Hey guys! I need your help on this issue.

There is this girl who is a close friend of mine. We are really close, such that, most persons think we're actually dating; which is not as it seems.

We have a thing for each other. She has a boyfriend though who doesn't live around as she is a 200L student. I professed my love to her and she's just being indecisive. We do have misunderstandings like lovers do, but we do sort them out quickly.

She's really been helpful both financially and emotionally. We do share our problems and plans with each other. We text and call virtually everyday; even at midnight hours when she is feeling unusual. Even when I'm out of town, she'd want to visit me which I don't usually agree to. I was more than a boyfriend to her. Let me simply say, we're more than dating, but not literally dating per se. She do cook for me with her own money without asking for anything. That's simply that. Now to more pressing issues...

She do get jealous when I flirt harmlessly with other girls. I know she has a thing for me, but I've asked her out and she gives no definite reply... like she's considering certain things.

She was at my place recently, and I decided to be intimate with her. She was responsive to my touches, but all of a sudden, she told me to stop and I did stop. Had I taken a step further, we would have had sex. I respected her decision cos seemed like she had second thoughts.

She left and texted me to stay away from her and also not to call nor text her anymore, but I told her I couldn't. I also told her I'd try to stay away. I apologized though.

The problem is: she's acting weird and she stays away. She ignores me (not totally though), but still, she comes to take somethings from me. It's close to three days now. She do come to my place of residence to charge her phone, but she no longer stay to talk as before, and it hurts me cos I love her. She still greet me. I even visited her to sort out the issue, but she wasn't forthcoming.

No b teenage love o and I'm no kid either.

I need your advice; what do I do? Did I do anything wrong?

Note: Please, we should all act mature. If you have nothing reasonable to contribute, simply visit the next thread.

Lalasticlala

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she's mad that you didn't take things further to bang her when she was at your place.

Aside all the goody goody act she has been putting up around you, listen my friend, there is no such thing as boys and girls being friends. MMBAAA NU! The lion and the goat never have a thing in common. She loves and care for you but you too stuck in that friendship mentality.

Something else, Nothing will bring a girl to a guy's house if she doesn't already know some form of intimacy might occur at his place.

Suck it up, Get her out her shell and spoil her like she has been spoiling you with her own money. And for the record she doesn't have a boyfriend, she considers you boyfriend worthy.

All of una just dey confused. Na her boyfriend I just dey pity. Nonsense

emm the person below me has alot to say. Let wait ok. .Meanwhile hit like if u believe the story to be true nd share if u dont.

ZinoC10:
Hey guys! I need your help on this issue.

There is this girl who is a close friend of mine. We are really close, such that, most persons think we're actually dating; which is not as it seems.

We have a thing for each other. She has a boyfriend though who doesn't live around as she is a 200L student. I professed my love to her and she's just being indecisive. We do have misunderstandings like lovers do, but we do sort them out quickly.

She's really been helpful both financially and emotionally. We do share our problems and plans with each other. We text and call virtually everyday; even at midnight hours when she is feeling unusual. Even when I'm out of town, she'd want to visit me which I don't usually agree to. I was more than a boyfriend to her. Let me simply say, we're more than dating, but not literally dating per se. She do cook for me with her own money without asking for anything. That's simply that. Now to more pressing issues...

She do get jealous when I flirt harmlessly with other girls. I know she has a thing for me, but I've asked her out and she gives no definite reply... like she's considering certain things.

She was at my place recently, and I decided to be intimate with her. She was responsive to my touches, but all of a sudden, she told me to stop and I did stop. Had I taken a step further, we would have had sex. I respected her decision cos seemed like she had second thoughts.

She left and texted me to stay away from her and also not to call nor text her anymore, but I told her I couldn't. I also told her I'd try to stay away. I apologized though.

The problem is: she's acting weird and she stays away. She ignores me (not totally though), but still, she comes to take somethings from me. It's close to three days now. She do come to my place of residence to charge her phone, but she no longer stay to talk as before, and it hurts me cos I love her. She still greet me. I even visited her to sort out the issue, but she wasn't forthcoming.

