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A Nigerian lady with the Twitter handle, @hottdamii, has taken to the platform to share how the man who coulda been her employer, demanded sex from her before he’d her give the job.

The lady, whose name is Dami, shared the screenshot of the chat she had with the said man and then told Nigerian women that the best thing to do is to employ themselves.

A quite enraged Dami also added that some men are heartless… Read the chats she had below and tell us what you think…

source : http://aftrending.com/lady-shares-chat-she-had-with-potential-employer-who-demanded-sex-from-her/

I don't know why everything is geared giving men a bad name in this country. How does you know what to do connote sleeping with the lady.

Well to be honest, the problem is hydra faced. Some ladies can do anything to get whatever they need. We grew up the phrase use what you have to get what you want. It seems to be backfiring now.

Most employment should go through private recruiting firms, I think it will reduce the occurrence of these rubbish. Everyone should be employed by merit if we must grow in this country.

So you know what to do means he's demanding for sex abi?. I'm not trying to justify the guy but every action by men are termed as sexual advances; is sex the only thing in people's head?
You know what to do might mean the following

1. You should apply officially.
2. You should come to my office and let me put you through
3. It might be a request for her CV to be sent to the email he might have provided.
4. It might even mean agency fee or bribe or what have you
5. It may also mean when are they finalising their last discussion before they talk about the job.

In the first place putting conversations you have with the opposite sex online is hypocritical in nature, defamation of personality and immature; all the ones from other guys she have ever received, why didnt she put them online as well. Abeg shift jare alabosi somborri

Untainted007:
So you know what to do means he's demanding for sex.

stop it there! Don't act like you don't know that's what he meant

That's why I went into full time business instead of seeking for a job after my Nysc..

Men and this rubbish will never end

Haba nau...this is inconclusive. You know what to do could mean a lot of things She should have let him explain himself.

continue reading here...http://aftrending.com/lady-shares-chat-she-had-with-potential-employer-who-demanded-sex-from-her/

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Reason they compare the brain of some ladies to that of fish
You two shouldnt tell me you graduated cos if you did, you bought that result cos how does "you know what to do" equates to "off your pant"

lalanice:
stop it there! Don't act like you don't know that's what he meant

victorian:
That's why I went into full time business instead of seeking for a job after my Nysc..

Men and this rubbish will never end

Broke ass bish looking for maga dat will give her "capital" to start bizness...Na u even contact the man, he has even forgotten he gave u his card...fish brain gal, "you know what to do" means he wan faq u....olodo oshi

Barzinime:
Reason they compare the brain of some ladies to that of fish
You two shouldnt tell me you graduated cos if you did, you bought that result cos how does "you know what to do" equates to "off your pant"

No need answering you. But lemme make this clear

You are just delusional, pretending u don't know what's going on in the country.

To get a job, or even keep the job, one of the male executive Or Supervisor, or manager will indirectly request to complete the interview in a discreet place.

Even one man business, the miserable Oga Sex in their office with desperate applicants. Only very few are disciplined.. The rest zero.

In the government sector, it's not excluded. The Oga handling some departments do have sexx with their workers, single and married.. No one is exempted.

We all know what's going on in these offices.

So coming here to rant like someone out of space is uncalled for.

I don't need to clarify my degree and certificate to you. Cos u are not even important sef.

Keep living in a world u have created for yourself.

Mtchewww. Birds of the same feathers. Coming online to cry foul.

victorian:
That's why I went into full time business instead of seeking for a job after my Nysc..

Men and this rubbish will never end

Yes.. The hopeless men in your life abi
Men like your father.
Men like your brothers
Men like your uncles
Men like all the useless and hopeless male relations

Let me now tell you, if you dont have any sense of reasoning

You know what to do could mean


Go online and apply for a position.

or bring your application letter together with your c.v.

The man never said sleep with me and you are here assuming.

You dont need to tell me your degree/certificate cos i can evaluate you from your thinking.

