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Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Kindoo: 9:47am On Apr 10, 2018 |
There are so many things that are not automatic. In some homes, the mother practically give her 'life' to see the children prosper while the father follow side chics or drink bear and party away. You as the author, you will appreciate the one who give most and best to you. You may be writing base on your background, where fathers and mother jointly contribute to the life of the child but in many homes it is not like that. 2 Likes |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Prettyyemi(f): 10:34am On Apr 10, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1:no,am not talking about being strict or not.. There are some mothers that are more strict than fathers.. So what are we now saying?? |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by saobobo80: 11:02am On Apr 10, 2018 |
My advise to men is that we should be more closer to our children not only in finances but in everything. Some fathers play their roles perfectly well at home yet they are not appreciated. Be your child's friend and he would appreciate your effort. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Geesaintagape: 11:34am On Apr 10, 2018 |
That's y i will not divorce cos if i divorce i will divorce mother n children not just mother. I cee many divorced home children always talk abt mummy but wen problems land mom will not b heard any more it will b wer is our father. To me its d duty of d women to direct der children well cos most men are not always around. When i was in school when ever my dad sent me money my mom would always asked if had tnk my dad for the money. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Rozaytee: 11:36am On Apr 10, 2018 |
Maxcollins042:he never cared he left |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Rozaytee: 11:36am On Apr 10, 2018 |
daveP:he left |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by AceKid(m): 1:39pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
ITS SIMPLE NAAA... DADDDYY JUST BRING THE MONEY N DAZZ ALL |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by daveP(m): 2:24pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Rozaytee:thats painful. I hope you understand why, even if it wasn't supposed to be so? A father figure would always be there.... trust on... |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Ugosample(m): 4:41pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Divay22: not always true |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Preciouzword: 5:21pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Not really. Moms are amazing https://momsall.com/family-family-categories/ |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by bukatyne(f): 5:41pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
DoTheNeedful: The OP did not specify good marriages. I gave one of the major reasons why fathers are unappreciated. Like I always say, if a father did well, his children would appreciate him. Even if they have a demonic mother, they will grow to appreciate their father later. 1 Like |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by bukatyne(f): 5:43pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Maxcollins042: A generalization? True. Faulty? No. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Maxcollins042(m): 5:50pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
bukatyne:The generalization is still faulty and baseless. Maybe you had a familiar experience and that's not enough reasons for you to make such assertions. Make your research to get more facts. I know few women that are exhibiting the character that you are painting the fathers in here. My Father shows me unhidden love as equally as my Mom do. I don't know about you. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Nobody: 6:01pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
bukatyne: Absolutely! From my own experience, in our family we love and cherish our fathers and grandfathers. My grandfather was everybody's darling. His children and grandchildren did not only love him but literally worshipped him. This man did not only provide money, he spent every free minute with us. He took us to his shop, he let me sit on his lap and steer the wheel of his car, he bathed us, cooked for us, dressed us, took us with him everywhere and would beat the f*** out of anyone who dared to insult or touch us. Family was everything to him and he could see no fault in any of us, unconditional love was what he stood for. This is where I learned that it exists and what it feels like. Until this day, everyone, even the men in the family, have watery eyes when remembering him. No woman in the family can compete against him though there is no competition. He died at home surrounded by his family and he was pampered till his very last breath. RIP my first love 2 Likes |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by bukatyne(f): 7:36pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Mindfulness: RIP to him from here. Don't mind them. If a man is good to his family, they will appreciate him. I have seen children appreciate fathers who did not have smooth relationships with their mothers. 2 Likes |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by toprealman: 10:28pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
Greene66:If this is based on the impression your dad created...bro you are wrong. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Greene66: 11:28pm On Apr 10, 2018 |
toprealman: Nope. I remain correct as long as you do not have any material point to tender against my claim other than commenting about my father whom you do not know. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Mutuwa(m): 6:40pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: only if you choose to be a kid... |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Nobody: 5:20pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Mothers contribute love and affection during the child's formative years, when it does not appreciate that the father works and pays school fees, buys food and pays for the hospital fees. The child only knows that it is his mother that hugs him at night when he is sick, it is his mother that puts food on the table, and it is his mother that helps him with his homework. At this point, the child cannot understand what happens financially in the background, hence does not appreciate it. If you want your kids to appreciate you, cry over them at night, bathe them every morning, sit with them and feed them when they are hungry, clean up their faeces from the floor when they make a 'whoopsie' and hug them to sleep and play with them all day to give your wife the chance to attend all the wedding parties she wants to, or to go out with her friends every evening (just like no one can question you if you want to do just that). If you feel that this is difficult, then let them appreciate their mother more...she deserves it. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by kunmisola(f): 8:27pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
My parents are simply the best, when my dad was alive he took his fatherly roles seriously with he and my mom both contributing to the upkeep of the home but since we lost him my mom stepped into his shoes and have been doing marvellously well without support from anyone except God. So it depends on your background cos it tends to affect your individuality. 1 Like |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Printerscanner: 10:46am On Apr 15, 2018 |
My wife wonders why I love my dad more than my mum. The reason is simple, my dad makes the money while my mum spends it on us the kids and on herself. My mum accumulates the bills while my dad pays the bills. Why then should I love my mum more? I am a very fair human. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by revolt(m): 11:14am On Apr 15, 2018 |
bukatyne:well I grew up in a stable home...my dad was the hero of the home n even paid the ultimate price. Left legacies for us. So I'm confused here |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by revolt(m): 11:25am On Apr 15, 2018 |
NwaAmaikpe1stSon:all these ones raised by single mother's sef........always tlkn like women.. Guess ull b a mother someday. 1 Like |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by revolt(m): 11:28am On Apr 15, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:u carry for 9months. Whtbout 21 fvckn years. Duhhhh. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by revolt(m): 11:32am On Apr 15, 2018 |
makavel7:your friend is a fool. Yes dear hen you're young we all tend to tilt towards our mums but as u grow older n develop a mind of your own.... You learn to separate facts from emmotions. Thts wen u become a man. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by revolt(m): 11:36am On Apr 15, 2018 |
Jeferious:thts y i look down on men tht their mums brainwashed. Really sissy guys tht can't discern. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Danhumprey: 2:49pm On Sep 24, 2018 |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by xynerise: 4:08pm On Sep 24, 2018 |
Danhumprey: Go ahead |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Danhumprey: 5:53pm On Sep 24, 2018 |
xynerise:I just sent you a mail. |
Re: Fathers Should Also Be Appreciated Like Mothers by Pascopele: 4:19pm On Apr 27, 2019 |
kunmisola: |
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