hello nairalanders,
This question gut into my mind this morning because I really want to maintain celibacy in my relationship, you might be having that sex just for fun but apart from that why do you chose to involve that in your relationship?
I once told my girl that am not ready to carry out that fatherhood responsibility, beware am not trying to be too religious or the holiest young dude, it's just personal decision,
am a normal human like you, I do have sexual arousals but I have to be in control,
my mentor once told me that "if you fail to discipline yourself in life you will never go far in life" so I have to start from this.
I remember one of my client that raised this kind of issue telling me he can't do without sex in his relationship because he wants to be benefitting from his girl since she's not even ready to contribute to the betterment of the relationship, she's just like a selfish parasite he said,
comes to my house almost everyday sleeping without going out there to fetch for any source of income,
am not even planning to marry her ,he said .

Team virgin

to me sex is not an option,its a necessity. I can't imagine myself been in a relationship without sex.what's d essence of d relationship itself.. let us explore each other and know our flaws then make amends.....even a normal thinking girl would know dat something is wrong with you the moment u tell her dat no sex in d relationship

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