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. by MistaBabz: 5:41am On Apr 17, 2018
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Re: . by SamuelAnyawu(m): 5:48am On Apr 17, 2018
Give me her number let me convince her on your behalf

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Re: . by UDUJ(m): 5:59am On Apr 17, 2018
MistaBabz:
I met this lady recently who came for a training in my place of work we rarely talk sha cause too many vampires are after her, but she eventually gave me her number. I actually want to tell her my mind & I have pure intentions towards her which I'm considering marriage at the moment but my level of introversy is on the high side. If I'm chatting her on WhatsApp it takes time for her to reply even though she's online & if I call her sometimes she doesn't pick.

NB: At 26 years, I've never been in a relationship

What should I do please?

The Bold Face, she's not into you bro. Once a girl delays in replying your whatsapp messages just know you are very low on her priority list and she's probably chatting with her main boyfriend and other side niggas. Evidenced from how she doesn't pick your calls sometimes.

If a girl is really interested in you you will know and these traits she's exhibiting is just not it. Just let it go as I only see heartbreak from this.

You've not even learnt how to ask a girl out yet and you're already thinking of asking her hand in marriage? shocked Don't be too fast bro or else you'll get burnt. Learn the ropes first.

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Re: . by frankelisha: 6:00am On Apr 17, 2018
Re: . by nero2face: 6:06am On Apr 17, 2018
Ur considering marriage, shocked to a girl that just came for training at ur place of work, who u don't even know much about, who hardly reply ur chats nor pick ur calls, u think marriage is try and error method, oga oh
Re: . by CAPSLOCKED: 6:13am On Apr 17, 2018
MistaBabz:
I met this lady recently who came for a training in my place of work we rarely talk sha cause too many vampires are after her, but she eventually gave me her number. I actually want to tell her my mind & I have pure intentions towards her which I'm considering marriage at the moment but my level of introversy is on the high side. If I'm chatting her on WhatsApp it takes time for her to reply even though she's online & if I call her sometimes she doesn't pick.

NB: At 26 years, I've never been in a relationship

What should I do please?


SHE GAVE YOU HER NUMBER.. I BET YOU WERE GLAD.
SHE HAS ADDED YOU TO THE LIST OF "VAMPIRES".... AND SHE'LL KEEP GIVING OUT HER NUMBER TO MORE GUYS UNTIL IT BECOMES A LEAGUE OF TEAMS.

WHAT ARE THE ODDS YOU'LL WIN?
WHAT ARE THE ODDS THAT EVEN IF YOU WIN, THE OTHER PLAYERS WILL LET YOU HAVE PEACE?

SHE DOESN'T REPLY YOUR CHATS NOR PICK CALLS.... AND YOU'RE ALREADY THINKING OF MARRYING HER? YOU'VE NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP @ 26 AND YOU WANT MARRIAGE. DON'T CREATE ANOTHER THREAD ASKING HOW TO DIVORCE YOUR WIFE. undecided

Re: . by Nobody: 6:31am On Apr 17, 2018
Very true
UDUJ:


The Bold Face, she's not into you bro. Once a girl delays in replying your whatsapp messages just know you are very low on her priority list and she's probably chatting with her main boyfriend and other side niggas. Evidenced from how she doesn't pick your calls sometimes.

If a girl is really interested in you you will know and these traits she's exhibiting is just not it. Just let it go as I only see heartbreak from this.

You've not even learnt how to ask a girl out yet and you're already thinking of asking her hand in marriage? shocked Don't be too fast bro or else you'll get burnt. Learn the ropes first.

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Re: . by RedDistrict: 7:56am On Apr 17, 2018
Go out more, hang out with friends, relax on weekends and the shyness will eventually ease off.
Try having more female friends, dont think of relationships at first or the marriage you mentioned grin you need to learn how to relate with them first so they can start to vibe with you.

Have a nice appearance also. wear cloths that fits your frame and not oversized, cologne ish, all these adds to your confidence when you interact with them cos they notice all these tins with guys even tho their bra na 3 days no washing o grin

i am sure your chats on whatsap was dry and monotonous which is why she takes time to answer you. or she isnt into you that way also. Regardless, you need to loose the shyness abit and you'll gel with the ladies better.

you'll be fine eventually
Re: . by Lesnar: 11:11am On Apr 17, 2018
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Re: . by bobokeshington: 11:50am On Apr 17, 2018
Those discouraging you with there comments ain't helping you.
I believe there is no harm in trying. Just take a bold step & let your feelings all out to the girl. Even if she no gree you no you don try...


BestLuck!!

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