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What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 12:56am On Apr 19, 2018
I'm just confused.
is there anything wrong in having sex after traditional marriage?
The weird thing is some people especially ladies usually say stuffs like; wait till after wedding, honeymoon.

so is the traditional marriage not a marriage?
if you think it's useless why did you agree to traditional marriage in the first place?

After spending a lot of money in paying for bride price and the marriage ,you still refuse to have sex.
If you were to be in that man's shoes, won't you leave?

Some ladies also forget that wedding is supposed to be footed by the parents of the bride, when Africans want to copy things they only copy the part they think is favourable to them and leave the other part.
Just as the wedding system was copied, in the countries it was copied from the parents of the bride foot the wedding but in Africa the man is expected to foot the traditional marriage and the wedding, isn't that insane?


to my question; what's Wrong with sex after traditional marriage??

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by greatnaija01: 1:26am On Apr 19, 2018
NOTHING is wrong with it o... if you have settled every other thing...

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by highpriestess: 1:31am On Apr 19, 2018
our people don't respect our culture anymore,they have placed more value on foreign culture forgrtting that both white wedding and our traditional marriage are the same thing in different ways.

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 2:24am On Apr 19, 2018
highpriestess:
our people don't respect our culture anymore,they have placed more value on foreign culture forgrtting that both white wedding and our traditional marriage are the same thing in different ways.

I wonder for them

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by highpriestess: 6:19am On Apr 19, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:

I wonder for them
babe,I tire.sad

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by IamD18: 6:35am On Apr 19, 2018
cheesy
Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by mikejj(m): 7:05am On Apr 19, 2018
angry grin it is written thou shall not have sex until u have wore that white gown or ...if you want to do it after d t.wedding well it's left for the Pharisee to decide...kiki...op calm down i smell anger the way u sound

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by mikejj(m): 7:06am On Apr 19, 2018
grin cheesy me i i know by 2035 after our t.wedin i wont touch her..why shall i
Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by chivic(m): 7:41am On Apr 19, 2018
Nothing is wrong but can be wrong if the church you attend frowns at it.
Why do people do court wedding,was there court wedding before?
Why do people wear white wedding gown was it like that before?
As the world is changing a lot of things are changing.

And just for the records, most church liase with the court and as such when you wed in the church a copy is sent to the court to make the wedding legally binding.This actually protects the lady in terms of divorce or disagreement.But traditional wedding might not protect you (lady or even the guy) given the current trend of things.

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by Lalas247(f): 7:43am On Apr 19, 2018
Nothing wrong with it ...

Back in the day most just did traditional marriage and moved into their husbands house just like that ... the main thing is that the families know each other and it’s official


What about sex after introduction @theupsetgirl1

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by Marshalxv(m): 8:12am On Apr 19, 2018
my contribution.

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by Nobody: 8:39am On Apr 19, 2018
Traditional marriage is the real thing recognized by God & ancestors

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by Olalan(m): 8:41am On Apr 19, 2018
Once the bride price has been paid and both parents have given their consent to the union they are legitimate couples already

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by thoollz: 10:01am On Apr 19, 2018
Bride price is d most important thing, any other na wash

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by mayorkyzo: 10:02am On Apr 19, 2018
There's nothing wrong with it... Our holier than thou people are the ones making it a big deal..

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by Sezua(m): 10:02am On Apr 19, 2018
Africans are the most problematic people on earth. People who do traditional wedding are already husband and wife. I usually get pissed when the pastor will now say "i hereby pronounce you husband and wife" like WTF? Pronouncing husband and wife as husband and wife again. We like to copy the things that do not even have any significant benefit.

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by Offpoint: 10:02am On Apr 19, 2018
If I offpoint son of offpoint senior should paid a bride price and you denied me of making use of my property base on sey you wan wear white gown for alter... I'll simply and gentlemanly go to your parents house and collect my money back with interest. my grandmama and grandpapa no no wetin be white wedding before dem produce my mama. no be for white wedding Jesus turn water to palmy.
if na by force you wan wear white gown I go buy am, me too buy suit we wear am snap put for facebook... na dey same congra2lations we go receive.

how I go do wedding twice? your mama born you twice ni? dey say "white wedding" I be white man ni?

