The good book says women will always want to control men but won't accomplish that goal. starting from when a girl starts dating, relationships she is into no matter how many is in her control, she demands, order and chose whatever will happen, she controls what controls men "pussy" and get almost what she needs in life. she basically control the relationship hence the guy(s). This goes on for years till she has go round and experience a lot and enjoy, but when age, society and menopause pressure come in she quickly tie one guy down( probably one in the friend zone). Then she gets married and the table turns around the oppressor becomes the oppressed she is being controlled by the man, the man demands basic chores, her womb and loyalty ( which is biologically difficult for women). Just few years of this a lady starts complaining what she had done to several guys for more than 5,10years when dating.

bottom line, ladies rule relationship guys rule marriages.