Most of you girls are bored, lonely and scorned, seeking attention with all manner of lies/deceit to make yourselves feel alive & relevant

Nonsense

victorian:











No need answering you. But lemme make this clear

You are just delusional, pretending u don't know what's going on in the country.

To get a job, or even keep the job, one of the male executive Or Supervisor, or manager will indirectly request to complete the interview in a discreet place.

Even one man business, the miserable Oga Sex in their office with desperate applicants. Only very few are disciplined.. The rest zero.

In the government sector, it's not excluded. The Oga handling some departments do have sexx with their workers, single and married.. No one is exempted.

We all know what's going on in these offices.

So coming here to rant like someone out of space is uncalled for.

I don't need to clarify my degree and certificate to you. Cos u are not even important sef.

Keep living in a world u have created for yourself.

Mtchewww. Birds of the same feathers. Coming online to cry foul.

Barzinime:
Let me now tell you, if you dont have any sense of reasoning

You know what to do could mean


Go online and apply for a position.

or bring your application letter together with your c.v.

The man never said sleep with me and you are here assuming.

You dont need to tell me your degree/certificate cos i can evaluate you from your thinking.

Most of you girls are bored, lonely and scorned, seeking attention with all manner of lies/deceit to make yourselves feel alive & relevant

Nonsense

You are the one with no sense of reasoning.

Idiot!

See exactly what we are talking about,
I know you are pained, but i dont blame you its the atom size mucus you call a brain that doesnt process information well.
you think every guy wants to sleep with you girls, especially your type with rotten pvssy.
F**king Douchebag!

victorian:










You are the one with no sense of reasoning.

Idiot!

Barzinime:
Reason they compare the brain of some ladies to that of fish
You two shouldnt tell me you graduated cos if you did, you bought that result cos how does "you know what to do" equates to "off your pant"

look seriously you need to shut up since you want to act dumb because you are not a lady.


Call any lady fish brain only if the one who birthed you is.

Interesting...

Please read properly before you quote me,

The mouth runs faster than the brain,

This is exactly what i was taking about, some of you ladies give others a bad name.
Or does the man that fathered you sleep with any woman that comes to him for help

lalanice:
look seriously you need to shut up since you want to act dumb because you are not a lady.


Call any lady fish brain only if the one who birthed you is.

Barzinime:
See exactly what we are talking about,
I know you are pained, but i dont blame you its the atom size mucus you call a brain that doesnt process information well.
you think every guy wants to sleep with you girls, especially your type with rotten pvssy.
F**king Douchebag!

No need stooping to your level.

You are a frustrated thing. What a lowlife.

Bye asszhole.

I just cant believe what am reading.
Am pretty sure the applicant didnt share the full conversation. If he truly demaded sex, she would upload it. Her initial thoughts to that message made her to go online to get people to give her free money
Girls and flying into conclusion is like rice and beans

Barzinime:
Please read properly before you quote me,

The mouth runs faster than the brain,

This is exactly what i was taking about, some of you ladies give others a bad name.
Or does the man that fathered you sleep with any woman that comes to him for help

your problem exactly. Its y I keep telling you to shut up

All these frustrated single mothers and old newspapers littering the forum with their foolishness and shallow mentality,should please explain to us (sane minds) in an unambiguous terms,the relationship between "you know what to do" and come sleep with me.

cc;lalasticlala

Now i see

Proverbs 27:22 says, “You cannot separate fools from their foolishness

lalanice:
your problem exactly. Its y I keep telling you to shut up

Even eedris said it in his song. "You know what to do" ..... Naija and this rubbing of back thing ehn......Lord let my helper locate me without asking for anything in return

NL has given the voiceless a sense of belonging.

So you can rant all you want on here

Worthless piece of sh*T

victorian:


No need stooping to your level.

I am a frustrated thing. i am a lowlife.

asszhole.

Thatnawtichick:
Even eedris said it in his song. "You know what to do" ..... Naija and this rubbing of back thing ehn......Lord let my helper locate me without asking for anything in return

He will ask