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Where Are The Shy Guys? Don’t Die Single… 5 Dating Tips For Shy Guys by Yasirarafat: 5:34am On Oct 29, 2015
Think your natural-born bashful
tendencies are keeping you single?
Think again. While you may
sometimes feel anxious, uncertain,
and/or insecure when it comes to
dating.
When in doubt, the following five
tips should help ease your dating
anxiety and help you ultimately woo
the woman of your dreams.

1. Fake it Till you Make It
Not to get all Dr. Phil on you, but the
good doctor’s got a point. If you’re a
shy guy, you’ll need to start
projecting self-confidence when
dealing with women, even if you
don’t fully feel it yet. Keep in mind,
confidence is different than bragging
and boasting.
A confident man can comfortably
make eye contact with a cute
stranger, offer a friendly smile, and
strike up a casual conversation
without seeming phony or full of
himself. If the idea of approaching a
woman you don’t know feels
overwhelming, take it slow. Practice
making and maintaining eye contact
with a member of the opposite s€x
everyday for a week. The following
week, add a friendly smile to your
efforts. Once that feels natural, start
saying hello. It’s true what they say
— practice makes perfect, so the
more you putt hese new behaviors
into practice, the more natural
they’ll become. By the time you meet
someone amazing, you’ll be ready,
willing, and able to confidently and
comfortably ask her out.

2. Retrain your Brain
If your beliefs about dating have
been largely negative, it’s time to
retrain your brain. The past is the
past. Let go of any dating
disappointments and other drama
you’ve experienced. Believe that
future dating success is possible for
you. By thinking positively, you
engage the law of attraction.
In turn, you start attracting healthy,
happy, confident women into your
life. When in doubt, practice the
following exercise. Every morning
when you wake up, and also right
before you go to bed, say to yourself,
“Dating is…” and fill in the blank.
Examples include “Dating is easy,”
“Dating is fun,” “Dating is
abundant,” etc. The key is to retrain
your brain until you actually
embrace your new belief system.
Once you do, you’ll be surprised at
how easily you’ll attract members of
the opposite s€x.

3. Be your Best Self
Just as you should fake confidence
and retrain your brain, you should
also strive to become your best self.
How? By looking, acting, and talking
as though you know who you really
are and that you are comfortable in
your own skin.This, too, can take
time to implement. Day by day, work
toward becoming the best version of
yourself.
If that means joining a gym to lose a
couple of pounds, splurging on a few
stylish new wardrobe pieces that
make you feel better about yourself,
and/or taking a class on presenting
with confidence, go for it. Women
are drawn to men who genuinely
seem to like themselves without
being boastful or arrogant.

4. Take an Interest in Her
Not comfortable talking about
yourself when you meet someone
new? Engage her inconversation!
First of all, your interest in her and
her life will be a refreshing change
of pace from all the other self-
absorbed guys she’s ever dated.
Second, women like to feel
interesting, desirable, and/or
intriguing to men during the
courtship process. By giving her the
green light to open up and share,
she’ll feel more attractive and in
turn be more inclined to let you into
her world.

5. Embrace your Shyness
Okay, this next piece of advice may
feel counter intuitive to everything
else included in this article. But
here’s the deal: women dig men who
are inherently humble. As a shy guy,
you have the advantage of not
possessing boastful or arrogant
genes. So while you may need to
work on your level of self-comfort
and confidence to get a woman’s
attention, always remember that
your natural-born bashful
tendencies will be appreciated by the
right woman. Instead of apologizing
for being shy, embrace it, work with
it, and be yourself.
While there are some women out
there in the dating trenches who are
addicted to chasing bad boys, there
are plenty of other healthy and
happy women who are ready,
willing, and able to appreciate a
good man. As a shy guy, it’s up to
you to get out there, practice your
personal dating and flirting style,
and make yourself available to these
amazing women. They are out there.
It’s up to you to do the work, become
your most confident self, and play to
your inherent strengths.
Go get that woman of your Choice!!!

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Re: Where Are The Shy Guys? Don’t Die Single… 5 Dating Tips For Shy Guys by mekd: 5:36am On Oct 29, 2015
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Re: Where Are The Shy Guys? Don’t Die Single… 5 Dating Tips For Shy Guys by youngberry001(m): 6:00am On Oct 29, 2015
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Re: Where Are The Shy Guys? Don’t Die Single… 5 Dating Tips For Shy Guys by Kingsley1000(m): 6:04am On Oct 29, 2015
what about bold guys
Re: Where Are The Shy Guys? Don’t Die Single… 5 Dating Tips For Shy Guys by sunniislam(f): 6:07am On Oct 29, 2015
How does this one affect El-rufa'i and Osinbajo's height?
Re: Where Are The Shy Guys? Don’t Die Single… 5 Dating Tips For Shy Guys by rawpadgin(m): 6:39am On Oct 29, 2015
sunniislam:
How does this one affect El-rufa'i and Osinbajo's height?
awon werey
Re: Where Are The Shy Guys? Don’t Die Single… 5 Dating Tips For Shy Guys by sunniislam(f): 6:44am On Nov 20, 2015
rawpadgin:
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