. Mum takes care of secondary needs.. But I love my parents same way!! No partiality!! |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by beejaay: 8:23am On Apr 10, 2018 |
NwaAmaikpe1stSon:you will become a father someday and it will be Bleep you too..QED! |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Ginaz(f): 8:23am On Apr 10, 2018 |
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Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Ginaz(f): 8:25am On Apr 10, 2018 |
For my dad, he failed woefully in all aspects. And I'm the type of child who overlooked. I can stay on my own without any form of care from nobody and I would be fine. What is paining me most is, when I wanna get married tradition would request me to come to my dad. He doesn't deserves it. And deep down, I know he knows. For me, my children, I would give them the best dad who would invest in their emotional being. A child doesn't need material things to survive sometimes but what is being mentally inputted in his head. Which I would do. My children would stand out mentally , they would be equipped. Emotionally they shall never lack from me and my husband. I would be a great mom, that I know. And a good wife as well. My husband shall never lack emotional care from me. Cos I am the kind of person that is very intimate at heart. I love the inner person. 2 Likes |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by xynerise: 8:26am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Ginaz: Sounds like you are submitting your CV for potential husband |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by daveP(m): 8:27am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Rozaytee:Any good reason why? |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by isaacola57: 8:31am On Apr 10, 2018 |
most times my mum always tells me to go thank my dad for stuffs he does for me.. wen we were still broke my dad would give my mum and us his food he wont eat any thing till weve eaten, i and my dad always quarell but my mum always tell me to apologize 2 Likes |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 8:31am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Prettyyemi: can your mom take care of those basic needs? be unbiased biko, nothing like secondary needs just that Dads are too strict. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by kense88: 8:32am On Apr 10, 2018 |
makavel7:It can be quite painful. Imagine turning the children you used your hard earned to train against you. I really feel for the man, that is if he actually played his role as a father. In most developed countries, both parents contribute equally, if they earn the same income. But here, in most homes, the man will almost sacrifice his life for his children and wife, only for the wife(though not all) to pit his children against him when she is asked to take up more financial responsibility, when the man can no longer meet up with all there needs. Thats why we dont take the so called feminist serious over here. They are mostly a bunch of aggrieved, self centered set of women, who want to reap were they did not sow. We really need to be very careful the kind of people we choose as wife. They can make or destroy us |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by kense88: 8:35am On Apr 10, 2018 |
isaacola57:Men you have a wonderful mom. Infact a wonderful parent. Be grateful 1 Like |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Ginaz(f): 8:36am On Apr 10, 2018 |
xynerise: I'm not. I'm speaking my mind cos I know who I am and what I can do. All these I speak from my heart since I was 10yrs old. Even before I saw my menstruation, welcoming me to womanhood. Just like I've said a lot of things at that age which thankfully I have kept so far for them to be fulfilled. I'm grateful. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by xynerise: 8:39am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Ginaz: Alright its cool. Sometimes people predict their marital life just like they predicted what they will be when they grow up until reality struck them 1 Like |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by kense88: 8:43am On Apr 10, 2018 |
flamingREED:Very inconsequential. Fake feminist. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by kense88: 8:48am On Apr 10, 2018 |
noshiobec:The less emotional and more rational will tend to appreciate there father more, but most mothers do make a lot of sacrifices for there children, if for any reason the father cannot or is not there. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by openmine(m): 8:50am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Lirqur: U made plenty sense with ur long post... Yeah long but cool....pops don't give a damn whether they are appreciated or not....to them,its their job to provide for the family..."so why make a fuss about it?" |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Ginaz(f): 8:50am On Apr 10, 2018 |
xynerise: Lol... I'm not predicting wealth, I'm not predicting husband, nor predicting marriage. I'm only saying what i would do as a wife and a mother. Which doesn't needs predictions but mentality. What is so hard here now? Isn't it what couples should do? Be emotionally supportive to one another? And as for the children, they should be carried along too? I was stating mine as a challenge I must do cos I for one, knows what it feels like to be emotionally alone. And it makes me to relate more to my marital life. So if you're thinking off point, you are on your own. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by LanceO: 8:51am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Rozaytee:I doubt you will appreciate your husband too. You will simply recycle your feelings towards your husband to your children.... 1 Like |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by xynerise: 8:55am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Ginaz: OK o. Who am to stop you from achieving your dreams? Just pray you carry your husband along |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Nobody: 9:06am On Apr 10, 2018 |
NwaAmaikpe1stSon:so you mean NwaAmaikpe is such a terrible man even with all his wittiness, he even married another woman apart from Mrs NwaAmikpe yet the poor Mrs will be forming wittiness, so it has been suffering and smiling for her. sorry for all you've gone through from him 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by LanceO: 9:16am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Ginaz:You've actually done well with your posts, nd i like... In your first post however, there was something you said you will give your children that i believe you can't..."a good dad that will invest in them emotionally". You can only try your best as a mother and wife and hope, by faith the husband does the good "fathering" for your children. Overall, i like your opinion and mindset. With your father, i feel you should complete your "good mindset" by extending a positive one towards him... This plays a good role with your own marriage in the way you will see your husband... Just my take. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Ginaz(f): 9:27am On Apr 10, 2018 |
LanceO: Oh thanks for you opinion. I appreciate it. The thing is, we should not only think of ourselves when we are looking for a mate. We should look at their qualities if they are someone who can be emotionally interested in a child. We have a hand in giving our children the best mother/father to the best of our abilities. I say *best* because it is not often times in our power to do that. And as for my dad, he has started mending the fence between us which is awkward as hell. I try to talk to him though, little by little we see how it goes. I couldn't call him daddy, it felt like a heavy stone in my throat. But I'm trying, and he is trying. And so far so good. 2 Likes |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by LanceO: 9:33am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Ginaz:lovely... |
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