I'm dating a girl in my compound for abt 2 yds nw.
My family are against the relationship because we are neighbours and probably because they knw so many negative tinz abt dem..
But I dnt care.. I'm in lv with ha..
Last week I had an alterations with my Parent over d issue and I told dem to back off..
She heard d noise and later asked me wat happened, I told ha wat happened..
Since den it seems she changed..
She started ignoring me.. I tink she's abt to break up wit me..
I'm nt surprised tho.. But anytime I tink abt ha.. It breaks my heart.. I find myself crying..
Pls advice me..

Be a man and quit the relationship.

Your ability to endure a heartbreak is about the greatest strengths there is on earth. Seek to have that strength.

Spare the girl and yourself the wrath of both both parents.

OR

better still get a job and move to your own apartment and begin steps to marry her. When your parents see that you have a job and you pay your own rent, they'll respect your opinions better.

owhizkid:
I'm dating a girl in my compound for abt 2 yds nw.
My family are against the relationship because we are neighbours and probably because they knw so many negative tinz abt dem..
But I dnt care.. I'm in lv with ha..
Last week I had an alterations with my Parent over d issue and I told dem to back off..
She heard d noise and later asked me wat happened, I told ha wat happened..
Since den it seems she changed..
She started ignoring me.. I tink she's abt to break up wit me..
I'm nt surprised tho.. But anytime I tink abt ha.. It breaks my heart.. I find myself crying..
Pls advice me..

You find yourself crying, smh

Crying over a lady that is not your wife
Crying over a lady that might have another boyfriend
Crying over a lady that wouldn't think twice before dumping your sorry ass

You my friend are a mumu

You write like a 4 year old

smh ..children!
you dey mama house and you dey get girlfriend

Op dnt mind d posters above me, I can bet most of em hv don worse.

Just hv a talk with her letting her knw u understand her concern abt ur parents' disapproval. B a man abt it n let her knw u make d decision on matters concerning ur heart, not ur parents. If she still feels reluctant, she prob doesnt love u, then, I say u can then mind d posters above n move on.

xendra:
smh ..children!

you dey mama house and you dey get girlfriend

Obedience is better than sacrifice hence more glorifying. Honestly, I wonder how you find it pleasurable staying a relationship with a lady that lives in the same compound with you and not just that, you're also living under your parents roof. This means that your parents don't only cater for your well-being but for that of your girlfriend (and possibly your girlfriend friends too) since it's obvious that they pay for even water you drink in the house.

You no get shame eh!

GODPUNISHUNA:


You find yourself crying, smh

Crying over a lady that is not your wife
Crying over a lady that might have another boyfriend
Crying over a lady that wouldn't think twice before dumping your sorry ass

You my friend are a mumu

I knw.. I'm a Mumu.. I'm sure you've never been in love.. You've Neva broken up b4..
And yes she has dropped my ass..
Dats d help I need.. To overcome d pain and d heartache..
Thanks all d same