Hello good people, have got this wonderful girl who just suffered break up and I really wants to make her mine for a serious relationship because I sincerely care about her and I think I have made this known to her.We've been on a date twice and I can tell she is occupying my thoughts with a speed of light. Her gestures are encouraging too at least for a start but I seriously need to secure her and get my assurance. Yeah’all know that a pro can sometimes be tempted to be a Mumu.I want to get things right. Seniors and even colleagues in the building can help save a brother. Constructive advice will do. Thanks

Care for her like noone ever did.....be a good listener, be compassionate, don't be too forward about your feelings for her, just show her through your actions that she means the world to you but still take your time about saying it. If you can do these....I guarantee that she'll fall hopelessly for you. Good luck.

If u make he love u in heart break hmm my guy if she use u to heal she ll leave u sooner or later. Just be her friend. Help her her to heal no romance or love talk. No mistaken sexual moves even if she beg u to sex her don't do it. This is for ur sake. Just be a good friend. Give her enough space and time to heal first then u can tell her ur feelings. If u rush letting her know u love her while she is heart broken, be sure she ll fall for u but you guys won't last .

Allow her heal on her own first before being all over her. When you start being her knight in shinny armour at the point of her heartbreak, it hardly ends well. Because soon, when her eye clears, she will move on because you were a rebound

Olami479600
Don`t listen to anyone telling you to allow her heal first; they don`t know what they are saying.
Just make sure you express it to her that you`re scared she may unknowing be using you as a rebound and that you don`t want that to happen. It would clear her head.

Childish Topic, Childish OP, Childish comments.

smh

maleekfrenzy:
Care for her like noone ever did.....be a good listener, be compassionate, don't be too forward about your feelings for her, just show her through your actions that she means the world to you but still take your time about saying it. If you can do these....I guarantee that she'll fall hopelessly for you. Good luck.

what sort of care

young man don't dig your own grave.