I read a post written by childofdoom about how nigerian parents are and I can't agree more. A lot of nigerian youths had poor parental love while growing up, nigerian parents believe paying school fees, clothing and feeding you are their ony responsibilities, they make lots of children weak outside because they don't interact with them(they talk while you ony listen), how mnahy nigerians can hug their parents and kiss them(on the cheek) in public? parents think they are strict but they are destroying their children psychologically. Most of us had bad upbringing that is while small pressure from friends and you will venture into crime. Parents think they are lords over their children, they can't be corrected even when wrong. I remember when i was in primary school and i had a bad handwriting, my parents would abuse and slap me but they never for once tried to hold my hands and teach me, this made me stop giving my assignments for help and it helped me though. They do lot of good things though but most of us know deep down that their shortcomings are much

A typical Nigerian is unintellectual,sentimental and petty;and they derive joy in blaming the victim....That is the reason for the self denial.

derrydinny:
I read a post written by childofdoom about how nigerian parents are and I can't agree more. A lot of nigerian youths had poor parental love while growing up, nigerian parents believe paying school fees, clothing and feeding you are their ony responsibilities, they make lots of children weak outside because they don't interact with them(they talk while you ony listen), how mnahy nigerians can hug their parents and kiss them(on the cheek) in public? parents think they are strict but they are destroying their children psychologically. Most of us had bad upbringing that is while small pressure from friends and you will venture into crime. Parents think they are lords over their children, they can't be corrected even when wrong. I remember when i was in primary school and i had a bad handwriting, my parents would abuse and slap me but they never for once tried to hold my hands and teach me, this made me stop giving my assignments for help and it helped me though. They do lot of good things though but most of us know deep down that their shortcomings are much

on point bro . Nigerian parents are ' fvcked up entities'. they have failed in proper upbringing.


Currently trying to reorientate myself before I can mentor any one

When it come to parenting Africans can never stand the westerners....cos to its as if God gave them the password of nurturing children in the right way....they nurture kids in a democratic way.....unlike Africans which is autocratic....

When it come to parenting Africans can never stand the westerners....cos its as if God gave them the password of nurturing children in the right way....they nurture kids in a democratic way by consulting the child B4 taking any action on the child.....unlike Africans which is autocratic....parents here are less concern about the involvement of their children in discussions which has to do with the kids

lol, they should hold your hand so that your writings can be nice?

see weakling

eezeribe:
A typical Nigerian is unintellectual,sentimental and petty;and they derive joy in blaming the victim....That is the reason for the self denial.

Its The Reason You Talk Like This Too

Nigerian parents are a disgrace to parenthood, that is why we have a bad nation, we raise our kids without love and so how can the kid show love to a nation.

i am just jamming to G EASY NO LIMIT REMIX

Thank God my mom is not Nigerian I can't relate but this post is facts tho many Nigerians mirror the characters of their parents.

The truth is many of the parents confuse fear with respect. If u have seen their errors, try and correct it, that will be the difference.
Although I can't relate with most of ur points cause my parents esp. mum begs to differ.

lilmax:
lol, they should hold your hand so that your writings can be nice?

see weakling

it actually helped shaped me, I had to read on my own and it has helped me through till this day

derrydinny:

it actually helped shaped me, I had to read on my own and it has helped me through till this day

And that's the basic answer to your question

it seems you are not fully grown, because if you are, you'd know what and how Nigeria is

you think Nigeria is a place for weaklings? nigerian parents understands this

imagine raising your child in love and rainbow telemundo blah blah blah, is that what Nigeria is all about? if you want that go to the western world

who would treat you with love when you are out of the house? ...dude or lady you are not ready

imagine the street of lagos for a moment, the
buses, you must be strong and smart not lovely dovely