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3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by queenxey1(f): 11:46pm On May 18, 2018 |
here are the top 3 reasons I’ve heard, from the cheaters themselves, about why women cheat: 1. Lack of connection. The primary driver that women have in an intimate relationship is to feel connected. For women, the feeling of connection is a mix of chemical bliss that creates attraction and intimacy. When women feel disconnected from their spouse, the feelings of intimacy fade. The possibility of a new connection with someone else opens up. And these emotional connections can easily lead to physical affairs. That can happen through Facebook with an old boyfriend, a friendly co-worker, or even an intriguing stranger. The common theme is simply that an emotional connection was created and led to the affair. 2. Vengeance. This may be unpopular to some, but in my experience, about 1 in 5 affairs by women happen because of “pay-back”. It’s revenge for the husband’s affair, or maybe even vengeance for some perceived wrong or mistreatment. Numerous women have confided that their affairs were intentional “pay-back” because their husbands didn’t help out enough with their newborn babies and toddlers. Others have mentioned that it was revenge for an unmet expectation around Valentine’s Day or their Birthday, or Anniversary. I’ve heard directly from women who cheated because their husbands wouldn’t take time off of work or change jobs, or didn’t help out enough around the house. 3. Unsatisfying sex. It’s no secret that people’s stressful, fully scheduled, fast-paced living leads to unsatisfying sex lives. Lack of passionate and fulfilling sex is another driver for women who have affairs. While men may complain about the quantity of sex, women complain about the quality. Women often comment on the lack of sex initiated by their husbands, with the desired amount of passion. Here’s a sample of what they’ve said to me; “I want him to just take me spontaneously”, “I want him to throw me on the bed”, “I want him to be more aggressive.” These statements often include far more colorful words. The mistake that a man might make is thinking that his wife, now a mom of three, has lost her desire for hot, steamy sex. She hasn’t. And many women are not willing to settle for a passion-less marriage. There is no doubt that women are often less satisfied with their marriage than men. Not only are women having affairs at increasing rates, they initiate divorce at staggering levels. According to a well-known study of 2,262 heterosexual couples over 5 years by Stanford sociologist Michael Rosenfeld, women initiated 69% of divorces. The details of the study further indicate that college educated women initiate divorce over 80% of the time. Maybe this is a wake-up call to men. If you’re a man reading this article, you are probably shocked. If you are a woman reading this, it probably just confirms what you already know. The needs of both men and women will continue to be met; either inside the marriage or outside with someone else. So if there's a problem, it's important you seek support to solve it. Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique Seun 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by tunex4christ(m): 11:54pm On May 18, 2018 |
Wasn't guilty of any this.. She still cheated 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by queenxey1(f): 12:01am On May 19, 2018 |
tunex4christ: then u have to talk one on one to her.. remember behind every smoke there is a little fire.. thr most be a reason |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by mamba808(m): 12:03am On May 19, 2018 |
Nice observations. To me, when we are not in tune to what you want. Call our attentions to it or raise an alarm over any change in attitude. Am ashamed to some men that their wives fall on the third point. Let them try harder even after hard day at work. My Advice: Don't be ashamed to ask her to get anything that will make you perform more. Nigerian women love it when you seek their assistance in this area. #GBAM 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by SoapQueen(f): 12:05am On May 19, 2018 |
queenxey1: Let us not give excuses for what is wrong! A cheat is a cheat. You can't claim to love someone and be spreading your legs for every Tom, Dick(pun intended) and Harry. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by queenxey1(f): 12:19am On May 19, 2018 |
mamba808:exactly |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by queenxey1(f): 12:20am On May 19, 2018 |
SoapQueen:hmmmm 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by Nobody: 1:21am On May 19, 2018 |
These are deep reasons men should take serious. |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by Nobody: 1:22am On May 19, 2018 |
These are deep reasons men should take serious. mamba808: |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by Ivorianaija(f): 1:26am On May 19, 2018 |
It's funny how many guys expect their woman to stay with them after they've cheated, and sadly some of them will. But when their woman even breathes in another man's direction he will go cow-mad! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by shugaboo(f): 1:33am On May 19, 2018 |
4. As backup plan... to avoid stories that touches the heart, they won't put all their eggs in one basket. |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by queenxey1(f): 1:40am On May 19, 2018 |
Ivorianaija: hmmm |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by queenxey1(f): 1:41am On May 19, 2018 |
shugaboo: awwwwn |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by SoapQueen(f): 1:51am On May 19, 2018 |
queenxey1:Anything? 1 Like |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by SoapQueen(f): 1:52am On May 19, 2018 |
shugaboo:I really wish I could have the heart to do this. A friend of mine is boinking two guys. They keep running after her like ants to sugar. She doesn't even bother herself. 2 Likes |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by Nobody: 6:39am On May 19, 2018 |
SoapQueen: Never underestimate the power of easy pussy |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by swiz123(m): 7:53am On May 19, 2018 |
Most, if not all ladies chest because they crave for new adventures |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by femi4: 10:18am On May 19, 2018 |
I didnt see Money here 3 Likes |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by jericco1(m): 10:19am On May 19, 2018 |
you're a liar 2 Likes |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by shugaboo(f): 11:31am On May 19, 2018 |
SoapQueen:yea because men love the chase... give the guy all your love you will see him misbehaving. 1 Like |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by queenxey1(f): 11:33am On May 19, 2018 |
gevnet: i agreed with you |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by queenxey1(f): 11:37am On May 19, 2018 |
femi4:lol not all women are gold digger (not all) |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by queenxey1(f): 11:37am On May 19, 2018 |
femi4:lol not all women are gold digger (not all) |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by TANKDESTROYER(m): 11:54am On May 19, 2018 |
Not entirely true... 1 Like |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by kmaster007: 12:30pm On May 19, 2018 |
Money 1 Like |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by coolestofall(m): 12:47pm On May 19, 2018 |
shugaboo:I wnt lie, I'm guilty of this. Once a gal don fall finish, I lose interest. But those stubborn ones I keep chasing after regardless of if d one in love is hotter or not. |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by shugaboo(f): 12:51pm On May 19, 2018 |
coolestofall:I noticed same, any guy I'm stubborn with chases me to the end of the world |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by coolestofall(m): 1:01pm On May 19, 2018 |
shugaboo:It sounds crazy right? I feel its just dat we like unpredictability in a gal. Not a girl u will push n she will still come back. Even if d girl is in love, always hv self esteem. |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by Nobody: 1:10pm On May 19, 2018 |
SoapQueen:do the two guys know they both bonking her? |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by Nobody: 1:13pm On May 19, 2018 |
shugaboo:hope u dey chop d guy money wen im dey chase u? |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by shugaboo(f): 1:21pm On May 19, 2018 |
lefulefu:noo I must chop that guy, I must chop that guy naso ashawo take start o. I run away as if I'm being chase by a masquerade |
Re: 3 Honest Reasons Why Women CHEAT Even On Guys They Love by Nobody: 1:22pm On May 19, 2018 |
What is wrong is wrong. OP, it would seem you're vastly experienced with this. 1 Like |
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