We have all caught our men looking at other women at one point or the other. Truth be told, it is infuriating and can send a cold stab of jealousy through your heart, even if you are sure he is totally into you.

However, you would like a sneak-peak into his head to know what it means when he is doing that, right?

1. He is distracted
At times, his eyes may just be resting on her and he is not necessarily looking at her.

2. It is instinctive
When someone passes by your line of sight, you may not be able to help but look. So, it might be an innocent look but unfortunately, you catch him doing it.

3. She is attractive
You might not like reading this but fact is that attractive people get attention. It doesn’t mean he is going to run off with her. Besides, you look instinctively at attractive men too.

4. She is drawing attention to herself
Someone who is dressed ridiculously, ostentatiously or revealing too much skin will draw attention. Men are drawn by what they see, so his eyes may linger a few seconds but his heart may be pure.

5. He is curious
At times, we wonder about the random people we see because there is something striking about them. Likewise, he may be staring at her in a non-sexual way.

6. You are looking at her
Sometimes, we might be the ones staring so they only follow what our eyes are fixed on. Can’t blame them, can you?

7. He is unhappy
Quite unfortunate but he might be looking elsewhere because he wants to move on. Other signs will confirm this, though.

So ladies chill! Wandering eyes don’t always mean he is ogling her or that you are not good enough. Unless it becomes a habit, cut him some slack.

Truly

U deserve a bottle of cold origin or action bitters... ..nice one

MetalJigsaw:

So ladies chill! Wandering eyes don’t always mean he is ogling her or that you are not good enough. Unless it becomes a habit, cut him some slack.

your write up made a lot of sense, UNTIL you wrote the above in bold.

sadly there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with having the habit to look at good looking sexy women....and any women who expects her man NOT to look is deluded. so because a man is in a r/ship he shouldnt look at beautiful women any longer?!?!? what sort of low self esteem nonsense is this?!

there is nothing wrong with the act, and a man SHOULD look at a beautiful woman, whether in the presence of his woman or not. the stoopidity here is when women expect us men to be hypocrites and not look because they are present, while they all know that we definitely look when they are not around. BE YOURSELF and dont be afraid to be yourself. looking never killed anyone and if women are insecured about it then they should find another low self esteem donkey to date/marry.

we are different, we act different, and just because women wont look does NOT mean we should do the same. women should stop trying to make a tiger act as a sheep!

btw when so many women dress the way they do, NO WONDER men stare at them. not staring would be abnormal.

MrBrownJay1:


your write up made a lot of sense, UNTIL you wrote the above in bold.

sadly there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with having the habit to look at good looking sexy women....and any women who expects her man NOT to look is deluded. so because a man is in a r/ship he shouldnt look at beautiful women any longer?!?!? what sort of low self esteem nonsense is this?!

there is nothing wrong with the act, and a man SHOULD look at a beautiful woman, whether in the presence of his woman or not. the stoopidity here is when women expect us men to be hypocrites and not look because they are present, while they all know that we definitely look when they are not around. BE YOURSELF and dont be afraid to be yourself. looking never killed anyone and if women are insecured about it then they should find another low self esteem donkey to date/marry.

we are different, we act different, and just because women wont look does NOT mean we should do the same. women should stop trying to make a tiger act as a sheep!

btw when so many women dress the way they do, NO WONDER men stare at them. not staring would be abnormal.

Well, you're right my brother.