From what am seeing these days and what  I've been hearing from some guys, it seems guys doesn't wanna go for a broke a.s.s girl/lady anymore, they tend to fall in love automatically for wealthy/independent ladies and date them  either.

Some would stick with them and marry them (Because of their money) while some would just milk them and use them and dump them.

Gone are those days when guys/men would be working hard for their wives/girlfriend, though few and faithful ones still do so these days, but you barely find them. Is either they cheat their wives or unfaithful to them.

I read a topic from a website yesterday and I really pitied some girls/ladies due to how they are really confused and  searching, even despite the fact that some of them are highly educated and rich.

We even had a discussion about it like few  hours ago and decided to post it on NL.

So what could be the major problem to this? Is it the economic melt down or what? and I guess that would be one of the reason we are having a lot of single ladies out there.

Is the world changing or what.

But, what are these men bringing to the table? Or are they strictly gigolos? Personally, I can't be with a man that isn't on equal or (ideally) greater footing than me. The male/female dynamic gets thrown off and I won't respect a man that I support; you can't call yourself the head of household when I'm the one holding down the fort.

Travelista:

But, what are these men bringing to the table? Or are they strictly gigolos? Personally, I can't be with a man that isn't on equal or (ideally) greater footing than me. The male/female dynamic gets thrown off and I won't respect a man that I support; you can't call yourself the head of household when I'm the one holding down the fort.

Sorry, but it means U are not submissive or U r materialistic.

sofeco:


Sorry, but it means U are not submissive or U r materialistic.

That's a Joke, right?

sofeco:


Sorry, but it means U are not submissive or U r materialistic.

Nice one! ! !

Who wan be head, make e be head. Even sef, my head dey heavy me. If he wan carry my own join him own, I go thank am.

sofeco:


Sorry, but it means U are not submissive or U r materialistic.

Reread my post; I said I won't respect a man that I support. To me, it means I'm assuming the traditional male AND female roles and I could remain single if I was going to go through all that wahala. I can be submissive to a man that shows he's a man; to me, being a man is handling your business and being able to provide for your family. Am I materialistic? Who isn't to some point? I'm used to certain things from growing up. Now that I'm an adult, I work hard to make sure that I can continue to enjoy those perks; what woman in their right mind would be with someone that can't keep them in the lifestyle they're accustomed to?

Travelista:

Reread my post; I said I won't respect a man that I support. To me, it means I'm assuming the traditional male AND female roles and I could remain single if I was going to go through all that wahala. I can be submissive to a man that shows he's a man; to me, being a man is handling your business and being able to provide for your family. Am I materialistic? Who isn't to some point? I'm used to certain things from growing up. Now that I'm an adult, I work hard to make sure that I can continue to enjoy those perks; what woman their right mind would be with someone that can't keep them in the lifestyle they're accustomed to?

But what if your husband have a little financial difficulties for some times and need you to support him. Will you support him and still respct him a a head of the house, and also continue playing ur role in a normal way as a wife?.

sofeco:

But what if your husband have a little financial difficulties for some times and need you to support him. Will you support him and still respct him a a head of the house, and also continue playing your role in a normal way as a wife?.

U dey find wife? Just talk am make all the submissive women submit their CVs. Abi na you wan marry Travelista?

sofeco:

But what if your husband have a little financial difficulties for some times and need you to support him. Will you support him and still respct him a a head of the house, and also continue playing your role in a normal way as a wife?.

Abeg, help me ask am

Missy B:

That's a Joke, right?

Lol, See missy.

What's a joke?. If U r to be in that shoe what would be your role in your husband's house?.

michelin89:

U dey find wife? Just talk am make all the submissive women submit their CVs. Abi na you wan marry Travelista?

You neva change. . .lol

How you dey?

harakiri:

You neva change. . .lol

How you dey?

Ha you. Shey me and u never finish for Family?

I dey fine jare. U nko?

michelin89:

U dey find wife? Just talk am make all the submissive women submit their CVs. Abi na you wan marry Travelista?

Lol, se them get CV?.

harakiri:

You neva change. . .lol

How you dey?

Hahaha,,,,,,U don sabi her?. Na she be that ooo.

Make una leave her for me hehehe.

sofeco:

But what if your husband have a little financial difficulties for some times and need you to support him. Will you support him and still respct him a a head of the house, and also continue playing your role in a normal way as a wife?.

Of course I'll support and respect him as things happen and this situation would be temporary. Where we'd have problems is if he were to become comfortable with me supporting the family and he laid back and let me assume the role of breadwinner. What I won't even begin to condone is a man that looks to me as a sort of Ms. Moneybags and doesn't have anything of his own; call me old fashioned but I believe a man should take care of his girl.

See,,,,,,,,I think I need to know how ladies feel about this issue, guys included. Not to come here and joke.

sofeco:

Lol, se them get CV?.

Eh now. Make sure they include:

"Never disobeyed my father".

michelin89:

Ha you. Shey me and u never finish for Family?

I dey fine jare. U nko?

I just dey observe NL

harakiri:

I just dey observe NL

Even me sef. The place dry eh.

Travelista:

Of course I'll support and respect him as things happen and this situation would be temporary. Where we'd have problems is if he were to become comfortable with me supporting the family and he laid back and let me assume the role of breadwinner. What I won't even begin to condone is a man that looks to me as a sort of Ms. Moneybags and doesn't have anything of his own; call me old fashioned but I believe a man should take care of his girl.

Good.

Na who dey call you old fashion? Everybody has his/her own principle

michelin89:

Even me sef. The place dry eh.

E dry gaan. E be like say i go enter food section, open thread on how to cook beans and pork meat pepper soup!

Add one on how to cook egusi.

michelin89:

Eh now. Make sure they include:

"Never disobeyed my father".

Oh, Ur father is the one responsibling for your available CV?.

michelin89:

Add one on how to cook egusi.

That's ur fav soup I guessed. Maybe you should join him there to lecture people also.

sofeco:

Oh, your father is the one responsibling for your available CV?.

sofeco:

That's your fav soup I guessed. Maybe you should join him there to lecture people also.

Haba! Wetin dey bite your yansh wey you dey vex like this?

sofeco:

Good.

Na who dey call you old fashion? Everybody has his/her own principle

Compared to other girls my age, I'm old-fashioned and go against the feminist ideal. *shrug*

michelin89:

Add one on how to cook egusi.

Dat na good idea.Egusi and banana leaf stew  (i add you for sk**e).

Travelista:

Compared to other girls my age, I'm old-fashioned and go against the feminist ideal. *shrug*

Sorry, are you single?.

michelin89:

Haba! Wetin dey bite your yansh wey you dey vex like this?

I no dey vex with U nah.

sofeco:

Sorry, are you single?.

Yeah. It's funny, I didn't really start to think like this until I dated a Nigerian and I realized what my Dad had been telling me all those years.

harakiri:

Dat na good idea.Egusi and banana leaf stew  (i add you for sk**e).

I miss village life eh. Even the other day I dream say i dey pluck water leaf near stream.

Chai, village! You had everything you needed!

Travelista:

Compared to other girls my age, I'm old-fashioned and go against the feminist ideal. *shrug*

Yes oooo! Are you single x 2?