What do you do if your girlfriend insults you on different occassions in front of your neighbour?

I didn't cause a scene. But spoke to her later about it, which she partially denied and partially admitted that she was only joking, WDH  

Hmmn, you need to earn her respect. You obviously haven't!

dump her. she is certainly full of herself and she is a complete waste of your time.

Won't U count urself lucky it was just the neigbours she did it in front of? What if she did it in front of ur family?

Tell her how U feel about her condescending behaviour and tell her how u will not correct her so kindly next time. If she no dey hear word, free her.

@OP
Next time it would be in front of a live audience. Watch your back!

Ujujoan:

Hmmn, you need to earn her respect. You obviously haven't!

Na wah oooh!

@ OP: She obviously doesn't respect u. If she can't call u aside (in private) and enumerate ur shortcomings, then u need 2 let her go.

Maybe you should learn the different between jokes and disrespect.

If she intentionally disrespected you, then it needs to be addressed, a woman should respect herself by respecting her man.

And you came to cry on the shoulders of Nairalanders, For what?

if she isnt worth it do away with her
i hate that

your neighbour is your rival. she has just given you the signal!

rickie4us:

your neighbour is your rival. she has just given you the signal!

Exactly! You better act fast before it gets outta hand cuz next time she is goina spit on ur face and tell you it was a mistake.

ruskiee:

@OP
Next time it would be in front of a live audience. Watch your back!

What did she insulted you with? Did she say your dick was too little? Did she say you cant Bleep? I mean what was the insult about maybe it wasn't a big deal to HER, maybe you guys communication is a little VAGUE,

hixxx1:

dump her. she is certainly full of herself and she is a complete waste of your time.

Na wa for you o! you don jump to conclusion be that,what if the guy loves her?

do the same thing to her

that women for you

Your girl disrespected you openly and all you can do is ask her about it later?
Where are your balls, dude?
You shouldn't be in a relationship in which you're not respected.

whats the big deal one babe even gave me a detty SLAP.  I didnt do anything I just stopped calling her- shes been calling for the last 4 years, telling me she loves me.

I acted like it really pained- when it didnt

Every new year, my bday and in between she wants to buy me stuff - you see the type of hold I have on her psychologically.
Do the same and im sure she beg you to come back.

If she ever does it again, tell her TO SHUT UP.

Seriously, some chics don't know when to be quiet.

What ever you do, don't do the same back to her, cause you will become her, so whe will be leading you. You the man you lead. If she does it again, just immediately walk away and completely ignore her. Do not explain your self to her or discuss it any longer, this is validation, and women like validation. I she does it a few more times, tell her she is going to have to leave. She will learn to respect you.

blank:

If she ever does it again, tell her TO SHUT UP.

Seriously, some chics don't know when to be quiet.

Do women ever shut up?
My biggest weapon in situations like this is to ignore the chick for a while, she'll be sickened by my silence. If the bad attitude continues though, I simply break up. There are just too many pretty women around, why should I be stuck with a disrespectful one?

^^And you think it's that easy?

mama-gee:

^^And you think it's that easy?

meaning?

Faher:

meaning?

Meaning, its not easy to break up with a chic if you really love her and to get a better person. its just not that easy.

@ topic. I find it very irritating when i see ladies that dis their guys in front of others.
I personally want to physically shut them up.

mama-gee:

^^You think it's easy to get one of those respectful "Pretty" women.

Game knows game, lady.
But at least I know I can get a Lady who'll not act like that in public.
Only one girl I've dated acted like that and I was able to find another Lady who was much better behaved.
So, yes it's easy.

blank:

Meaning, its not easy to break up with a chic if you really love her and to get a better person. its just not that easy.

@ topic. I find it very irritating when i see ladies that dis their guys in front of others.
I personally want to physically shut them up.

I get your point totally,
but I said "If the bad attitude continues", I'll break up.
I can't live like that for 6 months.
Besides, telling a lady to shut up does not shut her up, silence does the trick.

rickie4us:

your neighbour is your rival. she has just given you the signal!

It could be, because she's never insulted me before before in front of any other people. This insult also takes place when my neighbour is around.

What did you do that warranted such reaction?
BTW, i ain't condoning her action but your babe def ain't mad and I'm pretty sure she wouldn't have insulted you for no apparent reason.
Oya tell us what really went down

kayc33:

do the same thing to her

I thought about that, but i don't want to bring myself down to her level. I've decided to ban her from visiting me.

jay bee:

What did you do that warranted such reaction?
BTW, i ain't condoning her action but your babe def ain't mad and I'm pretty sure she wouldn't have insulted you for no apparent reason.
Oya tell us what really went down

Yes, i think we need to know the truth here.