No b teenage love o and I'm no kid either.

I need your advice; what do I do? Did I do anything wrong?

Note: Please, we should all act mature. If you have nothing reasonable to contribute, simply visit the next thread.

Lalasticlala

Abeg front page

You Know She Has a Boyfriend instead of you to free her matter you are forming James Bond... Even if she dates you, she will still leave u for another dude sooner... go and find your own... cos she finds you more as a companion,, she aint attracted to yah dude

bro u dont need advise, you need sense. why bin kept in the loop by a girl who is obviously fruatrated nd confused. life is too short to be dying for any gal at this point in time. make your money nd d bitches wud be loyal

She has feelings for you buh do not want to cheat on her boyfriend,, sometimes we try to distance ourselves from people we silently love in other not to either let them know or spoil things.....

Also, there is every tendency that she wanted to test you, like if you would straf her, which you failed by trying to lamber her despite knowing she has a boyfriend.

You are in a better position to understand what really is keeping her away and I'm certain my first assertion is right......

Since you guys have been close that much,, she will miss you much,, give her time, she will definitely come around.

Youngboss54:
bro u dont need advise, you need sense. why bin kept in the loop by a girl who is obviously fruatrated nd confused. life is too short to be dying for any gal at this point in time. make your money nd d bitches wud be loyal

Lolz. Thank u broda

The girl Is a very talented relationship player

In sexologist term we called this process
SPARE TIRE

Meaning that, keeping plan B in transmission apprehension confusion state while targeting plan A

Immediately plan A fail then she fall back on plan B

austyn0:
She has feelings for you buh do not want to cheat on her boyfriend,, sometimes we try to distance ourselves from people we silently love in other not to either let them know or spoil things.....

Also, there is every tendency that she wanted to test you, like if you would straf her, which you failed by trying to lamber her despite knowing she has a boyfriend.

You are in a better position to understand what really is keeping her away and I'm certain my first assertion is right......

Since you guys have been close that much,, she will miss you much,, give her time, she will definitely come around.

Thanks for this. I really appreciate this.

Wisdom is indeed profitable.

Emotionless100:
The girl Is a very talented relationship player

In sexologist term we called this process
SPARE TIRE

Meaning that, keeping plan B in transmission apprehension confusion state while targeting plan A

Immediately plan A fail the she fall back on plan B

Lolz. Which course you study?

ZinoC10:

Lolz. Which course you study?

Womantology currently in year 3

Emotionless100:
The girl Is a very talented relationship player

In sexologist term we called this process
SPARE TIRE

Meaning that, keeping plan B in transmission apprehension confusion state while targeting plan A

Immediately plan A fail then she fall back on plan B

lol.... I nearly throw my fone away while lafin

Emotionless100:
The girl Is a very talented relationship player

In sexologist term we called this process
SPARE TIRE

Meaning that, keeping plan B in transmission apprehension confusion state while targeting plan A

Immediately plan A fail then she fall back on plan B

lol... I almost throw my fone away while lafin. .U nid to teach me more of this biko.

ZinoC10:

Thanks for this. I really appreciate this.
Wisdom is indeed profitable.

Yo welcome.

aaronson:
she's mad that you didn't take things further to bang her when she was at your place.

Aside all the goody goody act she has been putting up around you, listen my friend, there is no such thing as boys and girls being friends. MMBAAA NU! The lion and the goat never have a thing in common. She loves and care for you but you too stuck in that friendship mentality.

Something else, Nothing will bring a girl to a guy's house if she doesn't already know some form of intimacy might occur at his place.

Suck it up, Get her out her shell and spoil her like she has been spoiling you with her own money. And for the record she doesn't have a boyfriend, she considers you boyfriend worthy.

You might be right, but she actually meant "stop" like really stop.

I'm not stuck in any friendship mentality. She's being indecisive and keeping me in the loop. I tire 4 her cos I asked her out.

