Oh!! yea!! we had it all beautiful & fun-filled, we chose what we wanted, it came in choices & we selected in great style.....

Many singles in marriageable age have some piercing regrets today as a result of wrong decisions made when romantic opportunities were in abundance. We have some of these regrets listed below..

(1) #Delay in saying YES to the one we truly love#...

There was a time a guy you loved flocked your life so hard for a relationship, he went miles to please you & begged you to say YES to his toast s, but you said "I am thinking about it". You thought about it too long to a point where he became frustrated. You enjoyed the chase & his persistence, you loved him, you felt too indispensable and you never said YES/NO. Today, you wish to say YES quickly, but "abundant opportunities today may become a prayer point tomorrow". Likewise for proud handsome guys who lost a lovely lady because of pride & wish for such opportunities again.

(2) # Disposing the good guy for the bad guy #..

Love is not always your right, you pray & pay prices to enjoy it. There was a time you didn't want a good guy around you, you wanted a rude boy that will ignite your instinct; but what you didn't know is that life won't wait for you to finish your games & serve you want you want. Today, you hardly see a lady of real marriageable age looking for a bad guy to marry, but what you don't know is that sometimes, real husbands appear as good guys in periods when ladies are not ready... "You get ready for opportunities, not opportunities getting ready for you"...

(3) # Loosing your virginity #..

You can't lie to yourself, by burying virginity issue.. No matter how we see it, virginity is a plus & some people still wish they are virgins even if they try to castigate it. Though virginity is not an absolute sign someone is of good character, but it has deep value.. Virginity hastens marriage process & more guys will love to speed up marriage process with a virgin than non-virgin...As someone said "when the gift is open before it's time, NO EXCITEMENT"..

(4) # Abandoning the lady who loved you the way you are #....

I was told of a singer who regretted not marrying his previous lady. He was probably carried about with fame & pleasure & maybe flashy girls. Don't miss true love!!

I think "Not declaring your affections on time for the one you love", out of fear or some insignificant reasons, should be added to that list.