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Hello house,
Am in love with my fiancee,and we av decided to spend the rest of our lives together,
she is planning to further her studies by getting a university degree after a diploma,
which will take another 4years,i love her dearly but ow long can i wait cos am really in
support of her getting a good degree,
pls i need ur honest advise cos am new in d house

U dont need to wait if u think dia is no reason for that, u can both get married, just ask if she can cope with the two at the same time, marriage and education
But if she thinks she cant combine the two and U love her, then, U just av to wait, marriage is not something u rush into, give her time,support her education and at the end of the day, u will be a proud husband

get married and let her go to school

if she goes without u getting married :- do not say i didnt warn u o

Thanks for ur quick responses,though we are looking at her getting to her 3rd year,so as to
reduce the stress of marriage on her education,i am believing dat it is both fair on both part
what do you think

Why do you have to wait?
she can get married and continue with her studies.(If you can afford it).
Maybe pregnancy can wait.
Else their is something you are not telling us.

very simple, that you are married doesn't mean she cant further her Education. so marry her

topeodus21:
Thanks for your quick responses,though we are looking at her getting to her 3rd year,so as to
reduce the stress of marriage on her education,i am believing dat it is both fair on both part
what do you think

it makes sense if you guys can work it out
all the best

topeodus21:
Hello house,
Am in love with my fiancee,and we av decided to spend the rest of our lives together,
she is planning to further her studies by getting a university degree after a diploma,
which will take another 4years,i love her dearly but ow long can i wait cos am really in
support of her getting a good degree,
pls i need your honest advise cos am new in d house

Bros, you wan dash another person ur financee. The thing go happen korokoro for ya eyes. You go train am finish, another fine broda go come collect.
No try am unless you have some kind of insurance, like getting her pregnant. Pregnancy is the best way to hold the woman 4 ground. With pregnancy, no leave no transfer.
It sounds funny but you have to know that there a lot of handsome decieving,caring and romantic guys in school.
One word from them and ur dream wife falls like a pack of cards.
I've seen married women who went to higher institution and changed.
The best is to get married first,score the goal if possible,(lol) before anything.
Dis one no be opinion, na solid advise.

Your a man and you have physical needs. There is a lot of studies that clearly show gender differences as the priorities of sex between genders. One thing to accept is that your are a man and do not try to deprive yourself of your genetic disposition. 4 yrs is a very long time. You will go insane or fail because you were never designed to be like a women that might last four years. So think of things clearly. Good luck