She even made a statement of me chasing stones when there's a diamond in front of me; until I lose that diamond

Emotionless100:


Womantology currently in year 3

I'll definitely study that course. Hope practicals are involved o? I understand what I see

You motheephuckas actually know how to complicate life which was actually meant to be simple,n!gga just phuck dat ch!ck n watch her readjust, i wonder what a matured n!gga like u claimed to be would b doing wiv an overripe tot,n still b asking questions whether to phuck or nat,n!gga next time u bring up dix kinda phucking post,i would ask dem mods to block u n yuh generation from dix forum... My 1cent....

ZinoC10:


You might be right, but she actually meant "stop" like really stop.

I'm not stuck in any friendship mentality. She's being indecisive and keeping me in the loop. I tire 4 her cos I asked her out.

She even made a statement of me chasing stones when there's a diamond in front of me; until I lose that diamond

She successfully confused you and now you have also successfully confused me.

To end this whole circle of confusion, sit her down and you guys should really talk and set sort things out. show interest in her and ask her to let you know how wants to be treated.

Headlesschicken:
You motheephuckas actually know how to complicate life which was actually meant to be simple,n!gga just phuck dat ch!ck n watch her readjust, i wonder what a matured n!gga like u claimed to be would b doing wiv an overripe tot,n still b asking questions whether to phuck or nat,n!gga next time u bring up dix kinda phucking post,i would ask dem mods to block u n yuh generation from dix forum... My 1cent....

Did u read that post at all? U need JAMES 1:5

read Yuh epistle

ZinoC10:


Did u read that post at all? U need JAMES 1:5

Headlesschicken:
You motheephuckas actually know how to complicate life which was actually meant to be simple,n!gga just phuck dat ch!ck n watch her readjust, i wonder what a matured n!gga like u claimed to be would b doing wiv an overripe tot,n still b asking questions whether to phuck or nat,n!gga next time u bring up dix kinda phucking post,i would ask dem mods to block u n yuh generation from dix forum... My 1cent....

You don't have to showcase ur stupidity. Besides, not everybody needs to immoral as u.

U need Jesus

Lalasticlala
Dominique

aaronson:
she's mad that you didn't take things further to bang her when she was at your place.

Aside all the goody goody act she has been putting up around you, listen my friend, there is no such thing as boys and girls being friends. MMBAAA NU! The lion and the goat never have a thing in common. She loves and care for you but you too stuck in that friendship mentality.

Something else, Nothing will bring a girl to a guy's house if she doesn't already know some form of intimacy might occur at his place.

Suck it up, Get her out her shell and spoil her like she has been spoiling you with her own money. And for the record she doesn't have a boyfriend, she considers you boyfriend worthy.

Since when did relations become this complicated

She want but she don't want
She is but really she isn't
She needs but not really

Naija man... the Lord is your strength

RuthDaniels:
The lady is confused. She loves her boyfriend at the same time attracted to you. You are the one she sees but her heart is elsewhere.


It's good you stopped when she asked you to, you saved yourself from deeper heart aches from the one you are suffering now. Because do you know what would have happened the morning after, if you had done it.? She would have hated you with passion and that will hurt you more.

Good thing she's giving you the cold treatment now, take advantage of that and move on

Thank you @RuthDaniels. I've seen your posts on several topics, and I must confess, you're very knowledgeable and wise. Thanks

LivingFree:


Since did relations become this complicated

She want but she don't want
She is but really she isn't
She needs but not really

Naija man... the Lord is your strength

Clearly, the babe is confused but when the guy tends to set her straight, she ends up confusing the poor guy. The guy self don tire because it just seem like a circle of confusion.

aaronson:
Clearly, the babe is confused but when the guy tends to set her straight, she ends up confusing the poor guy. The guy self don tire because it just seem like a circle of confusion.

Lolz... pity a broda na. Thanks though

Stupid kid

ZinoC10:


You don't have to showcase ur stupidity. Besides, not everybody needs to immoral as u.

U need Jesus

ZinoC10:


Lolz... pity a broda na. Thanks though

lol you got this bro, you can handle the situation.