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by slapandfall(m): 10:02am On Apr 19, 2018
Go and ask your Pastor or marriage committee in Church. This is how you people make somebody to start thinking rubbish

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by Sezua(m): 10:03am On Apr 19, 2018
chivic:
Nothing is wrong but can be wrong if the church you attend frowns at it.
Why do people do court wedding,was there court wedding before?
Why do people wear white wedding gown was it like that before?
As the world is changing a lot of things are changing.

And just for the records, most church liase with the court and as such when you wed in the church a copy is sent to the court to make the wedding legally binding.This actually protects the lady in terms of divorce or disagreement.But traditional wedding might not protect you (lady or even the guy) given the current trend of things.
STFU
What do you mean by why do people do court wedding?
Court wedding is necessary in the current scope of things.
White wedding is just oyinbo traditional wedding.
How can you do your own traditional wedding and then do oyinbo own join?

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by marvin906(m): 10:03am On Apr 19, 2018
as long the bride price has been paid
shes yours undecided undecided

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by positivelord: 10:03am On Apr 19, 2018
Absolutely Nothing...Traditional Wedding is the real thing..Churches cant wed you if bride price have not been paid..White Wedding is just an adopted white man tradition. ..it has little or no bases in the Bible..

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by Nobody: 10:03am On Apr 19, 2018
Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by SuperBlack: 10:04am On Apr 19, 2018
Since you have been forkin her even b4 the traditional Marriage, you should continue naw,

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by jnrbayano(m): 10:04am On Apr 19, 2018
Nothing

I really don't know what's wrong with it. Can someone tell me?
Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by Troublemaker007(m): 10:04am On Apr 19, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:
I'm just confused.
is there anything wrong in having sex after traditional marriage?
The weird thing is some people especially ladies usually say stuffs like; wait till after wedding, honeymoon.

so is the traditional marriage not a marriage?
if you think it's useless why did you agree to traditional marriage in the first place?

After spending a lot of money in paying for bride price and the marriage ,you still refuse to have sex.
If you were to be in that man's shoes, won't you leave?

Some ladies also forget that wedding is supposed to be footed by the parents of the bride, when Africans want to copy things they only copy the part they think is favourable to them and leave the other part.
Just as the wedding system was copied, in the countries it was copied from the parents of the bride foot the wedding but in Africa the man is expected to foot the traditional marriage and the wedding, isn't that insane?


to my question; what's Wrong with sex after traditional marriage??



Nothing wrong with it. It’s the only marriage ordained and recognized by God according to the Bible. White wedding is just a western way of life and not even recognized by the Bible. After i did my traditional wedding nor be small knacking that night wink so enjoy your fruitful marriage.

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by Quality20(m): 10:04am On Apr 19, 2018
yes if u are a traditionist then its OK cos d constitution recognises traditional religion, but if u a polytheist , as in a person who practises more than one religion then its up to u how u do ur thing. But if u a Muslim or xtian then u can consummate ur marriage after ur wedding fatiha or white marriage.

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 10:04am On Apr 19, 2018
chivic:
Nothing is wrong but can be wrong if the church you attend frowns at it.
Why do people do court wedding,was there court wedding before?
Why do people wear white wedding gown was it like that before?
As the world is changing a lot of things are changing.

And just for the records, most church liase with the court and as such when you wed in the church a copy is sent to the court to make the wedding legally binding.This actually protects the lady in terms of divorce or disagreement.But traditional wedding might not protect you (lady or even the guy) given the current trend of things.


this isn't what I'm talking about oga.

I said what is wrong with sex after traditional marriage and you're saying another thing

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by abbaapple: 10:05am On Apr 19, 2018
Having sex after traditional marriage is a curse!

Ask NwaAmaikpe's sister! Curse don follow ahm finish! angry

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by ryd3(m): 10:05am On Apr 19, 2018
My position is this. Unless u a virgin, no sex before marriage is hypocrisy. If traditional marriage can be termed as marriage and recognised in customary law, then sex after this event is okay.

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by BruncleZuma: 10:05am On Apr 19, 2018
Nothing...you are married

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Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by SuperBlack: 10:06am On Apr 19, 2018
jnrbayano:
Nothing
A lot
Re: What Is Wrong With Sex After Traditional Marriage? by GreenArrow1(m): 10:06am On Apr 19, 2018
Nonsense question. It's like asking what is wrong with rain.

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