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5 Tips Your Mom Never Told You About Marriage by jannydear(f): 5:18am On Apr 19, 2018
Every married couple, especially the women, have dreams when it comes to life after their marriage. Marriage often comes with a lot of changes in one’s life. Some persons may cruise through marital life smoothly, while many face a turbulence. A pleasurable and happy married life is one where you learn to appreciate the rose in spite of the thorns. Here are six tips on what every person should know about marriage and the life after.

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Get ready for new responsibilities in your new house
You enter a new house with new responsibilities in marriage. You have to adjust to take in in-laws, even though it may be trying. Some in-laws are understanding, but some can be very difficult to cope with. Some bride may have issues with their in-laws at some point in their marriage. Be patient and at least make efforts to win their hearts over.

Marriage is similar to compromise
Finding a middle ground for both couples is healthy for marriage, which is an indication that both the partners value their relationship. Your happiness will always be a primacy but caring about others will make your life a lot more delightful. Be prepared for small sacrifices and compromises, but make sure you are not the only person compromising.

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Compatibility matters for a marriage to work
Don’t marry your partner because they look good physically, financially or otherwise, it would crash fast when those qualities are no longer there. A marriage without trust and compatibility is heading for the rocks. Trust and compatibility function like oxygen that makes a marriage work by overcoming all odds.

Arguments are normal, but make it constructive
Fights and argument between married couples isn’t something uncommon. When two people stay together, it is normal for them to have a change of attitude once in a while, but it is these small quarrels tends to draw couple even closer. However, it is important that you resolve the issue constructively. Holding on to grudges for too long is not healthy for marriage.

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You become a multitasker
In most cases, a woman rarely had to look after the household chores before marriage. However, marriage changes that. You now have to select the daily menu, take care of professional commitment, do the laundry, and sooner or later, your task increases with the arrival of a child(ren). So you have to get prepared to become a multitasker.
Source: http://www.healthdiary365.com/2018/04/19/5-tips-your-mom-never-told-you-about-marriage/

Re: 5 Tips Your Mom Never Told You About Marriage by EYIBLESSN(m): 6:01am On Apr 19, 2018
Beautiful ideas...


All I want is Peace and Peace of Mind by Time I will be ready.


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