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How Long Can You Stay Without No Contact To Your Partner As A Way To Punish Them / Should I Tell My Ex-Boyfriend That I Want Him Back? (2) (3) (4)

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. by Girl846(f): 5:25am On May 21, 2010
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Re: . by Faher(m): 6:04am On May 21, 2010
We're not in his mind, lady cheesy

Anyway, you should be friendly to people

But in this case, you should be careful not to let him get intimate

Otherwise, you're likely to get hurt again.
Re: . by Condom: 7:19am On May 21, 2010
He does not just "want to be friends".
Typical sailor's lie.
He did not appreciate what he had until he lost it
Is that the kind of boyfriend/man you want?
Now he wants you back because he is full of regrets and he misses you
If you take him back it will be because you miss him
and because you want to chance it, to see if it will likely work out this time
Ask yourself what has changed since your break up
Did some magic tree suddenly strike him upside his head to tell him he needs to treat you right?
He will use you as a filler and quick fix until he finds another ladybird that will dance to his tunes
He may have been confused about his feelings toward you, but that gives him no right to game you, lie to you, and betray your trust
Be careful, else you will be back here again looking like a fool once he hurts you AGAIN.
Re: . by ElRazur: 7:30am On May 21, 2010
You guys are just posting long story.

I think he may be after one thing and one thing only. Booty call.

grin
Re: . by Luvties(m): 8:57am On May 21, 2010
I suggest u give him another chance since he has apologised, but if u truely love him like before.

No 1 is perfect, just be very careful.

The devil you know is ,
Re: . by Nobody: 9:29am On May 21, 2010
he wants more
Re: . by boomii(f): 10:48am On May 21, 2010
He wants more grin grin grin
If its just platonic level then no qualms.
Re: . by Nobody: 1:39pm On May 21, 2010
as usual
boy dates girl
boy leaves girl
boy realizes mistake
boy comes back with the friendship approach

but come to think of it,
what does he really want
he wants to get back in the action.

my advice
make the friendship process a very long one,
take him through personality and sincerity tests
be yourself and don't be fooled

if he's taking you for a ride
he will not pass the sincerity tests

if he has not changed
he will not pass the personality tests

don't rush into conclusions and in the end follow your heart.

goodluck
Re: . by iice(f): 1:44pm On May 21, 2010
Bleh if he wants to be friends. . .keep him in the friend zone.
Re: . by sesman(m): 1:49pm On May 21, 2010
its up to you, if you can handle being his friend then go for it, but i suspect he wants more than friendship,

I reckon you should keep him at arms length for now and see what happens. all the best.
Re: . by sevule(m): 5:23pm On May 21, 2010
@poster Sweetheart your ex is simply looking for a friend with benefits. My advice is simple, let your ex remain your ex, hold no feelings of bitterness towards him but move on GIRL!!!!
Re: . by Girl846(f): 11:45am On May 22, 2010
Thank you guys for your advice!!
and by the way, we never slept with each other smiley
Re: . by Caparzo(m): 11:56am On May 22, 2010
i advice u keep dis guy at a distance coz he's just being an oliver twist!!! tongue tongue



Girl846:

Thank you guys for your advice!!
and by the way, we never slept with each other smiley
grin grin grin super story grin grin grin
Re: . by DisrealAm(f): 1:12pm On May 22, 2010
grin grin grin super story grin grin grin
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NO BI SAMLL grin
Re: . by Condom: 11:56pm On Nov 26, 2010
Tell him to suck on your penny.
Re: . by Dsense(m): 12:14am On Nov 27, 2010
Whatever he's after . , If u still have feelings for him,Let him get closer nd check out if his attitude has changed to good then u guys can move on.
U have the magical stick to make things right!
Re: . by Mygoldie(f): 12:26am On Nov 27, 2010
@op pls dont forget to use CONDOM wink wink
Re: . by Condom: 12:27am On Nov 27, 2010
Mygoldie:

@op pls dont forget to use CONDOM wink wink

and don't forget to let him put it in the butt OP

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